"An orgasm is an orgasm is an orgasm!" she told me, while lamenting our continued preoccupation with "vaginal" orgasm.
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There's the storied g-spot orgasm, the cutting edge "a-spot" ("anterior fornix") orgasm, the even more obscure "u-spot" (urethra) orgasm, the cringe-y sounding cervical orgasm, and for boring underachievers, the basic and accessible clitoral orgasm.
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You're about to have an orgasm (or you're having an orgasm, or you just had an orgasm) Similarly, some people report feeling a tingling sensation just before, just after, or during an orgasm.
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If I had an orgasm, it wasn't really an orgasm.
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What I'm looking for in an oral sex simulator isn't to orgasm quickly, but to orgasm the way a human mouth makes me orgasm.
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It's not how you had an orgasm, it's that you did have an orgasm.
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The lack of orgasm equality in porn might even be impacting our IRL orgasm equality.
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Myth: There are different types of orgasms, like a vaginal orgasm and a clitoral orgasm.
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I don't think female orgasm is any more difficult, complicated, or elusive than male orgasm.
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Unfortunately, there's an "orgasm hierarchy" that suggests that people who can orgasm through penetration alone are some how superior to those who can only orgasm through clitoral stimulation, she said.
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Alcohol can inhibit orgasm Drinking is all fun and games until you can't have an orgasm.
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The problem is that we approach the female orgasm the way we approach the male orgasm.
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They were also a little disappointed to find out that it wasn't a secret spot inside a woman's body that, if touched just once, would lead to orgasm after orgasm after orgasm.
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Even when wet, Katerina is ever the dry fantasy, tossing off orgasm after orgasm from penetration alone.
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It's very common for women to never have an orgasm, and some people specifically can't orgasm from oral sex, says Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist who specializes in teaching women how to orgasm.
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You have a peak of sympathetic stimulation from orgasm in your brain, and then you come to an orgasm, and all the sympathetic stimulation from the orgasm causes a sudden withdrawal of chemicals.
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"When you have an orgasm in a lucid dream, you are present, your brain is switched on, and what you are experiencing is not a body orgasm but a mind orgasm," Morley claims.
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And, others say the reason behind the gender orgasm gap is the cultural prioritisation of the male orgasm.
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At best, the orgasm button of the near future will probably produce something that's really just orgasm-adjacent.
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Namely, that we think women should be able to orgasm from intercourse because men can orgasm from intercourse.
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Read these stories next: How To Tell If You're Having An Orgasm — Because It's Not Always Obvious 17 People Describe Their First Orgasm — & Wow How To Have An Orgasm Without Taking Your Clothes Off
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Once that first orgasm happens, keep it going by circling back to what made you orgasm the first time.
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Orgasm Sounds (Women, Real, Orgasm, Sex, Sound, Girl, Porn, Adult, Fx)SpotifyYep, it's exactly what it says it is.
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For a researcher like Prause, a so-called g-spot orgasm is indistinguishable from a so-called clitoral orgasm.
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We also often get fixated on orgasm being the money shot, that penile thrusting is causing this incredible orgasm.
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According to Planned Parenthood, 15% of women have difficulty reaching orgasm, and 10% report never having an orgasm during sex.
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My body's anticipation for orgasm obviously helped, but what if I can make my brain trigger orgasm when I'm conscious?
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So it's definitely possible to also orgasm at night, but you can have a wet dream without an orgasm, too.
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We're talking about a lazy Sunday morning diddle, with orgasm after orgasm rolling in, and nothing else on the agenda.
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This is sometimes called a "sex flush" or "orgasm flush" — and NARS' famous "Orgasm" blush is designed to mimic it.
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Orgasm too is the release of intense emotion — indeed, orgasm research often characterized in the psychology literature as emotion research.
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No one is happy with how their body works: I hear from women who squirt but want to stop squirting; I hear from women who don't squirt but want to squirt; women who orgasm from clitoral stimulation want to orgasm from internal stimulation; women who orgasm from internal stimulation want to orgasm from clitoral stimulation.
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And another study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine found that men who smoked daily were more likely to experience inability to orgasm, reach orgasm too quickly, and reach orgasm too slowly compared to those who never smoked.
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If you want to learn how to orgasm, the first step is to stop focusing on trying to have an orgasm.
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"Most of us are orgasm-obsessed, so the thought of not making orgasm the goal can seem downright baffling," Marin says.
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Specifically, they looked at questions having to do with demographics and sexual history, orgasm during intercourse, orgasm quality, and genital touching.
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They compared how often husbands and wives said they actually orgasm during sex to how often their partners think they orgasm.
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This idea of always reaching orgasm as "normal" in turn puts pressure on people to orgasm during uncomfortable consensual sexual experiences.
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" According to Dr. Bowers, people that "are able to orgasm pre-surgery, they're very highly likely to be able to orgasm afterwards.
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Edging refers to masturbating or having sex to the edge of orgasm and then withdrawing—often several times—before having an orgasm.
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When you put pressure on yourself to orgasm, you become more stressed about not orgasming, which only makes experiencing orgasm that much harder.
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In last night's episode, "Witches," the sex-positive orgasm advocate, Ilana, seeks help from an orgasm coach (also named Betty), inspired by the real-life Dodson, as she struggles with a sudden inability to achieve orgasm due to the 2016 presidential election.
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As the authors of this study suggest, this lack of orgasm equality on screen may be contributing to the persistent orgasm gap off screen.
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The vaginal and clitoral orgasm can be elusive for some people, and understanding their bodies, by examining how they orgasm (and why) could help.
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Because a woman's orgasm has properties that are unique -- different from a man's orgasm -- it probably has a unique, if unknown, function, he added.
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Letting your partner know when you're going to orgasm (or not orgasm) might feel momentarily gauche, but it's worth it in the long run.
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The medical community long discarded this as "phantom orgasm," but scans now suggest what's happening in their brains looks basically like any other orgasm.
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They may have trouble getting aroused, or reaching orgasm, or their arousal and orgasm may feel different from how it did before their injuries.
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While it's true that orgasm can be an emotional experience, most of the time, learning how to orgasm is really an issue of technique.
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A brief history of orgasm abstinenceDenying oneself orgasm in pursuit of some higher goal or ideals of sexual purity is not a new movement.
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"Freud contended that the clitoral orgasm was adolescent, and that upon puberty, when began having intercourse with men, women should transfer the center of the orgasm to the vagina," the feminist Anne Koedt wrote in the famous 1970 essay, The Myth of Vaginal Orgasm.
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Sex that ends in orgasm is typically the goal for most people, but one woman's orgasm was so intense, it landed her in the hospital.
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I'm guessing you feel inadequate because, just like I used to believe, having a vaginal orgasm is often considered superior than having a clitoral orgasm.
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Mashable asked gynaecologists, sex therapists, sex educators, and orgasm equality activists what heterosexual sex partners can do to bridge the orgasm gap in their own bedroom.
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Even describing a dirty fantasy while you're having sex can result in a mind-blowing blended orgasm, because some people can orgasm from sexual fantasy alone.
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Barry Komisaruk [at Rutgers Univeristy] did a study published in 1986, [which found that women's] pain threshold was elevated dramatically after orgasm and not before orgasm.
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"It is therefore problematic at best to define a 'clitoral orgasm' as a phenomenon distinct from a 'vaginal orgasm,'" declared one intensive medical review from 2015.
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The stakes can seem high when your partner is between your legs and their next breath is contingent on when you finally orgasm — if you ever orgasm.
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If what Dr. Whipple tells me is correct—that orgasm can be produced from imagery alone—then I should theoretically be able to think myself to orgasm.
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There are big differences in male and female orgasm, though: female orgasm is longer — over 20 seconds, on average, compared to three to 10 seconds for men.
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It's important to note that crying during orgasm doesn't necessarily mean you feel sad — in fact, many people who cry during orgasm say that they feel great.
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If you've never had an orgasm — or if you orgasm infrequently — and you want to, the best way to have one is to spend some quality time masturbating.
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If you're playing with yourself at the same time, you might cum before achieving the full prostate orgasm; however, it will probably be a better orgasm than usual.
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The female orgasm is a strange, powerful thing, and women get off in all kinds of unexpected ways—from root vegetables to the mythic orgasm-inducing musical note.
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The second night was both the first time someone went down on Kirsten and the first time she had an orgasm; the orgasm part happened more than once.
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First, there's seems to be a pretty big orgasm gap in online porn: Whereas guys appear to reach orgasm the vast majority of the time, most women do not.
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Part of the Mayo Clinic's definition of anorgasmia (the medical term for consistent difficulty reaching orgasm) is that the lack of orgasm distresses you or interferes with your relationship.
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Knowing what, exactly, an orgasm is seems like a reasonable basis for determining where it originates and ultimately manifests — the apparent mission of proselytizers of increasingly elaborate orgasm types.
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"Representations of male and female orgasm in mainstream pornography may serve to perpetuate unrealistic beliefs and expectations in relation to female orgasm and male sexual performance," the authors wrote.
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" - Sharon, 22 "Cried when I could not orgasm.
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" - Joey, 35 "I have never had an orgasm.
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This disparity promotes the problematic idea that the male orgasm should be the priority during sex—it's an essential part of any heterosexual encounter, while the female orgasm is not.
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That said, if you're not able to orgasm or have trouble orgasming (like 10-15% of women), then it's possible that trying to orgasm could stress you out even more.
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This allowed ability and ease of orgasm becoming more variable in women over millions of years and is why orgasm frequency is much more variable in women than in men.
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"It made an impression on me that only 25% of women have orgasm reliably with intercourse and a third of women never or rarely have orgasm with intercourse," Lloyd said.
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During sex, I'd have orgasm after orgasm, as though my body was holding it all in during that god-awful week of PMS, and was ready to release it all.
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While the term "anorgasmia" is also used in research to refer to delayed orgasm, some people like Stefani can't orgasm at all, and that's known as "primary" or "lifelong" anorgasmia.
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This tells us that if we really want to close the orgasm gap once and for all, one thing we need to work on is closing the orgasm perception gap.
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Her queer clients have shared that they feel especially embarrassed about not being able to orgasm if they're with a partner who can (or at least seems to) orgasm every time.
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Results showed that 36.6 percent of women said they required clitoral stimulation to orgasm while being penetrated, but for 18.4 percent, vaginal penetration alone was enough for them to reach orgasm.
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Plenty of research has shown that an orgasm gap exists between men and women; research has also shown that women are more likely to orgasm when masturbating rather than during intercourse.
