There are many different kinds of orgasms: squirting orgasms, "nipplegasms," even accidental orgasms.
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Over all, he counted 184 male orgasms and 33 female orgasms.
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And, not just five orgasms, but the most intense five orgasms possible?
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Apparently, Freudian theory suggested that clitoral orgasms were not only inferior to vaginal orgasms, but also that clitoral orgasms were linked to mental health issues.
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Just like everyone's orgasms don't feel the same, not everyone's orgasms sound alike.
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These orgasms "appear to be more powerful and pleasurable" than penile orgasms, writes Levin.
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More often than having multiple orgasms, women will experience two orgasms within one sexual experience.
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There are cases of spontaneous orgasms or other symptoms confused for orgasms, even epilepsy, she explained.
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So [when women have orgasms] their pain thresholds go up, because orgasms have an analgesic effect.
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Rather than faking orgasms, Granville thought women were faking a disease in order to have orgasms.
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"Prior to HRT, orgasms were very localized," Lana said, explaining that orgasms were isolated to her genitalia.
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Some women report stronger orgasms when they're on, and there's evidence to suggest orgasms can help cure cramps.
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Tantric sex coach Devi Ward says that, in her experience, anal orgasms feel quite different than clitoral orgasms.
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Sometimes these mini orgasms — at least, we think they're mini orgasms — happen when Meredith remembers a particularly hot moment.
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Few men in either group were aware of the potential for changes in orgasms and pain or incontinence during orgasms.
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"Deeply loving orgasms — orgasms that have involved a lot of build up, orgasms that function as a stress reliever, barbiturate, or sedative, or orgasms that you feel ambivalent about — are all examples of orgasms in the context of emotional intensity, and they're all potential sources of post-orgasm weeping," Emily Nagoski, author of Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life, once wrote for health platform ShareCare.
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And the reverse happened, too: Others who experienced orgasms from external clitoral stimulation, but never vaginal intercourse, suddenly had intercourse orgasms.
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While some research has found that orgasms can potentially cause severe headaches, other research has found that orgasms can relieve migraines.
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"The next afternoon, she came to see me, and her orgasms came more quickly–very strong, ejaculatory orgasms," he told the Guardian.
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The fact that men make women's orgasms about them is about as shocking as the fact that straight men have the most orgasms.
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The truth is that orgasms can feel very different from person to person, and one person can "experience wildly different orgasms," Marin says.
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I did this picture (I love Orgasms) like a personal advertisement: I'm wearing a burqa and a badge that says, 'I Love Orgasms.
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In other words, clitoral orgasms were not found to be scientifically inferior and types of orgasms also had no scientific link to mental health.
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In the absence of physiological or neurological data, we don't know whether these orgasms are physically the same as orgasms resulting from genital stimulation.
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According to recent research, straight guys have orgasms 95% of the time they have sex and straight women have orgasms 65% of the time.
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But the new study marries two ideas about female orgasms — that clitoral orgasms should be recognized both for pleasure and for their reproductive purposes.
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He incorrectly theorized that clitoral orgasms were an immature state of a woman's sexual development, with properly functioning females eventually maturing into vaginal orgasms.
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Those who claimed to be passionate about politics and issues, regardless of affiliation, reported better sex, with 13% more orgasms; 32% claim to experience multiple orgasms.
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For example, it's not necessary to aim for simultaneous orgasms, and after someone orgasms, they can continue to please their partners with their hands or mouth.
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Since the women reported that they "experienced their orgasms deep inside," they added, that might support the theory that orgasms can affect the body's absorption of sperm.
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A story titled "Orgasms" finds a woman competing with her husband's mistress; she hoards dark, envious thoughts the way the other woman must, she imagines, hoard orgasms.
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"But our society is better when more people are having orgasms, and since Fleshlights provide orgasms, then our society is a bit happier thanks to the device."
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"Some people may think they're having six orgasms, but they're not having full-out orgasms — five of those might just be small pelvic floor contractions," Dr. Streicher says.
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When people refer to "clitoral orgasms" or "vaginal orgasms," what they're really describing is what part of the genitalia had to be stimulated to reach orgasm, Prause explained.
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Whipple has conducted research into so-called imagery orgasms, finding that women capable of experiencing imagery orgasms experienced significant increases in systolic blood pressure, heart rate, pupil diameter, pain detection threshold, and pain tolerance threshold over resting control conditions in response to induced imagery—the same symptoms of physically induced orgasms.
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Read more:Kegels won't make your orgasms better, and 3 other facts about female orgasms everyone gets wrongAs many as 1 in 10 women have accidentally orgasmed during a workout.
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He still had up to 10 non-stimulatory orgasms before ejaculating during these encounters, but was able to stop having these random orgasms for a few months at a time.
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But perhaps one of the strongest possible orgasms (for some people, at least, because all bodies are different), are blended orgasms, which result from a combo of the stimulation types.