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And while the revelation may have given Nick pause, not being able to orgasm is incredibly common, says Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist who specializes in teaching women how to orgasm.
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I felt less pain in the build up to the orgasm, but when it came to actual orgasm time my body did the same "WTF are you doing to yourself?" recoiling.
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Because it was all so new for me I didn't orgasm, because there was so much intensity—I have to feel relaxed and safe with somebody, to be able to orgasm.
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Unfortunately, many people feel embarrassed and defeated when they question whether or not they've had an orgasm, says Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist who specializes in teaching women how to orgasm.
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And for NARS, it's all about blush — specifically Orgasm.
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" — Meghan, 230 "First time after baby: BEST ORGASM EVER.
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"He made it clear everything he wanted: the wetness, me spitting in Rachel's mouth, and [a focus on] Esti's orgasm — my character [originally] had an orgasm, too, but I had to agree as a producer, even though it was a very good orgasm, it wasn't as good for the story as Esti's," Weisz said.
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Likewise, if you're doing it because you feel that an orgasm is expected, you're just feeding the orgasmic imperative, or the idea that sex isn't really sex without orgasm—and that's just going to amp up the performance pressure on you next time around, thereby reducing the likelihood that you'll have a real orgasm.
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Each video was coded not just for the presence of both the male and female orgasm, but also for the specific indicators of orgasm that appeared, such as heavy breathing and moaning.
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Some brave fans of the film went to the iconic Katz's Delicatessen in New York City where Ryan's infamous orgasm scene was filmed to participate in a fake orgasm contest on Friday.
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"Men can have an orgasm without an erection, and men can have an erection without an orgasm — but if you're missing both I'd say you're probably going to be affected," he says.
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There's also something called anorgasmia, which means you can't orgasm, though there are different reasons why that happens (some people can orgasm only in certain conditions, or without their partner, for example).
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If you're not sure if you're having orgasms, or just want to explore your own orgasm potential, here are some answers that might help you get there: What exactly is an orgasm?
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Researchers who surveyed 2,000 women about their orgasm experiences for a 2017 study in The Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy found that only 18% said they could orgasm from penetration alone.
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I tell people I'm taking down white supremacy one orgasm at a time, because every time I enjoy an orgasm, I'm countering the narratives that this country forced our ancestors to experience.
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These kinds of assumptions about sex — that you have to be loud, or that orgasm is the only way to show a partner that you had a good time — are what make the orgasm sound library important, even though some question why listening to other people orgasm does anything more than get people off (which is great, too!).
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To wit: The proper sequence of vibration, applied to the proper area of the body, will ultimately elicit orgasm; the harder and faster that orgasm arrives, the "better" said vibrator has presumably done.
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But when her orgasm went on for an hour after sex, she started to panic and tried drinking wine and jumping up and down to try and stop the orgasm, but nothing worked.
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Eighteen percent of respondents said vaginal penetration alone was sufficient for orgasm, and 9 percent reported that they didn't have orgasms during intercourse, or achieved orgasm in other ways, such as oral sex.
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And remember: whether it takes you five minutes or three hours to orgasm — or even if don't orgasm at all — the most important thing is that you and your partner are enjoying yourselves.
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This vibrator won't necessarily "train" a person to orgasm better.
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Secondly, even a vaginal orgasm is really a clitoral one.
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Even love, foreplay, and the female orgasm weren't considered relevant.
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Every single one of us exists because of an orgasm.
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They want dating dos and don'ts, tricks that'll guarantee orgasm.
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And, during orgasm, activity decreased in other brain areas, too.
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Just 9 percent said they did not orgasm during intercourse.
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Ever wonder how your orgasm sounds compared to other people's?
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When you're anxious, you cannot focus long enough to orgasm.
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What impact does alcohol have on sex, orgasm, and libido?
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I wondered languidly, is this what an orgasm feels like?
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Komisaruk and Whipple discovered the power of the female orgasm.
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After all, that's how you make an orgasm happen, right?
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And in the meantime, Raven, good luck with that orgasm.
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Some people with the kink can orgasm from tickling alone.
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Only 25 percent of women reach orgasm during vaginal intercourse.
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I had my first orgasm with a client, for example.
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Don't feel bad if you don't bring yourself to orgasm.
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Let's be real, though, Orgasm will definitely sell out first.
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They hoped for women who couldn't orgasm with other partners.
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Remember Raven's confession that she had never had an orgasm?
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They also become a coded way of talking about orgasm.
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However, this probably isn't because the orgasm was actually longer.
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Consistent with previous research, evidence for an orgasm gap emerged.
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Some women become too sensitive to continue after an orgasm.
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At the very least, you (hopefully) had a good orgasm.
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So, what we're trying to elicit is a blended orgasm.
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The serpent representing the #sexualenergy, the apple representing the #orgasm.
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Among women, orgasm increases estrogen, which leads to deeper sleep.
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"The principle is that orgasm is a frequency," he responds.
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Does Prause believe in the existence of the orgasm note?
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How do you have time for a two hour orgasm?
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Except that "die" is actually an Elizabethan euphemism for orgasm.
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And a faster orgasm does not necessarily mean better sex.
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Did you fake an orgasm to get out of it?
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So, the more you orgasm, the better it will get.
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The fake orgasm was the final straw for Lisa Page.
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"To please their beloveds some women faked orgasm," Kingsolver writes.
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Single digit orgasm number, for you, per seven days. Once.
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I was able to finish, but my orgasm was weak.
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How do you know when a JAP has an orgasm?
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Why do you think the ability to orgasm is important?
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During her menses and during the height of her orgasm.
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In the first study, researchers surveyed 50 college students who had faked an orgasm before, meaning they didn't have an actual orgasm but either acted like they did or told their partner they did.
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Kitzinger herself is the first to say that "adding orgasm to the wish list is a pretty tall order" and tells partners not to expect the birthing woman to produce an orgasm on command.
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Read these stories next: When It Comes To The Female Orgasm, There Is No Normal Here's What Happens To Your Body When You Have An Orgasm 10 Myths Straight Men Have Been Told About Sex
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This study, though, stands out for concentrating on female pleasure and orgasms, especially when the reality of an orgasm gap—the clear disparity between men and women when it comes to achieving orgasm—still exists.
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It clearly depicts the man shooting his bolt before the woman climaxes—what's more, it shows that her orgasm could be the first of many while the man's penis immediately shrivels into dormancy after orgasm.
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This orgasm gap even persists in the world of online porn.
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That said, female orgasm is unique to the female having them.
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I didn't feel an orgasm, but I felt fluid rushing out.
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Scientists have been debating why the female orgasm exists for decades.
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And he would just have an orgasm right then and there.
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For many people, orgasm is an important part of sexual relationships.
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Those electrodes would zap the brain, via the nerves, to orgasm.
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Even if you're not a makeup lover, you've heard of Orgasm.
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The whole thing was like a five-month gay man's orgasm.
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No, she's simply a lady who just had a great orgasm.
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I feel like I can barely withstand another orgasm coming on.
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And 32.84% of women said that they couldn't have an orgasm.
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Some people may cry when they orgasm, or the sneezing thing.
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Once you start, do not stop until she has an orgasm.
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They're like, 'Can a woman orgasm eight times in a row?
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Over time, though, spontaneous ovulation evolved, rendering the female orgasm unnecessary.
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Not reaching orgasm doesn't necessarily mean there's anything wrong with you.
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" He continues, as if he's about to have an orgasm: "Mmm.
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NARS Liquid Blush in Orgasm, $30, available May 12 at NARS.
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There's nothing like an orgasm to relieve my cramps and irritability.
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News flash, men: Only 25% of women orgasm during vaginal penetration.
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Just 58 percent were accurate at estimating their wives' orgasm frequency.
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There is a lot of emotion tied up in [orgasm issues].
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But those sensations aren't the only thing that characterize an orgasm.
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For biologists, few phenomena are as mysterious as the female orgasm.
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"Your orgasm starts with your mind, not your fingers," says Nelson.
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Click through to Women's Health for more on the female orgasm.
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But would we be too in our heads about an orgasm?
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I've been using his Radiant Creamy Concealer and Orgasm Liquid Blush.
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If orgasm is le petit mort, then longing keeps death away.
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I approached orgasm several times, but my brain kept sabotaging me.
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And when you orgasm, there's a flood of oxytocin and vasopressin.
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If I don't get an orgasm within ten minutes, that's it.
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After all, penises leave more, uh, evidence behind after an orgasm.
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The sex technique and type of orgasm plays a role too.
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But she makes a sound which I feel was an orgasm.
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It was the best orgasm either of them had ever had.
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Am I about to have a mind-blowing full body orgasm?
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Like healthcare is a human right, orgasm is a human right.
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So, is a $15,000 orgasm better than one from your hand?
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But new data suggests that although women in porn may be shown achieving orgasm far less often than their male counterparts, there's no lack of interest in porn that shows a certain kind of female orgasm.
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Maybe, but the authors said that one obvious possibility is that women better understand how things like oral sex and clitoral stimulation feel and how they build toward orgasm (and that intercourse rarely leads to orgasm).
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Negative experiences resulted in less pleasurable or painful orgasmsIn addition to being asked if they had felt either externally or internally pressured to orgasm, participants were surveyed on the overall quality of their orgasm during sex.
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For example, when you consider the fact that oral sex is increasing and, further, that receiving oral sex increases the odds of female orgasm, maybe that explains why the so-called "orgasm gap" appears to be shrinking.
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I'd bet that contributes to the high number of people who are anorgasmic (someone who has extreme difficulty reaching orgasm), or who have never had an orgasm (10-15% of adult women haven't orgasmed, according to research).
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Oh, and she's an OBGYN who wants to study the female orgasm.
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Scientists have found a large and consistent orgasm gap between the sexes.
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Sex or masturbation can still be plenty of fun without an orgasm.
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The second definition is the one most likely to lead to orgasm.
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Speaking of desire, what happens to dopamine when you have an orgasm?
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You know what's not going to help a girl have an orgasm?
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This Weed Bath Bomb Is The Next Best Thing To An Orgasm
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So, a daily orgasm can actually help keep your sex organs engaged.
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Who has ever been hurt by an orgasm that lasted too long?
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This combination, you might have guessed, can easily result in no orgasm.
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Ryan's iconic orgasm scene was filmed at the deli by Rob Reiner.
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Society has long given precedent to the male orgasm over the female.
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The only way around it is by taking orgasm off the table.
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Orgasm and squirting can happen at the same time, but not always.
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What do Orgasm, Boy Brow, and Better Than Sex have in common?