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Hence why Lelo also catalogued the country where people have the most intense orgasms: Chile, Italy, and Spain, where 10-13% respondents in each country rated their orgasms as being the most powerful.
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Females on the smaller end tend to have fewer orgasms.
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So it's, like, orgasms, and then Antonin Scalia is dead.
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The hoe life is about catching nothing but perpetual orgasms.
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Or orgasms — did your teacher even mention the "O" word?
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Despite popular misconceptions, the vagina is not where orgasms happen.
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Plus, everyone has orgasms at a different point in life.
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With women, they're always talking about rape, vaginas, or orgasms.
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Aristotle believed that orgasms made women incapable of carrying children.
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Your sex drive plummets; sex becomes painful; orgasms become elusive.
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Drones: they deliver weapons, Amazon packages, and now — enormous orgasms.
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But clitoral orgasms have been a thing of great scrutiny.
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Orgasms can be explosive, subtle, inaudible, or somewhere in between.
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And those can't give you a lifetime of better orgasms.
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The idea that kegels can improve your orgasms is misguided.
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Elizabeth says this helped her learn to manage her orgasms.
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Women have learned they are responsible for their own orgasms.
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"I say, appreciate whatever kind of orgasms come your way."
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The sun rises; the wind blows; orgasms arrive in tandem.
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It called in an adviser on matters like faking orgasms.
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Finally, the female orgasms we see in these videos suggest that, when a woman orgasms, it will be very loud and very obvious—you won't just hear it, but you'll see it on her face.
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There are 12 categories of varying techniques like edging ("bigger orgasms by approaching and denying it") and multiples ("overcoming sensitivity to build multiple orgasms"), featuring videos of women telling stories and demonstrating their own techniques.
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Lister famously used the letter "x" to stand for shared orgasms.
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Women surveyed also reported that some orgasms feel better than others.
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Ahead, their takes their very different experiences — orgasms, disappointments, and all.
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You're on an endless plateau and no orgasms can be found.
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"Virtually every brain system is activated during women's orgasms," he said.
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Clitoral orgasms are the most common type people with vaginas experience.
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Interestingly, the positive benefits of regular orgasms appear to be cumulative.
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Why would you waste all that hard work by avoiding orgasms?
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BONUS: YouTube's ASMR community is giving millions of people 'head orgasms'
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Immediately after she orgasms, her cries of ecstasy turn into tears.
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Women getting orgasms at the doctor's office: what's not to like?
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That orgasms can be brought on by art, and vice versa.
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We did stories on abortion and menstruation and bisexuality and orgasms.
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After surveying 2102,504 single American adults, ranging from 18 to over 70, Match found that singles who are passionate about politics have 13% more orgasms, and are 32% more likely to have multiple orgasms than the uninvested.
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Men who are disgusted or terrified can still have erections or orgasms.
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I'm happy to take any questions about sex, orgasms, anything like that.
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Orgasms release key chemicals in the brain like dopamine, oxytocin, and prolactin.
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Why are so few straight-identified women having orgasms with their partners?
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As things 'clicked' in my mind, orgasms became something spiritual and enchanted.
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In most cases, though, orgasms are fun and leave people wanting more.
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Just six percent underperceived their partners' orgasms, while eight percent overperceived them.
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Women, for example, have an average of 1,836 orgasms over their lives.
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Control over orgasms is also a tenet of the Master-Slave relationship.
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If you can find your G-spot, you'll have mind-blowing orgasms.
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With the RealTouch, AEBN aspired to automate the production of male orgasms.
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Myth: You'll have the best orgasms if you find your G-spot.
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But a few who already had regular orgasms reported less sexual satisfaction.
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I do truthfully enjoy sex and can have lovely orgasms by myself!
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More women need to be having orgasms because nearly all men are.
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Understanding coregasms can improve your sex lifeRead more: Why having multiple orgasms is easier for some people than others10 things you should always do before sex if you want to have an orgasm12 unexpected health benefits of orgasms
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Both authors on the study are women, who wanted to gauge how men reacted to women's orgasms because "some research has suggested that focus on women's orgasms, though ostensibly for women, may actually serve men," according to the study.
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For the study, scientists looked at the top 50 most-viewed videos on Pornhub, and looked at male and female orgasms in each video, as well as indicators of orgasms that took place (such as heavy breathing and moaning).
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But even with people I wasn't interested in I would still have orgasms.
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But that's where the similarity between sneezes and orgasms end, Dr. Six says.
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It also was one of the most intense orgasms I have ever experienced.
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" Dr. Streicher adds: "Don't be too busy counting how many orgasms you're having.
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"[Many] women feel self-conscious about their orgasms, or lack thereof," Marin says.
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For people who have clitorises, dry humping can lead to mind-blowing orgasms.
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The participants also disclosed whether they had recently experienced clitoral or vaginal orgasms.