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So, there went my trusty orgasm-maker, gone to sex toy heaven.
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Why is the authenticity of anyone's orgasm worth discussing to begin with?
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And trust — nothing feeds my negativity more than an inability to orgasm.
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"That's what New York City is, one giant delayed orgasm," says Ilana.
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Nearly every woman requires stimulation of the external clitoris to experience orgasm.
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What about the orgasm as a way of getting yourself to sleep?
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It was in Santa Cruz, and they were discussing the female orgasm.
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"I normally orgasm fairly easily, but this was something else," she recounts.
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Read This Next: Sneezing, Crying, Seizures: Just Some Rare Orgasm Side Effects
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Cosby looked at me and said 'I thought you had an orgasm?
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Weed's relaxing effects help many people take the scenic route to orgasm.
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"No one talks about post-orgasm head-pain," she told the Sun.
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We used to have an orgasm, but there is no sexual relationship.
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It was news to me that she actually had experienced orgasm before.
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The orgasm is to women, she believes, as nipples are to men.
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But equating a boy's orgasm with getting what he wants is wrong.
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In clinical terms, the continued inability to orgasm is known as anorgasmia.
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For example, in science, people haven't been verifying that orgasm actually occurs.
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The female orgasm rarely enters into discussion of sex amongst young people.
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Plus, not all women do reach an orgasm, and that's also okay.
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That's true, but men don't need to ejaculate to have an orgasm.
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People spend time watching TV or exercising; I make time to orgasm.
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Maybe it's not that it is important that she have an orgasm.
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Having an orgasm can also have surprising upsides for a man's health.
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"I had an orgasm the first time I used it," he said.
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"I tried to fake an orgasm for him to stop," she said.
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The results, both anecdotally and from the data, show a better orgasm.
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Sometimes, the task of relaxing enough to orgasm is daunting to me.
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I can orgasm when I masturbate, but not usually with my partner.
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Do you think an orgasm is the best wake-up call, then?
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Sometimes, that orgasm comes from sex, but most days, it's self-supplied.
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Among the topics it will explore are orgasm workshops and alternative medicines.
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But you can have an orgasm that is more convulsive than compelling.
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Ahegao is an example of Williams' expressions of female orgasm, he said.
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Now your lover can orgasm to the beat of their fave playlist.
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Prolactin, a hormone that relaxes you, is also released after an orgasm.
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" The Katz's Delicatessen orgasm scene in 1989's "When Harry Met Sally . . .
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Nars Orgasm is a personal favorite and a cult-favorite as well.
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Your partner's not initiating just because they want to have an orgasm.
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At one point, Crystal's character says he doesn't believe any of the women he's slept with have ever faked an orgasm and Sally proves him wrong by staging a very convincing orgasm in the middle of a deli.
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In her own book published in 2005, "The Case of the Female Orgasm," she examined "all 21 published theories" of female orgasm at that time -- yes, 21 -- and discovered they all basically fell into a couple of categories.
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Given that there's such a smattering of orgasm experiences (and the fact that there's no "right" way to figure it out), we found 15 real first orgasm stories from people in the R29 community and some honest Redditors.
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Studies have also shown that orgasm can be a trigger for cataplexy, a narcolepsy-related condition that can cause someone to collapse from muscle weakness (yet remain conscious) at the onset of extreme emotions—fear, laughter, or orgasm.
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To convert the force and time of her orgasm waves into frames per second, and turn that into a music video so that the speed at which images flash on the screen matches the rhythm of the orgasm.
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Nagoski and Prause share something else in common in spite of divergent approaches to climax: both believe that orgasm is, essentially, a singular experience — meaning there is no "kind" or "type" of orgasm, only different ways of inducing it.
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We were thrilled by the recent launch of online orgasm-training platform OMGYES, which drew on the insight of over 2,000 women from 18 to 95 years old to create video lessons on the best techniques for achieving orgasm.
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"My clitoris is so hypersensitive after an orgasm, even a micro-orgasm, it doesn't want to be touched again for a good while," says Cyndy Etler, a 47-year-old life coach and author outside of Charlotte, North Carolina.
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For most guys, it goes without saying that having an orgasm tends to be a pleasurable experience—unless you're one of the rare men who experiences what's known as orgasmic anhedonia, in which orgasm and pleasure are completely disconnected.
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That I know where a woman named Raven Gates had her first orgasm?
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Female macaque monkeys give a shout to help trigger their mates' orgasm, too.
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Do you expect the court to believe that you had an involuntary orgasm?
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Orgasm, on the other hand, is very much of a here and now.
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There's not a lot of research into the prostate orgasm, either, she said.
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Aim For A New Type Of Orgasm Do you have fantasies about squirting?
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I have had trouble reaching orgasm with a partner for a long time.
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That's perhaps where the other portion of the sneezing/orgasm myth comes in.
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Related: The Real Reason You Can't Orgasm During SexDrinking alcohol makes you dehydrated.
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Because, FYI, there are lots of other (just as amazing) ways to orgasm.
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It's like the self-introspection the moment after an orgasm watching nasty porn.
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Nothing inspires a night of delicious dreaming like an orgasm before dozing off.
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Women who often reach orgasm don't necessarily have more kids than other women.
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Think: Nars' Orgasm Blush, Maybelline's Great Lash Mascara, or MAC's Ruby Woo Lipstick.
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In order to have an orgasm, you have to feel pleasure, she says.
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The way she explains it, the procedure sounds a lot like... an orgasm?
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I always joke that it takes me 48 hours to have an orgasm.
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I didn't even have an orgasm until I met my current boyfriend, Matt.
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It's so prevalent that scientists have a name for it: The orgasm gap.
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If this doesn't make your favorite witch orgasm in sheer delight, nothing will.
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For another, it has contributed to a serious orgasm gap between the sexes.
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We're not always thrashing about on our backs making loud, fake orgasm noises.
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Cosby even said he gave her an orgasm, Gianna Constand told the jury.
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Is the clitoral stimulation becoming too intense, or are they close to orgasm?
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He taught me how to play poker and gave me my first orgasm.
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"Some have compared it to a religious experience, others an orgasm," he says.
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Forget about apples, an orgasm a day.... This should be kind of obvious.
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When he grabs my hand, I immediately orgasm and wake up mid-cum.
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You've probably heard of the pay gap, but what about the orgasm gap?
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That's why we're collecting some of our best tips for achieving orgasm here.
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She says the situations are rarely abnormal, but the orgasm itself feels different.
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Some people say orgasm denial increases your sex drive and improves your focus.
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Their experience raises the question of what constitutes a true, textbook multiple orgasm.
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And you're right: Some women have anorgasmia and can't reach orgasm at all.
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Why are men still so much more likely than women to reach orgasm?
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But I wouldn't compare it even remotely to the sensation of an orgasm.
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I like reading books where I feel my brain have an IQ orgasm.
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Read more: 4 ways you could increase your chances of having an orgasm
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It's nothing more than the byproduct of the development of the male orgasm.
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That was compared to 37% who said they needed clitoral stimulation to orgasm.
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I'm a 20-year-old woman and I can't orgasm during penetrative sex.
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My latest book, Becoming Cliterate, is aimed at empowering women to reach orgasm.
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Conversely, there is some evidence that the stress hormone cortisol decreases after orgasm.
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Among men, the hormone prolactin that is secreted after orgasm results in sleepiness.
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And when she had a clitoral or vaginal orgasm, her foot would, too.
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Insert the right coinage, push the right buttons, and out pops an orgasm.
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NEW YORK, July 12 (Reuters) - It was the orgasm heard around the world.
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The person is forever coated with that sheen of desire, right before orgasm.
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The female orgasm, on the other hand, is a relatively prevalent sample-source.
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Oh, and also, the orgasm in "French Kiss" is corny as fuck too.
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Half of women 18 to 35 have trouble reaching orgasm with a partner.
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There could be many reasons a woman's ability to orgasm changes with age.
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I spoke with Chantall about her blog, toxic toys, and the ultimate orgasm.
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Typically these muscles relax with sexual stimulation and then contract rhythmically with orgasm.
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"Why have I always got to do the orgasm face," she once chided.
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Though the sensations didn't quite mimic orgasm, I'd say they were euphoric, nonetheless.
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If you do experience an accidental orgasm, there's no reason to be embarrassed.
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At a rally last month, he appeared to imitate Page having an orgasm.
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Indeed, the show begins with the sounds of a three-way simultaneous orgasm.
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They're just one of the many ways our bodies can react to orgasm.
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We know there's a wide variation in how people with vulvas experience orgasm.
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Balcombe reports that the female brown trout fakes the trout equivalent of orgasm.
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When the women came to orgasm, their pain tolerance increased by nearly 75%.
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And I saw an explosion of colors as I rode out the orgasm.
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Other people talk about being able to orgasm by having their thumbs stimulated.
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Among men the biggest difficulty was having an orgasm too quickly (13.2 percent).
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But do I cum every fucking time—a big, long, body-shaking orgasm?
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According to Holly Richmond, PhD, a somatic psychologist and certified sex therapist (CST), what some people call "aftershocks" are involuntary muscle contractions that happen after an orgasm — just like an orgasm itself is an involuntary contraction of your pelvic floor muscles.
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When it comes to the big O, women reported that they can more easily orgasm from porn than sex with a partner, which aligns with a recent study that says only 18% of women achieve orgasm from vaginal penetration alone.
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Often, the partners of people with anorgasmia — whether primary (they never orgasm), secondary (they used to, but don't anymore), or situational (they don't orgasm in certain contexts, for example during partnered sex) — allow their own insecurities to eclipse their partners' issues.
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"It sounds like in the song you have a buildup into a chorus—it's a bass oscillation that's kind of what my orgasm sounds like, because my orgasm pattern is very stagnant and then a lot of activity," she says.
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You could call that very free spirited, but there are some tacit rules to it: A woman can't have an orgasm with the other men—she can only come if her husband has an orgasm at the same time as her.
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Just 5 percent reached orgasm through oral sex and 25 percent through clitoral stimulation.
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For men, ejaculation was the most common orgasm cue, followed by moaning and hyperventilation.
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Watch More From TONIC: The Truvada Revolution Sexual orientation can affect how you orgasm.
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But with a home test, your orgasm is just the beginning of your responsibilities.
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Focusing solely on orgasm could cause the pink balls that women want to avoid.
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Fingering can absolutely result in a mind-blowing orgasm — if you're doing it right.
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Clitoral stimulation is one of the most common ways people with clits reach orgasm.
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"The vast majority of women don't orgasm from vaginal penetration alone," Dr. Mintz explains.
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First of all, only 25 percent of women experience orgasm from vaginal penetration alone.
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Experts believe that a huge factor in being able to orgasm is simply breathing.
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Sometimes people have difficulty with orgasm because they have difficulty letting go of control.
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Mitko abandons the narrator after faking an orgasm, a betrayal that we are told
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For women, however, there is no clear tie between orgasm and reproduction, Frederick said.
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But did you know that people with vaginas can also orgasm in their sleep?
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The Orgasm Afterglow Lip Balm, which we already know will be a summer staple.
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Cosby looked at me and said, 'I thought you had an orgasm, didn't you?
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Most Americans, by the way, rated their orgasm intensity at seven out of 10.
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But, it's certainly not the case that a sneeze is just a mini orgasm.
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Now imagine a slot machine that rewards you with an orgasm at unpredictable intervals.
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Moral of the orgasm story: I guess I've been lucky — and bisexual — all along.
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I remember being so shocked that I was able to orgasm with this dude.
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We both finished and, with the haze of orgasm fading away, talked it over.
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The paintings were about orgasm and menstruation' explosions of pleasure and explosions of pain.
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And, in my experience, there isn't an orgasm quite like a cannabis-fueled one.
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"An orgasm is more of a cherry on top kind of thing," Lilla says.
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She had an orgasm with Pinstripe (Dan Jeannotte), but she might explore other avenues.
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For some people who have vulvas, an orgasm doesn't lead to total-body relaxation.
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If you're trying to have a screaming orgasm tonight, stay away from the bottle.
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But if orgasm isn't the primary motivation for getting busy, then what, exactly, is?
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I whimper and throw back my head as the orgasm comes hard and fast.
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Lots of people report needing to orgasm after being hungover to help them sleep.
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What I learned was that even with a male escort, and orgasm isn't guaranteed.
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It was very scary to try to have an orgasm for the first time.
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She looked like she was going through some orgasm and that got me excited.
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Women, on the other hand, tend to focus on feeling when chasing their orgasm.
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This includes erectile dysfunction, difficulty reaching orgasm, or conditions that cause pain during intercourse.
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Depending on who you ask, there's between two and 12 types of female orgasm.
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But there isn't a definitive answer [to how many types of female orgasm exist].
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Unfortunately, this same position is one of the best for achieving the female orgasm.
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A third pick is Slow Sex: The Art and Craft of the Female Orgasm.
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Essentially, your orgasm makes him feel more manly and therefore gives him pleasure, too.
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The first officially recorded lucid dream orgasm came from a woman named Beverly D'Urso.
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It builds, builds, builds and finally releases tension like some kind of cinematic orgasm.
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Or to reach orgasm simply by way of massaging in your passionfruit-scented shampoo?
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He even said that he had given Andrea Constand an orgasm, the mother said.
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In terms of the orgasm gap, we've still got a long way to go.
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"It can occur with the release of orgasm," explains medical sexologist, Dr. Marie Tudor.
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"In women, this can cause clitoral pain, hypersensitivity, or difficulty reaching orgasm," she says.
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The hentai room is a big joke where you just clap at an orgasm.
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Some have even become household names, like Nars Orgasm and Essie Bikini So Teeny.
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Does dropping several grand on a sexual experience actually lead to a better orgasm?
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In other words, sometimes G-spot stimulation leads to orgasm, and sometimes it doesn't.
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"It was written as a discussion of women faking orgasm," Ryan explains to PEOPLE.
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Like when we first tried NARS' liquid version of its Orgasm Blush, for instance.
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As you near orgasm, the stimulation begins to feel, well, a little too much.
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An orgasm is simply the cherry on the top of an already delicious dessert.
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Within seconds his voice cracked and it appeared to me he'd had an orgasm.
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The orgasm like slamming a shot of gin with a chaser of crippling guilt.
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A multiple orgasm workshop, or something very much like it, is happening next door.
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Now, a new paper claims to describe the ancestral purpose of the female orgasm.
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Lawler obliged and followed the guru's eventual demand that she "massage" him to orgasm.
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I've had a two hour orgasm, not ejaculating, not even having my body touched.
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Now, the title of the record is from the French term for orgasm…Right.
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"I was like … am I ever going to feel an orgasm again?" recalls Chapman.
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Whether it's through masturbation or partnered sex, pleasure and orgasm are yours to discover.
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This is the way I orgasm and trust me, you're not doing anything wrong.
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She started the erotic series by photographing a friend's orgasm, and then her own.
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"A penis orgasm can happen quite quickly; the prostate does take time," he says.
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I thought I was the only woman ever to possibly have faked an orgasm.
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It's literally an OK Cupid date, and then the last 15 minutes is orgasm.
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There are sexological bodyworkers who help people through trauma or help people to orgasm.
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Meanwhile, the orgasm gap between genders has proved more stubborn than the pay gap.
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Women still experience one orgasm for every three experienced by men in partnered sex.
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The former announces that she felt herself orgasm, but sadly there was no fluid.
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Since March, Yummy has also organized six female orgasm workshops in cities across China.
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I used to be able to orgasm easily, but now it is very difficult.
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Low estrogen can also lead to pain with sex, which can definitely affect orgasm.
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"It's not just fucking to get off, [or] just racing to orgasm," he says.
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"We get anecdotal nice stories of people having their first orgasm," Dr. Bowers said.
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The metamorphosis is simultaneous with Pentheus's sexual awakening, and it culminates in an orgasm.
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If you're counting each orgasm, are you counting yours, or your partner's, or both?
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The same thing is true of pleasure—we think of orgasm as intrinsically pleasurable.
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Sexologists even say that people with vulvas can have 14 different types of orgasm.
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Crying during orgasm, sometimes called "crymaxing," can be surprising if it happens to you.
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"On the physical side, orgasm capacity is related to clitoris-meatus distance," they concluded.
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But he mentioned that, 'you know, you can have an orgasm without an erection.
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"Instead I had a love affair, and an orgasm," she recalled with a hoot.
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I will [sometimes] have an orgasm and no or little ejaculate will come out.
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There's a place I passed that has a signature cocktail called the Mermaid's Orgasm.
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Yes. A typical guy will orgasm within about two minutes of starting to masturbate.
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I didn't have an orgasm, but I just figured I would the next time.
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People forget that the way to have an orgasm is to be experiencing pleasure.
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Or they could see that they orgasm significantly faster when using the vibrator alone than with a partner—data that might be useful for the partner too (though who actually wants to know that they're the reason their sexual partner can orgasm).
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" (To help prepare the paper for publication, Lloyd provided comments for the authors but was not involved in the research.) The researchers define orgasm completely in terms of hormonal surges, she said, but "there's a lot more to female orgasm than hormonal surges.
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Specifically, women were more likely to have pretended to orgasm for the benefit of a partner, whereas men were more likely to have pretended orgasm due to feelings of insecurity, a desire to emotionally connect, and because they wanted to feel powerful.
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When the only form of stimulation is penile penetration of the vagina, most heterosexual men have no problem reaching orgasm; however, only about half of women say they can reach orgasm through penetration alone and, even then, they say it only happens sometimes.
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I'm guessing that despite the fact that you do know what works for you (hooray!), you still feel inadequate because you've been made to believe, just like I was once, that having a vaginal orgasm is superior to having a clitoral orgasm.
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Pain is not a shared illusion, and sex is not a cultural condition: cut yourself with a carving knife and it will hurt no matter what company you're in; an orgasm felt like an orgasm to Cleopatra as to a Meg Ryan character.
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You can do most things alone these days — buy a house, travel, have an orgasm.
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The Womanizer — which prides itself on offering up rapid-fire orgasm — provides a different take.
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Still, having an orgasm can't hurt if you're trying to get pregnant — or ever, really.
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"Lesbian women orgasm more often than heterosexual women but less often than men," he said.
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" She jokingly added, "In five minutes, he picked my nose and gave me an orgasm.
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Interestingly, some people find it much easier to orgasm in their dreams than while awake.
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It's not like you've ever heard James Bond loudly and performatively orgasm before, have you?
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After all, if sneezing really was like having an orgasm, allergies wouldn't be so annoying.
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In her book, on page 123, Ms. McGowan wrote: 'I pretended to have an orgasm.
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At the end of the day, this isn't about your orgasm—it's about your agency.
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Staying in the moment For women, focus is a critical element in experiencing an orgasm.
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An anal orgasm is exactly what it sounds like — getting off by stimulating the anus.
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Sometimes people ejaculate when they have an orgasm through prostate stimulation, and sometimes they don't.
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An orgasm is the sensation that accompanies ejaculation, and it feels, you know, pretty great.
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And personally, getting all that blood pumping can make it easier for me to orgasm.
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Achieving orgasm during every sex session sounds like a dream, and it was at first.
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" You could also say something like, "It's hard for me to orgasm without oral sex.
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The way the average person achieves orgasm probably seems intuitively obvious: genital stimulation, of course.
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The wind tickled them and I had a weird orgasm that started in my feet.
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He stresses that otherwise the normal physical processes involved in a man's orgasm are unaffected.
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Sometimes window shopping is nice, even if you don't take an orgasm home with you.
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More commonly, though, students—both male and female—want to know how women reach orgasm.
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When you orgasm your body releases endorphins that are shown to have a sedative effect.
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It's the equivalent of reducing the entirety of human courtship down to a single orgasm.
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Ultimately I don't think fighting over which nerve endings led to the orgasm is instructive.
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So we thought, imagine if we coupled that with the feeling of an intense orgasm?!
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The Boardwalk Empire actress claimed Elvis gave her an orgasm on her visit to Graceland.
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And then if you are aroused enough, that could lead to an orgasm, she says.
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One of the best ways to describe an orgasm is just "pleasure" itself, Marin says.
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It was probably the hardest transition I've ever had to do — other than the orgasm.
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And while most men can experience an orgasm during sex, it's less reliable for women.
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Dr. Wagner said that deciphering the history of the female orgasm might improve reproductive medicine.
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That was compared to 37% who said they, like you, needed clitoral stimulation to orgasm.
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Some people experience synaesthesia, extreme euphoria and even orgasm at the onset of a seizure.
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Whether a Darwinian approach should be applied to the female orgasm is subject to debate.
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Sure, it's fun to make someone orgasm, but good sex isn't always dependent on that.
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In other words, there were no differences in sexual satisfaction, orgasm frequency, or recent sex.
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She believes many women who think they've never had an orgasm are actually mini-orgasmic.
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Prause believes Masters' and Johnson's data show peaks in arousal that stop short of orgasm.