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The waves of orgasms lasting a good ten minutes after climax before waning.
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We are literally starting to think about that—how orgasms help you sleep.
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Some people even report having more intense orgasms while they're on their period.
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Orgasms from foot stimulation seemed to be more common than the others, though.
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There are countless studies that show lesbians have more orgasms than straight women.
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Our bodies are capable of all kinds of powerful, satisfying, and fun orgasms.
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Female users report fantastic results: multiple orgasms, intimate foreplay and feelings of empowerment.
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I think women who routinely have orgasms are just happier, more empowered people.
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Clitorises: We all know they're the main source of sexual pleasure and orgasms.
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Using orgasms as the "energy source" for magic requires a lot of focus.
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"I don't know that there were great orgasms with Don Draper," she said.
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Myth: Doing kegels every day can help you have more or better orgasms.
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Some people reported orgasms from running, but only after more than 20 minutes.
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In a male-centric world, female orgasms surely can't be for pleasure alone.
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I've been with men who don't ejaculate and then have two hour orgasms.
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The 69 fluctuates according to the wills and the orgasms of the participants.
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Lioness is a smart vibrator that aims to improve orgasms through biofeedback data.
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She asked if I had any questions about my orgasms, and I froze.
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However, that doesn't mean that sexy thoughts are a prerequisite to sleep orgasms.
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As a society, we've barely begun to scratch the surface of sleep orgasms.
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Surely plus-sized women and older women deserve consent and clitoral orgasms, too.
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We know that orgasms can be accompanied by moaning, shaking, and even squirting.
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Now is the time for elaborate role play, karezza, shibari, and multiple orgasms.
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Santa Claus Is Coming (To Town) See if you can have multiple orgasms.
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Across the board, libidos tend to decrease and orgasms may feel less intense.
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Read more: 4 ways you could increase your chances of having an orgasmRead more:Kegels won't make your orgasms better, and 3 other facts about female orgasms everyone gets wrongAs many as 1 in 10 women have accidentally orgasmed during a workout.
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For one 37-year-old consultant in London, who prefers not to use her name because publicly discussing sex could put her job at risk, larger orgasms consist of a series of vaginal contractions, while mini orgasms are a single contraction.
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Maybe dating in your 50s isn't about love, companionship, orgasms or even passionate kisses.
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That study actually counted up how many orgasms people were having at different ages.
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Well, actually, Antonin Scalia would have preferred if none of us would have orgasms.
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And it's obvious that the prostate has important function when it comes to orgasms.
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People — straight or queer, married or single — fake orgasms for all kinds of reasons.
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So orgasms are safe, even if they make your uterus feel kind of crazy.
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One day I was like, enough, I was having like five orgasms a day.
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And, with practice, that can lead to nipplegasms — yes, orgasms caused by nipple stimulation.
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It's basically the grown-up version of playing dress up, except orgasms are involved.
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"Orgasms have been down 144 percent since Trump was elected," Broad City Betty commiserates.
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When we think about orgasms, most people probably jump right to thoughts about genitals.
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But there are elusive orgasms that come from non-genital touching, like the nipplegasm.
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But a Google search for U-spot orgasms doesn't return a ton of information.
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Additionally, the app has a log to track your orgasms, if that's your goal.
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Orgasms cause you to release oxytocin which improves your mood and makes you happy.
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Consider the above benefits to orgasms, almost all of these things make you healthier.
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It's virtually impossible for men to have multiple ejaculatory orgasms with no refractory period.
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These so-called better orgasms aren't necessarily dependent on the length of an encounter.
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"Women are finding their voices; not many women are faking orgasms anymore," she said.
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"So it's like orgasms and then Antonin Scalia is dead," Ms. Swisher replied, deadpan.
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Basically, orgasms stuck around, but are as useful today as our stubby little tailbones.
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Dear god, a world full of orgasms is one I want to live in.
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Actually, they all kind of sound like orgasms, if you let your imagination wander.
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Naturally, I want my orgasms—and, thus, my Kegels—to be in peak condition.
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No word on whether my orgasms will improve yet, but my hopes are high.
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If you have a prostate, regular orgasms reduce the risk of prostate health issues.
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Day to day, it reminds me to keep exploring, learning, and having great orgasms.
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I'd never thought of orgasms as customizable or controllable based on type of stimulation.
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Psychological factors can play a role in understanding sleep orgasms too, according to Lis.
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I asked with my father's desire for his orgasms and for my mother's money.
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I had such long, annoying discussions with my friends about clitoral versus vaginal orgasms.
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Anal orgasms are believed to be triggered by pressure put on the nerves within the vaginal wall, so it makes sense that the (lucky) quarter of women who can come from penetration alone would be more likely to experience backdoor orgasms, Ward says.
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While the study found that women who had recently experienced clitoral orgasms were more responsive to erotic films, there was no evidence that there's a scientific difference between clitoral and vaginal orgasms, nor was there evidence for a link to mental health.