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Orgasmic meditation using the Lioness to track my orgasm had me at 52 percent calm.
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Another factor in orgasm may be a decrease in strength in the levator ani muscles.
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But there are plenty of women who find it more difficult to have an orgasm.
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Taking twenty minutes to orgasm will be "fast" for some people and "slow" for others.
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One study found that 80% of cis women need clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm.
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In theory, there's nothing wrong with having an orgasm as a way of distracting oneself.
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Seeing in full color for the first time was apparently akin to having an orgasm.
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Prince's American vision, of course, also had a sexual element: orgasm as agent of transcendence.
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Although my courses are about orgasm, I really try to focus on the pleasure itself.
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Some people experience synesthesia, extreme euphoria and even orgasm at the onset of a seizure.
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While sex therapist Vanessa Marin doesn't approve of classifying orgasms in this way — because she feels that it puts pressure on women to achieve a certain type of orgasm (or any orgasm at all) — she wrote on her website that "the combination of sensations can be mind-blowing for so many women," In order to have a blended orgasm, you or your partner should stimulate your body both externally and internally at the same time.
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One 2015 study found that 36.6% of cis women said that clitoral stimulation was necessary for them to reach orgasm, and another 36% said clitoral stimulation wasn't necessary for them to reach orgasm, but their orgasms felt a lot better if clitoral stimulation was involved.
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Each of the videos analyzed showed at least one man and one woman, but out of the 60 women showed in all the videos, only 18% were shown having an orgasm, while 78% of the 50 men in the videos were shown having an orgasm.
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The study, called "The Evolutionary Origin of Female Orgasm," suggests that the female orgasm as we (hopefully) know it today may have evolved from a different function used by our ancestral predecessors millions of years ago—a function that actually was crucial for reproduction.
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Or you could even tell them in advance that orgasm just isn't the goal for you.
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That could mean touching your clit, or switching your penis to your hand to reach orgasm.
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And while you're exploring, remember that you don't have to orgasm when you're masturbating, Bailey says.
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If an explosive, near immediate orgasm is more your inclination, the Womanizer is happy to provide.
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And frankly, having an orgasm is the best way to wake yourself up in the morning.
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All that thrusting, bending, and sweating accomplishes more than just an orgasm and a good time.
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Apparently, Swift and Zayn's new song is the perfect soundtrack for a low-key elevator orgasm.
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There's a lot of pressure on women to orgasm during sex, which is unfortunate, Marin says.
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He had such a funny orgasm face—his pupils would go big and small really quickly.
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After performing oral sex on Plaintiff, Weinstein masturbated in front of Plaintiff until he reached orgasm.
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In part, this is because we have fetishized intercourse, from which men can orgasm relatively easily.
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Even without an an orgasm, it was one of the most climactic moments of my life.
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"It appears that female orgasm does perform some sort of sperm-retention function," the authors wrote.
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But why does this gender gap exist, and what can be done to achieve orgasm equality?
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To be fair, however, sometimes it's more about the quality of the orgasm than the quantity.
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He's claimed that he could persuade his readers to have an orgasm with his blog post.
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It's next to impossible to pinpoint your state of mind right after an orgasm. Euphoric. Sleepy.
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Like many orthodontia related items, toothbrushes (especially the bristled side) are no good for achieving orgasm.
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I'd say the orgasm [I had with this threesome] was the best because it was exciting!
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Until recently, stigma surrounding female sexuality, orgasm and masturbation has prevented research and slowed down understanding.
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In "Witches" (which Jacobson also directed), Ilana discovers that she's been unable to orgasm since Nov.
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"I just had an orgasm in front of my mother, my mother over there," Reiner said.
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Scrolling through recordings of more than 1,500 orgasm sounds generates curiosity and starts conversations, Viegas says.
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My orgasm wound tight inside me, ready to spring and uncoil me from the inside out.
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What happened to wanting it so badly that just a soft touch could make me orgasm?
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"Older men may have more difficulties reaching an orgasm for medical or emotional reasons," Lui said.
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"Alcohol can increase impotence and reduce the ability to orgasm and their intensity," Gersh tells us.
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Gersh says that without a normally functioning nervous system, orgasm might be off the table entirely.
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Some people do find, however, that prostate play without ejaculation provides a unique type of orgasm.
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According to Vice, there's strong evidence that cannabis does indeed make for a more powerful orgasm.
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While Komisaruk has spent years investigating the female orgasm, his interest developed from an unlikely start.
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Or, some people actually don't like receiving oral sex because there's too much pressure to orgasm.
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Sometimes a fake orgasm is just a way of closing the gap between expectation and reality.
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Some research suggests that when someone has an orgasm, their body releases a wave of oxytocin.
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Relaxation—especially for people with vaginas and those with general anxiety—is essential for reaching orgasm.
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Even during the best sexual encounters I often need to masturbate in order to reach orgasm.
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But, it needs to be said that some of the orgasm scenes were a tad melodramatic.
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There's only one catch: To achieve this orgasm, you have to put things up your butt.
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Before using this toy, I didn't really think it was possible to have a painful orgasm.
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If I'm going to squirt, it's because I am enjoying myself and having an amazing orgasm.
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The orgasm gap is real, and one group is doing something very exciting to address it.
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According to one researcher CNN interviewed, heterosexual, bisexual, and gay men all orgasm more than women.
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In fact, orgasm does not mean that someone "enjoyed" the sex, or that he wanted it.
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Spend more time hanging out with myself and with my partner while worrying less about orgasm.
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For decades, society has marveled over the elusive female orgasm, mostly in the form of questions.
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Your arousal might seem insurmountable, but it is possible to work through it without an orgasm.
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I have not learned what it is that would allow her to achieve orgasm through masturbation.
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A 2017 study found that only 18% of women said they could orgasm from penetration alone.
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Even when I'm masturbating, orgasm only happens when I'm stimulating my clitoris, but not through fingering.
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Last night, the show hit this huge maturity benchmark: Raven Gates brought up the female orgasm.
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"There's this fantasy of being the object of someone's orgasm, a fantasy of affirmation," she said.
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Help him to realize the goal is pleasure, and if orgasm is part of that, great.
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On this list of orgasm side-effects were: laughing, crying, sneezing, and general weakness, aka cataplexy.
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I love the whole idea of Christiane Amanpour being the ambassador of orgasm around the world.
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The orgasm doesn't even need to be the goal here, just some general fun loving herself.
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I get the chance to ask her what she expects her first orgasm might feel like.
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If you do orgasm earlier than intended, there are also ways to make continuing more pleasurable.
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Here's a video of a woman allegedly being brought to orgasm by a car bass system.
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Tell people that this is the orgasm note, and the power of suggestion can be powerful.
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The injection is supposed to enlarge the area and increase the chances of achieving an orgasm.
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In fact, orgasm does not mean that someone "enjoyed" the sex, or that they wanted it.
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I recreated the When Harry Met Sally orgasm scene in my college cafeteria on a dare.
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What beauty junkie, for instance, hasn't eyed a bottle of, say, that infamous NARS Orgasm blush?
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Would being physically separated help or hurt us on our quest for mutual assisted platonic orgasm?
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When Young asks men what a prostate orgasm feels like, the word "ecstacy" has been mentioned.
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You may find the orgasm, and the journey to it, a more relaxing and enjoyable experience.
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"I think I actually have to work harder to make someone laugh than making someone orgasm."
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After that, a woman could consider that she may simply need a little "help" achieving orgasm.
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Similarly, having the right music playing as you have sex can help you achieve peak orgasm.
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The, er, climax, though, comes later — when Dodson coaches Ross through achieving an on-camera orgasm.
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And if you're personally eager to up your orgasm game, this could be a valuable tool.
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But one of the effects of the ADT is that Dave hasn't been able to orgasm.
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"You don't know if she is sleeping, resting or just had an incredible orgasm," she said.
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"Honestly, his demeaning fake orgasm was really the straw that broke the camel's back," she said.
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He may pay her to help him achieve an orgasm, though she is not a prostitute.
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He told "Invisibilia" that calling her out gave him a rush of pleasure, like an orgasm.
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It's six months of tedium before the two-month orgasm on ice that is the playoffs.
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It frankly appears to be a woman grasping her breast while in the throes of orgasm.
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"An orgasm results in incredible stimulation of the vagus nerve," he told New Scientist in 2006.
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But our bodies still respond to certain stimulations—we can get horny and have an orgasm.
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But whereas an orgasm lasts 10-20 seconds, you can experience pleasure for hours on end.
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Participants were asked to share details about their sex life: specifically, any symptoms that lasted more than three months, including whether they'd experienced physical pain, lack of interest, excitement or enjoyment, anxiety, the inability to orgasm, an orgasm that came too quickly, or uncomfortable vaginal dryness.
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All this adds up to broader implications for women, Pavlicev and Wagner suggested: The low frequency of female orgasm -- only a quarter of all women reliably achieve orgasm during intercourse -- is not an individual woman's failing or a physical impossibility but a natural consequence of evolution.
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"Lack of evidence of an adaptive role for women's orgasm should not be taken as evidence that it is simply a byproduct or 'side effect' of men's orgasm and that it has no role," said Barry Komisaruk, a professor in the psychology department at Rutgers University.
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While straight men were most likely to orgasm (95 percent), straight women and bisexual women were least likely to (only 65 and 66 percent of the time.) But the researchers didn't only study how often people orgasm, they also asked about behaviors that could influence the rate.
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It's like the point just after you come up from a potent batch of molly and realize that your mind is in ecstatic synergy with everything around you; the peak of the wave that crescendos into untold ethereal delight as you ride explosive orgasm after orgasm.
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Emma Koenig is the author of Moan: Anonymous Essays on Female Orgasm, published by Grand Central Publishing.
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But do you really know what NARS' Orgasm and MAC's Ruby Woo look like without the packaging?
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In Monday night's episode, we learn that Jane faked an orgasm when she initially slept with Michael.
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Several years ago, a colleague and I published research on exercise-induced orgasm (also known as "coregasm").
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Remember when Raven Gates revealed that she, like 10% of women, had never had an orgasm before?
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In an attempt to make him stop, she writes that she faked an orgasm during the incident.
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She suffered from anorexia and was told by three doctors she would never be able to orgasm.
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Even if you don't master the orgasm of your dreams, you'll have a lot of fun trying.
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After all, about 40% of women experience sexual dysfunction, associated with a chronic difficulty in achieving orgasm.
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Additionally, 30% of the women surveyed had had at least one sleep orgasm in the past year.