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While all orgasms feel pretty amazing to most people and none are inherently better than others, there are some major differences between the types of orgasms people who have vulvas can feel — mainly, that they can come from several different kinds of stimulation.
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This whole thing of not having orgasms until you're 25 or 30, I find astonishing.
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Stay open to that, and you'll likely open yourself to greater pleasures—and more orgasms.
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It has proved difficult to stop experiencing these orgasms and 'unwire' himself back to normal.
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So, if multiple orgasms are something you're after, what can you do to get there?
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While he wanted to savor every second of the experience, she was into multiple orgasms.
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Despite the snowflake tendencies of orgasms, there are some interesting connections from country to country.
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"We call clitoral orgasms 'climaxes,' because there are sharp peaks and sharp declines," Ward says.
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Lesbians (intimately familiar with the pootenanny) experience significantly more orgasms then straight or bisexual woman.
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Still unsatisfied after he orgasms, she turns on her side to finish the job herself.
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Men can — and do — fake orgasms, albeit not in quite the same numbers as women.
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A large number of respondents (23.7 percent) said they had also experienced exercise-induced orgasms.
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A lot of students actually ask whether it's even possible for women to have orgasms.
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Not only did I feel vaginally stronger, but my orgasms were more powerful and pleasurable.
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Sam says that they, personally, have experienced sex with a man capable of multiple orgasms.
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So I'd say you should consider your unexpected orgasms divine blessings, not sources for embarrassment.
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The fact that women sometimes fake orgasms may be contributing to male misperception as well.
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In a lab, women stimulated with a vibrator would often have several orgasms within minutes.
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Guys, if you want multiple, rapid-fire orgasms, evolve a better system for storing sperm.
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For specificity's sake, they also noted which sex acts in the videos led to orgasms.
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Myth: There are different types of orgasms, like a vaginal orgasm and a clitoral orgasm.
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Weed can not only get you horny, but it can make orgasms that much better.
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Some who reliably had orgasms from vaginal intercourse stopped having them that way while pregnant.
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Julian gives her, besides orgasms, the chance to be at the beginning of something again.
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She's also had her share of orgasms while providing the ultimate in customer service calls.
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Your orgasms may be affected if these muscles are weak because of age or childbirth.
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Made of medical-grade silicone, it is designed to simultaneously provoke vaginal and clitoral orgasms.
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Slaves might be told to abstain from orgasms, ostensibly to heal their negative sexual patterns.
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We asked Marin what her career has taught her about women's orgasms and sex lives.
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Beverly has two orgasms, which is, we find out, a poetic little repeat of the past.
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By contrast, of the 50 men who appeared, 78 percent of them were shown having orgasms.
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After all, orgasms are just one way that people judge whether a sexual experience was satisfying.
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Faking elation while opening a present is second only to faking orgasms, or so we assume.
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The vibe and app, which tracks orgasms to give the user as much information as possible.
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It doesn't take a doctor or mental health expert to tell you that orgasms feel good.
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I will watch about five to six videos and have many orgasms, just because I can.
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Image: Mr.Racy/FlickrOne 63-year-old man had so many prostate orgasms that he couldn't stop.
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But naturally, he also began having extreme orgasms of the "Super-O" category, says the paper.
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Drugs that cause a massive dopamine release have also been tied periodically to self-reported orgasms.
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Only about a dozen women have tried the Orgasmatron, and only a few reported full orgasms.
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That included regularly having more orgasms and engaging more often in communication and exploration during sex.
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The truth is, for most women, multiple orgasms are more of a myth than a reality.
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Whether or not everyone wants to admit it, there are folks out there who fake orgasms.
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The Solution How do we have more orgasms and quiet the insidious thoughts inside our noggins?
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Most people probably know about two types of orgasms vulva-havers can experience: clitoral and vaginal.
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There was a time that I wasn't having orgasms, so what am I so upset about?
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At first, orgasms can be surprising, accidental, or even scary (or a combination of those feelings).
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I know that from a purely scientific point of view, orgasms do not bring on periods.
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"I've found that I love anal orgasms and get really turned on by gaping," says Snow.
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Sad fact: Men have more orgasms than women and experts have known this since the '803s.
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The other thing that's often misunderstood about orgasms is that they're a "learned response," she says.
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Some say the sensations can get so intense if attended to properly that they experience orgasms.
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It's 2018: Where are the studies finding fruits help women have better sex and more orgasms?
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Get that important alone time to indulge yourself in solo orgasms, fine dining, flattery, and more!
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Betty Dodson, the Godmother of Orgasms, has some of the best tips and advice about climaxing.
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So, let's take a look at 12 types of orgasms — and how you can achieve them.
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The most recorded orgasms a woman has had in an hour is 134, a man 16.
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We need more research, however, to understand how orgasms are connected to women's health more broadly.
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They were like fake orgasms, untruthful actions giving the man an exaggerated view of his talents.
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From the least educated person — a male partner who, statistically speaking, likely induced many fake orgasms.
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Girlpile has an air of lore and mystery to it, like Fight Club with more orgasms.
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About a third of women who had never had orgasms reported experiencing them to some degree.
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Others might describe orgasms as fireworks or a cresting ocean wave — prettier, sure, but more abstract.
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Basically, orgasms can be really intense — and different people have different reactions to them, including crying.
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That's right — some people have reported that they have their best orgasms when they're on their period.
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Further, these videos also give viewers the impression that orgasms are something that men "give" to women.
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Orgasms, for as wonderful as they feel, aren't going to help you "obliterate crippling depression," she says.
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And while we're glad orgasms happen (regardless of the reason), this is a fun question to consider.
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That demonstration was faker than Elaine Benes' orgasms and she knows full well that Bernie isn't responsible.
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And there's one huge difference that makes orgasms way better than sneezes: The release of happy chemicals.
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"Or simply wait 'til he finishes and then he can stimulate her to multiple orgasms," says Vanderlinde.
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Orgasms are acceptable only after marriage — and subject to religious diktats that extinguish desire — or after death.
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"Males get nipples because females need them, and females get orgasms because males need them," she said.
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The thing is, orgasms do not need to be the finish line for sex — oral or otherwise.
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The days melted away in a rolling wave of orgasms––mine and every woman's at the center.
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However, you must now figure out how to make sure everyone laughs, orgasms, and thoroughly enjoys themselves.
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As these themes reveal, people sometimes fake orgasms for themselves because they're getting something out of it.
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In case you didn't already know — or couldn't guess — straight men have more orgasms than anyone else.
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In other words, Hunter has no way of knowing whether Raven was having orgasms or faking them.
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Later, the women reported how they were stimulated when they reached their most recent, and usual, orgasms.
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Sam says that the latter counts, and that cisgender men can experience several orgasms during intercourse, too.
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In fact, fewer than one in five women surveyed believed that longer sex contributed to better orgasms.
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But that question also tends to come up because people expect orgasms to sound a certain way.
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Orgasms seem mystical, but you can just think of them as a "peak sexual experience," Marin says.
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"Well, actually, Antonin Scalia would have preferred if none of us would have orgasms," Ms. Coles said.
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These seizures were determined to be a type of "reflex epilepsy," with orgasms serving as the stimuli.
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It was reported to help women, especially those who are post-menopausal, regain orgasms and sexual pleasure.
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Layla's premature orgasms continue to make her feel "inadequate and insecure" and amplify her fear of rejection.
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But the only guaranteed way to have more orgasms, Borkenhagen suggests, is to simply have better sex.
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Fans say regular use increases chi, orgasms, vaginal muscle tone, hormonal balance, and feminine energy in general.
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While solo cammers can fake orgasms, couples are expected to have sex—something you can't really simulate.
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Also, while we focused on men here, some studies have looked at orgasms and health in women.
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For example, we do have data suggesting that orgasms can relieve migraines in some female patients, too.
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Exercise-induced orgasms, also known as "coregasms" are a pretty common phenomenon among women (and some men).
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My clitoris definitely started tingling, and every usual sensation I get with regular orgasms seemed amplified somehow.
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"The guys don't want to see real orgasms, they want the porn orgasm," Ms. Dodson said caustically.
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"The guys don't want to see real orgasms, they want the porn orgasm," Ms. Dodson said caustically.
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Lately, when female friends and partners describe their orgasms, I've been finding it rather difficult to relate.
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Ana: I found porn way too soon and began masturbating and having orgasms from a really young age.
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Lesson #7: Girls Need Orgasms Too I know this may seem like common sense, but hear me out.
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She also said that following his orgasms he handed the flight attendant his used napkins to dispose of.
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The white pizza is the stuff of legend, and the garlic knots have been known to trigger orgasms.
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"I deserve mind-blowing orgasms just as much as anyone else and—I make sure I get them."
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According to a new survey from sex toy retailer Lelo, Norwegians are the ones having the most orgasms.
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"I pointed out how many men have orgasms in movies," Pierce said, to increasing fits of shocked laughter.
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Oral sex can be fun and intimate, and it can lead to some of the most intense orgasms.
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The white pizza is the stuff of legends, and their garlic knots have been known to trigger orgasms.
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According to one study Ghodsee cited, East German women had twice as many orgasms as West German women.
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And women who regularly used the drug were twice as likely as occasional users to have satisfying orgasms.
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And, it has with all of my past sexual partners — I'm almost always the one who orgasms first.
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I Feel MyselfSolely devoted to female pleasure, this project seeks to represent erotica holistically by depicting authentic orgasms.
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Because, really, it shouldn't be a shock to anyone that straight men have more orgasms than anyone else.