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That suggests that feeling safe and relaxed may be especially important for women to reach an orgasm.
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But every body is different, and there's way more than one way to get to an orgasm.
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If you're a glass-half-full kind of person, a sneeze can be considered a mini orgasm.
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Some research suggests that many as one in three of us has difficulty achieving orgasm during sex.
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That long, drawn out foreplay can be pretty good, the orgasm is quite quick, he said, laughing.
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Except that the superpower our heroes Suzie and John possess: They can stop time when they orgasm.
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If you're someone who requires clitoral stimulation to orgasm, don't write off deep penetration, Dr. Britton says.
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I had an intense orgasm and felt really connected to my partner and immersed in the experience.
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"If you're going for a quickie and the goal is orgasm, you'll want heightened stimulation," she says.
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Small numbers of men on finasteride experience erectile dysfunction, decreased libido, ejaculation problems, infertility, and orgasm disorders.
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If she'll let you, hold her hips in place and take her through to a second orgasm.
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If you have a vagina, the odds are that you need clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm.
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In women, the orgasm does not contribute to reproductive success and accompanies intercourse only "unreliably," they said.
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A woman's pain threshold might increase by 50% -- for some women, by more than 100% -- during orgasm.
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Taking the time to orgasm every day meant that I was taking time for myself every day.
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In an attempt to make him stop, she wrote that she faked an orgasm during the incident.
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About 64% of their respondents said they slept better after having an orgasm, Lastella told Adelaide Now.
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Who doesn't want an orgasm so strong it can be felt from their fingertips into the cosmos?
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Not to mention more than a third of women need clitoral stimulation, not penetration, to reach orgasm.
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There's also a loneliness I can experience after a solo orgasm, where I feel extra existentially isolated.
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Pretending to orgasm isn't inherently good or bad—it really depends on your reason for doing it.
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"Creating that nourishing, safe, relaxing, playful context where orgasm just naturally overflows is incredibly beautiful," she says.
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But maybe I was just experiencing an orgasm through my clitoris, just stimulated in a different area?
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I reflect on the fact that achieving four out of six types of orgasm actually isn't bad.
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Samantha ends up masturbating about him, during which she breaks out into a full-on operatic orgasm.
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"Good fun," she says of the last, telling me she never fakes an orgasm in a scene.
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I ask Dr. Streicher whether laser technology can also help women who are struggling to achieve orgasm.
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Turns out, your orgasm isn't just about you — it's about the guy you had sex with, too.
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I felt very disgusted when I woke up, especially still feeling the edges of an orgasm fading.
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"Since there are these potential issues, why not have an orgasm through a better way?" she says.
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And for whatever reason, many women just haven't ever had an orgasm, and that's totally normal, too.
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Despite masturbating and being sexually active since she was a teenager, she has never had an orgasm.
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That women should like casual sex with strangers, hooking up just for the sake of the orgasm.
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According to a recent study, many women report that they require clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm.
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Although the orgasm gap appears to be declining, the fact that it exists at all is problematic.
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Finally, scientists have a new theory about an enduring mystery: the evolutionary value of the female orgasm.
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The muscle contractions that occur during an orgasm are not essential for a woman to become pregnant.
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As the original purpose of the orgasm was lost, the clitoris moved away from its original position.
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For example, nipple and anal stimulation can result in sexual pleasure and even orgasm for some people.
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" Ross says the rash is caused by the "blood vessels in your skin dilating from the orgasm.
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As I've said before, never have I given a partner a mind-blowing orgasm without asking questions.
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The authors note it's not a true post-orgasm phenomenon, but they wanted to mention it nonetheless.
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"The increase in satisfaction or enjoyment of that orgasm spikes oxytocin"—aka the love or cuddle hormone.
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Hattie spent an hour a night for six days trying to have an orgasm and she succeeded.
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Doctors suggest that it may be due to the sympathetic nervous system activation that occurs during orgasm.
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But will using a vibrator too often essentially destroy your ability to orgasm through non-aided sex?
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If you can focus on proper form through an orgasm, you're probably ready for the CrossFit Games.
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They also reported that 37 percent of men had had a same-sex encounter that included orgasm.
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"The guys don't want to see real orgasms, they want the porn orgasm," Ms. Dodson said caustically.
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"The guys don't want to see real orgasms, they want the porn orgasm," Ms. Dodson said caustically.
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Up until the 19th century, even the Catholic church approved of female orgasm to release sexual tension.
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However, even these explanations do not fully answer why the female orgasm exists as it does today.
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"Meridian" worked triple duty, suggesting peak but also orgasm and the energy pathways of traditional Chinese medicine.
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My number one priority is my own orgasm and making them cry in a fetish-BDSM scenario.
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Chrissy Teigen warned her followers that they may have an "organizational orgasm" when they see her pantry.
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"We're hopeful we can restore sexual function in terms of spontaneous erection and orgasm," Dr. Lee said.
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Sex toys can certainly make it a lot easier to reach orgasm during sex or while masturbating.
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I had an orgasm bigger than any single one I had in my subsequent 12-year marriage.
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To get the highest amount of prolactin, science suggests having an orgasm with a partner if possible.
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There's plenty of research literature and women's magazine articles that suggest men orgasm more often than women.
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"Some people can&apost orgasm sitting up and may just get an irritation from this," she said.
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"That long, drawn out foreplay can be pretty good, the orgasm is quite quick," he said, laughing.
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The human orgasm is, in its final analysis, often as much about sound as it is feeling.
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I'm one of the more than 75 percent of women who cannot orgasm from penetrative sex alone.
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"It's valuable to get oxytocin spikes, and orgasm is the best way to do that," Dansinger said.
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Even if I do happen to have sex, it is impossible to achieve orgasm with a partner.
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I got really fired up hearing people talk about how "complicated" and "mysterious" the female orgasm is.
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There are so many women out there who are afraid to even try to have an orgasm.
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I still get chills every time one of my clients tells me she had her first orgasm.
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I felt way too vulnerable to have sex to the point where I couldn't even reach orgasm.
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Some have posited that the female orgasm is inherited from our animal ancestors who needed it to ovulate, while others say the male and female orgasms evolved in tandem from the same structure, and others still believe the female orgasm is a way to reward us for making babies.
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Meloy soon learned how difficult it can be for women to reach orgasm, and decided to systematize and operationalize this woman's experience to help those who cannot orgasm organically, partnering with a medical company in 1998 and snagging the previously mentioned patent for his so-called "Orgasmatron" in 2001.
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There are currently over a dozen cannabis-infused lubricants on the market — and the companies that make them say they offer a range of benefits, from reducing pain and anxiety during sex, to increasing arousal and the intensity of orgasm, to making men last longer and women orgasm quicker.
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Sex was considered a "major success" if the men were able to always make a woman orgasm who rarely came when having sex with other partners and it was a "minor success" if the woman always orgasmed during sex with them but could also orgasm with other partners.
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The survey also found a "fake orgasm gap": 85 percent of men reported their partner had an orgasm last time they had sex, while just 64 percent of women reported having one (that gap was too big to be explained away by men who had had sex with men).
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"I'm having an orgasm watching the prices dropping - upvote if you're a sick degenerate like me," it reads.
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" via GIPHY "I've never been able to give my wife (or any woman for that matter) an orgasm.
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Victorian doctors believed that children inherited the personality of their parent who had the strongest orgasm during conception.
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" Brisben concurred: "I think there are many women who need to be vocal to help themselves achieve orgasm.
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There are some girls who fantasize about multiple men wanting them and wanting to orgasm on them, too.
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Every month, dozens of magazines and online articles highlight different ways to help women achieve orgasm more easily.
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There is also the idea that male orgasm helps facilitate reproduction, as it is invariably required for ejaculation.
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Once you reach orgasm, the muscles in your vagina, anus, and uterus involuntarily rhythmically contract and then relax.
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The first episode of "See" features plenty of violence as well as depictions of masturbation and an orgasm.
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After a few minutes, Weinstein masturbated in front of Huett until he reached orgasm, according to the complaint.
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After a few minutes, Weinstein masturbated in front of Huett until he reached orgasm, according to her complaint.
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The installment centers on Type-A Jane's latest assignment: writing a feature story on her best orgasm ever.
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Caitlyn Jenner is learning what it means to be a woman -- she's learning how to fake an orgasm.
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A larger portion of the sample (76 to 100 percent) reported the urge to cry after an orgasm.
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And one of the worst moments it can strike is when you're having sex and trying to orgasm.
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Sometimes it feels like you're in a frantic rubbing race to get to an orgasm-shaped finish line.
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Oral sex is often considered an equalizer when it comes to the orgasm gap between men and women.
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But buyer beware: If you need strong vibrations to orgasm, these apps probably won't do it for you.
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Sex toys are a conduit to this necessary sexual touching, and vibrators are designed to help you orgasm.
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Seeing how you make yourself orgasm could be just the push your partner needs to get on board.
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A nipplegasm is just what it sounds like, an orgasm that happens from nipple and breast touching alone.
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Longtime Bachelor fans will know that Gates's orgasm comment isn't the first time we've heard about female climax.
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Also known as the 'dry orgasm pill', Amobi's contraceptive stops men releasing semen and the sperm it contains.
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The sweater also didn't help when Raven shared this fun fact: Her ex-boyfriend never made her orgasm.
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"Orgasm in women can be elicited from many body regions, as well as imagery alone," says Dr. Whipple.
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When used to describe an orgasm, "la petite mort" connected the joys of sex with something much heavier.
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" She went on to joke that "in five minutes, he picked my nose and gave me an orgasm.
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I did eventually orgasm, but it was one of the weirdest orgasms I've ever had in my life.
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I did not have an orgasm until I was 20-something, because I never truly tried to masturbate.
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Definitely don't stress out about it, says Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist who specializes in helping women orgasm.
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It started when NARS announced its famous Orgasm blush shade was coming out in lipstick and highlighter form.
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But I know of two girls [with SCIs] who've been able to orgasm after they've used the toys.
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Jacob: That's been the biggest thing, her not being able to have an orgasm, or feel, in general.
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In fact, researchers found that only 18.3% of women, compared to 78.0% of men, were shown reaching orgasm.
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I didn't have an orgasm until I was nearly 20 — and I certainly didn't know much about squirting.
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In one study from 1986, about 33% of women surveyed had experienced a nocturnal orgasm in their lifetime.
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Like falling in love or meeting your soulmate, people say you'll "just know" when you're having an orgasm.
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Some people get very sensitive after an orgasm, and experience "throbbing, twitching, fluttering, and tickling," Dr. Chavez says.