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Save for lucid dream experts, lucid dream orgasms act like alarm clocks, jolting women out of their sleep.
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I did eventually orgasm, but it was one of the weirdest orgasms I've ever had in my life.
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"We're all really anxious about performance, but orgasms shouldn't be the end-all of any experience," Marin says.
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Because the site uses clickbaity content about multiple orgasms and selfie sticks, I thought that Civilized pitched young.
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It's also possible that a lot of guys overperceive their partners' orgasms because it's an ego-defense strategy.
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" They suggest anyone using Root to "let it's woody texture grow your orgasms to new and exciting level.
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Ahead, read how six women describe their orgasms, and take in the, um, explosive GIFs that accompany them.
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But the Dunham said intense pleasure and stronger orgasms that are supported from kegel exercises are also important.
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Between mouthfuls of the famous pastrami and rye, the couple argue about whether or not women fake orgasms.
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For good measure, I also tracked one of my orgasms with the Lioness, a biofeedback tracking smart vibrator.
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When it comes to the question of why we have sleep orgasms, there are again only educated theories.
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I did enjoy sex without orgasms, but I could have enjoyed it even more if I'd let myself.
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One of the things I finally did learn about orgasms is how individualized they are for each person.
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Before starting these meds three years ago I had a healthy, active sex life and had regular orgasms.
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I do really strive to make my porn orgasms genuine and I think most of them definitely are.
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The patterns of intellectual striving are plain throughout the first half, but when Gill turns to Vanessa's and Virginia's sexual and emotional exploits (Clive Bell gives Vanessa "orgasms as well as sons," Vita Sackville-West "failed to give Virginia Woolf orgasms"), the combination of speculation and prurience becomes difficult to manage.
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I get asked about orgasms at least once a week—that's just life as a sex researcher for you.
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But just because orgasms are fleeting doesn't mean there isn't a lot for researchers like me to dig into.
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One woman said she had never orgasmed during sex on weed, while others said they had more intense orgasms.
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We also see her discuss spirituality, the beauty of orgasms, and her desire to connect with her old self.
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So, yes, there is a little bit of truth in the myth that sneezing and orgasms have a connection.
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And the sooner you mention it, the sooner you can get back to more fun activities — like having orgasms.
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"There are many types of orgasms — clitoral, vaginal, uterine — and the orgasm is generally a blended concept," he says.
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I've faked orgasms many times throughout my life, and it wasn't because I didn't deem myself worthy of climaxing.
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A few years ago curious scientists found out that lesbian women have more orgasms than straight or bisexual women.
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Of course, while orgasms are good (lol), Finn stresses that they're not the only good thing about touching yourself.
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I had one of the best orgasms of my life from scissoring, but the odds were in my favor.
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And if your orgasms are a result of really intense, sweaty sex, you probably can skip cardio all together.
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Dubbed "Orgasms of the Galaxy," the products a collection of dildos, penetrables and vibrators influenced by the Marvel films.
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"They are not a gift, they are your right, don't let anyone tell you otherwise," she says about orgasms.
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In the anus the device goes, and voilà: You've got a way to uniformly measure the physiology of orgasms.
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Instead, the best thing you can do is talk about your orgasms before you know they're coming, she says.
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While multiple orgasms are great, Herbenick's urgent point is that when unsatisfying sex becomes the norm, it warrants discussion.
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According to researchers, these findings could contribute to the idea that male orgasms should be a priority over women's.
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But anyway back to Lawrence… Despite all of his orgasms and health insurance, he's not happy with his life.
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They noted that many female mammals release oxytocin and prolactin during sex — the hormones released by women during orgasms.
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But there are the upsides: orgasms, human touch, the opportunity to go through someone's medicine cabinet while they're sleeping.
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So, penis owners, take note: There's a whole new world of orgasms over the river and through the sleeve.
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The evolutionary role of orgasms, the authors theorize, was to induce ovulation during sex, allowing women to become pregnant.
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One client of hers was insecure about her quick orgasms only because they made her partner feel left out.
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Is this comic saying that sexual congress and orgasms are as miraculous as anything that happens in the Bible?
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"Since this research—50 years ago now—cis women continue to share that some have mini orgasms," Twist says.
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Scientists have long known that there's a connection between orgasms and headaches—but it's more complex than previously thought.
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"It is not surprising to me when I hear of women who fake orgasms with male partners," Gunter wrote.
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Considering the number of women who have sex regularly, the number of orgasms they report having is shockingly low.
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At that point in my sexuality, I was already having orgasms by rubbing myself on objects, like my bed.
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Studies tell us that up to 67 percent of women who have experienced penile-vaginal intercourse have faked orgasms.
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And men have more orgasms — reaching climax in 95 percent of their encounters, compared to 69 percent for women.
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" As if sharing a secret, the man in the ad whispers, "It's the only way to experience multiple orgasms.
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It's the same sort of reaction that I recall experiencing back when my orgasms were firing on all cylinders.
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Steinke's discombobulation on the massage table leads to reflections on sexual desire, vagina dentata, orgasms and thinning vaginal walls.
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As a woman who menstruates, did I know that orgasms make period cramps less painful and bleeding cycles shorter?
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The reason the wand can create such intense orgasms is because it has powerful motors that provide unparalleled vibrations.
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He did admit that the orgasms might be a placebo effect and he hadn't actually measured his ostensible growth.
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Kegel balls have many practical benefits — strengthening the vagina after childbirth, controlling urinary incontinence, and increasing the intensity of orgasms.
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But the benefits of orgasm extend beyond just feeling good, and some research suggests that orgasms have powerful health benefits.
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Australians, on the other hand, reported the least intense orgasms, though they did come in third as far as frequency.
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And, while orgasms are by definition pleasurable when we do reach them, they're not all made equal: Some are unforgettable.
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For some people, faking orgasms every once in awhile feels necessary because their health won't allow an orgasm to happen.
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Often, information about having orgasms if you have a vagina involves something simplistic like "relax and it'll happen," she says.
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But then I turn that part of my brain off and think, I'm a person, I need to have orgasms.
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Your partner's weight will add to the pressure of the wand head on your clitoris for intense, full-body orgasms.
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If it's safe for pregnant people to have orgasms, it's safe for them to have exciting, heart-pumping BDSM sex.
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For those with vaginas, vibrators are commonly used to provide clitoral orgasms, but they can also provide multi-orifice stimulation.
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These exercises aim to help women whose pelvic floor has been weakened due to childbirth or age, and strengthen orgasms.
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Imagine telling men that they have to stop enjoying their penises, and somehow consciously start having orgasms exclusively from rimming.
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Why do we keep pursuing this elusive vaginal orgasm, when there are perfectly good clitoral orgasms all over the place?
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Orgasms can result from a wide range of activities—and those activities don't necessarily have to be sexual in nature.
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In 1966, Masters and Johnson excoriated the suggestion that they're distinct: Are clitoral and vaginal orgasms truly separate anatomic entities?
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But, crucially, they also were more likely to say that their partners had orgasms during that time as well. 2.
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Men were also more satisfied when they accurately perceived their partners' orgasms and when they had more frequent sexual communication.
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This could help to explain why one in five guys underestimated their wives' orgasms: Maybe they were expecting a performance.
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" Gopnik acknowledged, "The laboriously recounted instances of near-ejaculation, the orgasms achieved and enumerated—it's all there for the reviewers.
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As for what really gets site members going, they love female-focused foreplay, tenderness, real female orgasms, and, interestingly, penetration.
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She finds it painful to continue after she orgasms, but she often pushes through anyway, sometimes faking an orgasm later.
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People tend to watch through the whole scene a lot more, and there tend to be multiple orgasms—usually faked.
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But I'm also not against clitoral orgasms, so I'm not like some sex educators who say you shouldn't have any.
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According to AEBN, men could order orgasms on-demand—without hazarding the complexities of intimacy, or the risk of rejection.
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The Lioness is a smart vibrator that measures users' vaginal contractions and displays their orgasms on charts via an app.
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Focus on the clit As you have probably heard, for people with vulvas, orgasms are often all about the clit.
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There are folks who would be classified as virgins even though they're the LeBron James of having orgasms out here.
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" Moreover, the study's results "could be interpreted to support notion that the increased attention to women's orgasms, often lauded as the symbol of women's sexual liberation, actually reflects a repackaging of women's sexuality in the service of men" and that "a reevaluation of women's orgasms as symbols of sexual health and liberation is sorely needed.
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Stronger pelvic floor muscles leads to many benefits, from more intense orgasms to fighting urinary incontinence — and potentially making childbirth easier.
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"Women have lots of sexual pleasure; it's not necessarily dependent on orgasm, or they can have multiple orgasms," Dr. Castellanos says.
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But others might not have the same level of sensitivity in their vaginal wall, so anal orgasms aren't guaranteed for everyone.
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Their whirlwind basement-fucking romance awarded her three UTIs, one kidney infection, and zero orgasms over the course of 14 months.
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We smell better than men, our clothes are way cuter, and, of course, we have the potential to have multiple orgasms.
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Now, she's married to a woman with whom she has great communication, and no longer feels the need to fake orgasms.
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So, that makes people who can't just relax and let their orgasms flow feel as if there's something wrong with them.
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And more than half of women surveyed said that they fake orgasms because they don't want to hurt their partners' feelings.
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The song ends with a segment from Givens' comedy, a bit about how women these days can demand orgasms from sex.
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But as a career-oriented thirtysomething married mother, I've got limited time and I'm going to use it for orgasms, goddamnit.
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Frozen grapes are delicious even without the love making, so imagine how delightful the fruit can be when orgasms are involved.