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It's just what it sounds like — an orgasm prompted entirely by physical activity of a non-sexual nature.
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Still, a number of scientists suspect that the female orgasm serves some biological function favored by natural selection.
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Even more importantly, do not believe in the promises of an instantaneous, guaranteed, melt-your-face off orgasm.
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Sex is similar, particularly for women, who typically need to be able to relax to have an orgasm.
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But as orgasm approaches, we get out of our own heads and go into a trance-like state.
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Following a successful penis transplant, the penis should work normally in terms of erections, urination, orgasm, and ejaculation.
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A tan, toned woman adorned its box appearing mid orgasm, her ample rack glistening with cis hetero desirability.
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I believe absolutely everybody is capable of orgasm unless there is some serious clinical reason why they cannot.
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The endorphins that gave me such an immense rush after an orgasm worked like a drug on me.
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They're into you telling them what you like down there, because they want you to have an orgasm.
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It's a physical process that reaches a peak and then resolves, sort of like an orgasm, except awful.
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The orgasm note is a fabled, mythic musical note that allegedly makes women come without any physical stimulation.
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A shared orgasm, where both partners climax together, happens around a third of the time, the survey found.
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Related: 4 Non-Sexual Things That Can Make You Orgasm "Fantasies are just that — fantasies," Dr. Levkoff says.
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"Some men would question if they had been good enough since I didn't have an orgasm," she says.
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"You need to believe you have the ability to orgasm without your vibrator," explains psychosexual therapist Kate Moyle.
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The orgasm that cuts "French Kiss" in two sort of shatters the fantasy—it shows rather than tells.
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But the deciding factor for me was that they said I probably wouldn't be able to orgasm anymore.
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The idea that nurses were masturbating clueless men to orgasm as a mainstream medical therapy is obviously ridiculous.
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Anne: As far as arousal and feeling anything near orgasm, I don't think he has that at all.
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Your muscles spasm Many people experience some sort of involuntary muscle contractions during or just after an orgasm.
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If timed correctly, you can remove the toy right at the point of orgasm, which can feel amazing.
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It caused a stir with some memorable promotional posters that showed the movie's actors apparently in mid-orgasm.
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In other words, it's the coolest piece of statement jewelry that also happens to give you an orgasm.
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The only thing he knows is penetration and thrusting, to orgasm, under the covers with the lights out.
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Oxytocin is a neuropeptide secreted by the pituitary gland during times of intimacy, like hugging, kissing and orgasm.
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"Honestly, his demeaning fake orgasm was really the straw that broke the camel's back," Page told the publication.
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It's also called an orgasm that's just difficult or impossible to achieve, and that was my main thing.
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It took several years for me to learn to touch myself hard and fast enough to achieve orgasm.
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I was confident that when I lost my virginity, I would be able to orgasm anytime I wanted.
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Someone experiencing an orgasm can be barely perceptible in their breathy pleasure, and at other times, wildly theatrical.
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According to a 2017 study, 95 percent of straight men in America said they regularly orgasm during sex.
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His admirers followed every flashy orgasm, extending his purple reign over several heated decades of fun and furor.
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Lots of women think they should have "already" had an orgasm, so they're too scared to keep trying.
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I approach orgasm from a pretty technical standpoint because there are specific strategies that you need to learn.
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"We found that the distance between the clitoris and the urinary opening, which is called CUMD, indicates whether or not a woman is inclined to have an orgasm with intercourse or not, and if it's below 2 centimeters, then she likely is going to have an orgasm with intercourse," Lloyd said.
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Sex also stimulates the release of dopamine, the "happy" hormone that makes you feel like you have a craving that needs to be satisfied, and when we orgasm, our bodies release dehydroepiandrosterone—which is basically the steroid of all hormones and the driver behind the blissful feeling of an orgasm.
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Even without orgasm, those who have anorgasmia can, and do, enjoy sex — and Stefani's story acts as an important reminder that making orgasm the sole goal of sex creates pressure for everyone involved, and causes people to miss out on the many things to enjoy about sex aside from climaxing.
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Read more: 9 orgasm myths you need to stop believingHere's what you need to know about the exercise-induced orgasm and how you can apply that knowledge to your benefit — whether that's to make a workout more satisfying or to prevent an unwanted shudder from interrupting your group fitness class.
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Some people worry that having a routine conditions your body to only be able to orgasm in specific ways.
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And I wouldn't be me if I didn't remind y'all that an orgasm a day keeps the doctor away.
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The couple practice tantric sex, and claim to be able to orgasm for hours, even when in separate rooms.
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They might enjoy karezza, the romantic "slow sex" method that prioritizes intimacy and connection instead of focusing on orgasm.
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After Otis asks her a few questions, Aimee shares that she's never had an orgasm, and she's never masturbated.
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Some women, though, also struggle to orgasm, whether due to sexual dysfunction, an inattentive partner, or simply their biology.
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Whether or not you buy the 90-second orgasm, Long Shot as a whole has been getting positive reviews.
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And one of the things for example, is men wanting to cum on women's faces — orgasm on women's faces.
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Dr. Laurie Mintz, the author of Becoming Cliterate, was at SSTAR to discuss the phenomenon of gendered orgasm inequality.
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He's mentioned that during military deployments he used sexual fantasies to help him meditate, which brought him to orgasm.
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" For a woman with such anatomy to achieve orgasm, Lloyd recommended trying "manual stimulation of the clitoris during intercourse.
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Consensual sex without the air of doom hanging over every orgasm sounds absolutely radical through the lens of Gilead.
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During orgasm, blood flows to your genitals and stimulates the nerve endings that send happy feelings to your brain.
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People say that if you sneeze a certain number of times in a row, it'll feel like an orgasm.
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They'll likely ask you lots of specific questions, as if it's their solemn duty to help you reach orgasm.
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While I've tried to orgasm in this way since, I have never quite been able to match that feeling.
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"The only thing you want to get from a sex toy is an orgasm," Planned Parenthood has told Refinery29.
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"There are many types of orgasms — clitoral, vaginal, uterine — and the orgasm is generally a blended concept," he says.
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But how about OMGYES, where you can use a touchscreen to practice bringing a real woman's vulva to orgasm?
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" Once they came up with the idea for the fake orgasm, Reiner said, "Meg said, 'Well, I'll do it!
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Vanderlinde says there are sometimes other things at play that could be standing in the way of reaching orgasm.
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He was still panting when she kissed him as if eating the sweetness of his orgasm on his breath.
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Again, this is due to the negative impact alcohol has on the nervous system, a vital component in orgasm.
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The entire sculptural organism is a system of open and closed gestures, which simulate the rhythms of an orgasm.
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To top it off, she mixed NARS Orgasm Lip Gloss with Ka'oir Lip Pop Gloss in Take It Off.
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I would also be remiss if I didn't mention that faking orgasm is not the sole domain of women.
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Of course, there was no real foreplay or attention given to me, and I certainly didn't have an orgasm.
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SONA — save $80 See Details Men can explore their orgasm possibilities with the snug fit of the TOR 2.
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The orgasm comment, which comes in the first half of the season's finale, cements the show's sex-positive narrative.
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Men often focus on their own orgasm first and don't always make sure that their partner got off, too.
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And yet other times, people fake it because the sexual circumstances just aren't going to produce a real orgasm.
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In fact, during karezza, partners may intentionally delay orgasm to preserve their energy and focus on their emotional bond.
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So what is an orgasm then, this experience that can't be pinned to a specific hodgepodge of genital triggers?
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A man's enthusiasm to give a woman an orgasm is more selfish than it might seem, the authors wrote.
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So while you are working to achieve orgasm, you are also working at lowering your chances of heart disease.
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Acknowledging that we have sex for different reasons can take the pressure off the idea that everyone should orgasm.
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They also come with a slew of side effects—one of which is decreased libido and difficulty achieving orgasm.
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But the more myths she debunks, like that of the clitoral orgasm, the closer we get to mutual satisfaction.
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Secondly, you're going to pigeon hole your orgasm if you watch the same thing again and again while masturbating.
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Lovehoney, a UK-based store that puts Spencer's to shame, is offering 20% off everything for National Orgasm Day.
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Specifically, 75 percent of guys said they always orgasm with their partner, compared to just 29 percent of women.
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Females had access to regular sex with males, and orgasm as an ovulatory mechanism was no longer so useful.
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So, if your goal is getting them to orgasm, keep your attention focused there once you really get going.
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Like I said, if you're goal is to get your partner to orgasm ASAP, focus on licking the clit.
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There are certain shades that have become iconic in the makeup industry, like NARS' Orgasm and MAC's Ruby Woo.
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They know how to make you orgasm in the least amount of time with the least amount of movement.
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And they literally didn't even know what the word orgasm meant, and they didn't know that woman had them.
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I've had maybe five male partners in my 23 years and have never reached orgasm with any of them.
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It's like "an athlete who doesn't want to have an orgasm before a game: It saps you," she says.
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Their studies popularized the idea that sexual response starts with excitement, a plateau, an orgasm, and a resolution phase.
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If I had to guess, I'd say 360 out of 365 days of my year start with an orgasm.
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He then brought him back to his hotel room and masturbated him and brought himself to orgasm, James said.
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He knows I&aposm on antidepressants, but he doesn&apost know it makes it harder for me to orgasm.
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" Uygur also another post outlining the "rules of dating," including that there "must be orgasm by the fifth date.
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But once it was removed, his goal for us was that I would have an orgasm within three days.
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As seen in a video showcasing the installation, every time players strike a ball, various orgasm sounds get triggered.
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Based on that description, the male orgasm is just a part of sex — quite literally a fact of life.
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You can also set your pattern to play on loop, if you want it to repeat until you orgasm.
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Yes, orgasm is typically the peak experience of pleasure, but that doesn't mean those other moments don't feel good!
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Especially given how the deck is stacked against us with how we talk about female orgasm as a society.
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As she told me, "getting rhythmically banged out" can still feel great even when she knows orgasm isn't likely, or even possible; on nights when she wants to sleep well, but isn't feeling particularly horny, orgasm-free sex can be a useful way to relieve tension, relax, and get herself to sleep.
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It is very hard to put together a grocery list in your head while you're about to have an orgasm.
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But they did find slightly less pleasure associated with orgasm for gay and bi guys when compared to straight women.
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If you're not orgasming and you're totally fine with that, then don't feel like you need to have an orgasm.
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Its enormous engine is crying out for your nethers, its hunger for evil slaked only by your death via orgasm.
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But the benefits of orgasm extend beyond just feeling good, and some research suggests that orgasms have powerful health benefits.
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The researchers found that many of the women did make noise but not necessarily while they were having an orgasm.
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So it would be a fairly wise faking strategy to moan since men already tend to associate moaning with orgasm.
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There are two rules that people who want to finger someone to orgasm should keep in mind, Dr. Mintz says.
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If you didn't already know, it's possible for someone with a prostate to orgasm by massaging it through their anus.
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"If it's above, if it's around 3, then she's likely not going to have an orgasm with intercourse," she said.
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An orgasm occurs most readily when you're in the zone, and if you're not in the zone, it's a problem.
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" Back in 2014, she gushed about the pretty blush again to Allure magazine, saying, "I love Nars blush in Orgasm.
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It's been 18 years since Nars' Orgasm Blush hit stores and subsequently became the bestselling blush in the United States.
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He then stepped down and whispered in her ear, "I wanna see you have an orgasm," she told BuzzFeed News.
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For some people, faking orgasms every once in awhile feels necessary because their health won't allow an orgasm to happen.
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Female orgasm is complex and unique and yes, Bobby Box, takes a little longer than some brief copy might convey.
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The life-size dolls made by Abyss Creations, LLC have the ability to engage in meaningful conversation and even orgasm.
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She goes on to say that once a woman releases her trauma, she should be able to orgasm on demand.
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Even Meg Ryan's 14-year-old daughter has watched her mother's infamous fake orgasm scene in When Harry Met Sally.
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Dr. Vandelinde says being on top provides open access for clitoral stimulation, which most women need in order to orgasm.
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Shortly after orgasm (?), Ana notices Christian's UFC poster has a tiny photo of his dead mom tucked into the corner.
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So it makes sense that listening to other people orgasm could make people feel better about their own sex sounds.
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Everyone gets sensitive after having an orgasm, she says, and how sensitive you become depends on muscle and nerve stimulation.
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The female orgasm is secondary, a happy accident if it occurs, but certainly not necessary for a complete sexual experience.
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Approach your body with love and drop the expectation that you should always have an orgasm every time you masturbate.
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In other words, the pleasurable feeling of an orgasm would encourage a woman to return to the man for more.
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If you aren't aware, there's a huge orgasm gap that still occurs between men and women — even in porn videos.
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While my orgasm didn't necessarily feel "heightened," as promised, the whole masturbating experience felt more sensual, loose, arousing, and pleasurable.
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Since he knew orgasm had to be on the menu for me, he made sure to listen to my needs.
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As someone's body reaches orgasm, they flood their system because the brain is essentially trying to medicate them, Siegel says.
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Of course that's not the case, and there are tons of ways you can achieve orgasm with clitoral stimulation alone.
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And because I'd never achieved an orgasm from vaginal penetration alone, part of me just stopped expecting it to happen.
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Why do we keep pursuing this elusive vaginal orgasm, when there are perfectly good clitoral orgasms all over the place?
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This new research found that, consistent with previous studies, more women than men said they had faked an orgasm before.
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What this means is that you shouldn't necessarily assume that a fake orgasm here or there is a red flag.
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I wanted to tell him to stop, but it just seemed pointless, so I endured and, finally, faked an orgasm.
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During "friction sex," there's a predetermined order of operations or expected progression: foreplay, intercourse, and almost always orgasm, she says.
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"Injecting platelet rich plasma around the clitoris or into the vagina to improve orgasm is a controversial procedure," he explains.
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Researchers highlighted the need for oral sex during and greater communication during a sexual encounter to bridge the orgasm gap.
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This book focuses on becoming more intentional and spiritually connected to your partner, with the goal of achieving better orgasm.
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The so-called "orgasm gap" suggests that straight women, in particular, may feel that their needs in bed are ignored.
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For most of them, it was my first time experiencing an orgasm I hated, which I previously would've thought impossible.
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On the next episode, Morton joins an enclave of new age seekers in Southern California who find enlightenment through orgasm.
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Described as a "very intense, severe headache," it usually happens just before orgasm and is known medically as orgasmic cephalalgia.
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At the end, I woke up in what felt like an orgasm and was crying of joy from the experience.
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You can also add some Desire Luxury Orgasm Balm for £5 (worth £20) with any purchase from the Desire range.
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So many women think their bodies are to blame when, in reality, most people are fully capable of experiencing orgasm.
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A 2006 study, for example, found that only 30% of the 1,335 women surveyed regularly reached orgasm with penetration alone.
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But the aliens soon discover a more potent means of harvesting the dopamine they need to survive: the human orgasm.
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Part of it may be that men are getting their ideas about what a female orgasm looks like from porn.
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It must have taken me 10 minutes to orgasm, and it was one of those lame ones you barely feel.
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The long shot of Esti in orgasm, aimed at her face and arching neck, feels like the movie's redemptive core.
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A systematic review and meta-analysis found that circumcision was unrelated to premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction or difficulty achieving orgasm.
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Apparently, he once made Jhene orgasm 9 times in a day -- and he doesn't think any average Joe deserves her.
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Researcher Debby Herbenick of Indiana University's famed Kinsey Institute assured me that women can have pleasurable experiences without an orgasm.
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We're not saying that porn is the reason for the orgasm gap, but it's true what they say: representation matters.
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Last year's sex survey from Cosmopolitan found that only 57% of women orgasm most or every time they have sex.
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If you aren't sure what you're "supposed to be feeling" during an orgasm, that's okay, because it can be confusing.
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Testosterone caused spikes in desire, arousal, orgasm, and responsiveness as well as a decrease in distress related to sexual function.
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The startup had to fight for this vision against investors who preferred more competitive, gamified features like an orgasm leaderboard.
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Calling them by different names wrongly insinuates that the orgasm itself is occurring in the clitoris versus in the vagina.
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Dr. Lloyd thinks the best explanation for the female orgasm is that it hasn't served any evolutionary purpose at all.
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She told our Bachelor that her ex-boyfriend, whom she dated for two years, never once gave her an orgasm.
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They also found that while pain was rated similarly across cultures, there were major differences when it came to orgasm.
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That has a lot to do with the fact that an orgasm, whether self-induced or partner-enabled, releases oxytocin.
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The most graphic, like the opening scene with a guy faking an orgasm, are cringe-inducing fiascos of mundane reliability.
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The guy wasn't half-bad, and while it was just the first time, I didn't have to fake an orgasm.
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As a result, some can experience changes in sexual self-esteem, sexual arousal, orgasm, urinary incontinence, and prolapse, says Krychman.
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The decision to end a sexual encounter because of premature orgasm can be borne of mental dismay or physical discomfort.
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She finds it painful to continue after she orgasms, but she often pushes through anyway, sometimes faking an orgasm later.
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When we reach orgasm, a bunch of brain chemicals are released (including opioids), which give us those feelings of ecstasy.
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"If my family members have to talk about what I'm doing, they have to say the word 'orgasm,'" she explains.
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She said that there really is no physiological benefit to abstaining from orgasm, but things are more complicated than that.
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On the other are "people who roll around in the dirt having an orgasm covered in potting soil," she said.
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I thought there was something wrong with me It's always taken me a long fucking time to have an orgasm.
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I compared myself to the women I saw in porn who had an (often totally performative) orgasm in five minutes.
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In these cases, seeking help from a therapist or other expert could help pinpoint the real reason orgasm is difficult.
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You're not supposed to enjoy having an orgasm, and we see in coming episodes that come into play for June.
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These are the muscles that support the vagina, bladder and rectum, and they also produce the physical contractions of orgasm.
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When they are tight it can cause pain with sex, a fit issue and even pain or difficulty with orgasm.
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That, in turn, gives a whole new meaning to "let me die" (remember that "die" is a euphemism for orgasm).
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Part of Ms. Sina's job was helping Gordon S. Miller, who plays Pentheus, understand how to portray a woman's orgasm.
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Some studies indicate that people are more likely to orgasm during sex if they've been turned on via foreplay first.
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I still have sexual desires, attraction, and drive with my partner, but need A LOT more stimulation to achieve orgasm.
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It's a lot harder for a penis-haver to fake a mind-blowing orgasm than it is for a woman.
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" And — a bonus — it turns out that "bringing a woman to orgasm had always been a particular pleasure for him.
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You feel happy and relaxed When you orgasm, your brain is flooded with feel-good chemicals including oxytocin and dopamine.
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I started having sex at 16, and I didn't have my first orgasm during sex until I was about 25.
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Here's an idea: Instead of waking up the regular way, why not let an orgasm rouse you from peaceful slumber?
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Masturbate Hey, what better way to keep sex top of mind than to have an orgasm right before falling asleep?
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Being vocal urges your partner to orgasm quicker, and sounds contribute to the overall experience as much as feeling does.
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The top-ranked kink for surveyed users was anal sex followed by role play and then edging, or orgasm control.
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It is incredibly effective at giving me an orgasm in about 90 seconds — and several more if I want them.
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Researchers recruited seven self-professed super soakers whose gushes coincided with orgasm and asked them to provide a urine sample.
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At the end of the day, usually for most women, we do not have an orgasm while just getting penetrated.
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It's usually a little harder to orgasm for the man than the woman, but it's hard for the woman, too.
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What are the biggest myths you come across around the female orgasm, other than that it should happen through intercourse?
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We have new episodes every Wednesday on topics ranging from dieting to the racial wealth gap to the female orgasm.
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Typically, a person's heart rate peaks at the beginning of an orgasm, and returns to baseline 10 to 20 minutes afterwards.
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The most common signs of a female orgasm were moaning (100 percent of the women did this), facial contortions, and hyperventilation.
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It also reinforces the orgasmic imperative in men, or the idea that sex isn't really sex unless a guy reaches orgasm.
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After an orgasm, I am also much calmer, and I've found that it's actually a fantastic way to stimulate the brain.
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Instead of trying to have an orgasm immediately, commit to getting to know your body over a period of several months.
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It had effectively treated my anxiety but produced some unsavory side effects, like nausea, sleepiness, and inability to have an orgasm.
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"Women have lots of sexual pleasure; it's not necessarily dependent on orgasm, or they can have multiple orgasms," Dr. Castellanos says.
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"My penis doesn't work like it used to, and having an orgasm that is penis-only is pretty rare," she says.
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For example, it's possible to orgasm during two different sexual encounters, but to enjoy one a lot more than the other.
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Further, he had an old neck injury which flared up in association with some neck spasm at orgasm whilst lying prone.
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At the filmmaker's mansion, the two are surrounded by women who orgasm spontaneously, moan and pant, barely ever saying actual words.
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