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So, intense orgasms were achieved, with seemingly much less effort on his part compared to what I've experienced with smaller partners.
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Several respondents (10 percent) described orgasms that occurred while riding in a vehicle, from cars to buses to planes to rollercoasters.
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Perhaps most fascinating to me—as someone who studies sex for a living—were the people who reported orgasms from eating.
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Why is being more sensitive to smells linked to having more positive sexual experiences and (at least for women) more orgasms?
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After some midnight sex from my boyfriend, no nocturnal emissions—to give sleep orgasms their proper name—come during the night.
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But something tells me it's not them clocking up the majority of the 100 million faked orgasms in Britain a week.
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Those who smoked before sex habitually were more than twice as likely to say they experienced satisfying orgasms during sexual activity.
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So, to help you have heavenly orgasms and increased intimacy, here are some mind-blowing tricks to making sex last longer.
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So, why would a male have multiple orgasms if only the fit one can produce enough sperm to lead to pregnancy?
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Comedy, for which all of the shows in question aim, doesn't play well with dim lighting, sultry music and simultaneous orgasms.
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Women who worked out more often were more satisfied with their orgasms and were more easily able to get sexually aroused.
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Orgasms offer a variety of health benefits, but many people don't know how to have one or have trouble achieving climax.
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But a recent study published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior found that orgasms don't always indicate a positive sexual experience.
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And stevia—let's not forget about Dan Quinn's secret to fat loss, superhuman strength, enhanced orgasms and perhaps even life itself.
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We weren't taught how to use condoms, and we definitely didn't learn anything about female orgasms or having sex for pleasure.
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My favorite porn fail is when a woman orgasms loudly when ejaculate hits her ass—that rarely happens in real life.
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The whole thing is part of a Lovehoney campaign called Mind the Gap, which aims to help more couples share orgasms.
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The VSpot can get your vulva "pretty" for photo shoots and also offers services that promise health and more intense orgasms.
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Other research found that women who practice mindfulness have way better sex in general, with higher arousal, desire, and better orgasms.
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Regardless, though, my tracked orgasm showed there's some credence to the claims of how mindful sex can lead to better orgasms.
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"Sleep orgasms show that human sexuality is much bigger and broader than we often give it credit it for," said Herbenick.
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A lot of us spend a lot of time trying to have an orgasm — but what about orgasms that happen accidentally?
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Books teaching women about orgasms have been popular since the 1970s, and I was skeptical of the need for this one.
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You will find no fake orgasms here, or what Lust described as the "punish fucking of women" that dominates tube sites.
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I'm convinced there's a conspiracy against orgasms in the government because there are so many sex patents that just don't get approval.
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Her first big hit "Love to Love You Baby," full of 22 simulated orgasms according to Time, is probably her best known.
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Orgasms are awesome, and pink balls are real, but an orgasm doesn't always have to be the goal of a sexual experience.
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While more than one of these orgasms was achieved with chemical assistance, sometimes the "wow" factor came from an unexpected place. Enjoy!
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Orgasms, like most things that aren't eyelashes and fur, are generally considered better when they're real, especially when it comes to women.
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ASMR is sometimes described as "head orgasms" or the tingly, relaxing sensation that can be triggered by soft voices or ambient sounds.
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That said, there are some people who have been faking orgasms with their partners who are no longer content with that decision.
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Dr Matlock was described as "controversial" in 2013 for inventing the "G-shot", an internal injection which he claimed amplified women's orgasms.
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But, as much as my need for orgasms suffered, the death of my $12 starter vibrator wasn't exactly a huge financial loss.
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"Of course orgasms are fun and feel great, but you can have a lot of pleasure without having an orgasm," she says.
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Even if they do, the orgasms you give yourself might just feel different — or better — than ones you get from your partner.
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" [To test for relaxation] you would have to scale the orgasms, and say "when the orgasm does this, does that reduce anxiety?
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If vaginal intercourse is down but oral sex and female orgasms are up, that might be reason to celebrate rather than panic.
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The Captain Anal is a butt plug designed for patriotic pleasure, and the Infinity Fist is designed with powerful orgasms in mind.
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Some of the salacious topics she covered on her show were about practicing safe sex, achieving female orgasms, and male premature ejaculation.
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In an episode in June 2018, Pinkett Smith told Willow she once gave herself "multiple orgasms" by the time she was 17.
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She also offers a nine-week online program, Finishing School, that guides women to their first orgasms alone and then with partners.
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According to mainstream women's magazines, there are about as many types of female orgasms as there are brands of flattering workout pants.
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That's one of the findings to come out of a recently published study on facial expressions of orgasms and pain across cultures.
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They answered questions about how much they enjoyed sex, what made them feel sexy, how great were their orgasms and so on.
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In the video, Masterson said vaginal kung-fu is an ancient Taoist practice that can lead to more intense and pleasurable orgasms.
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"A great way to intensify orgasms and allow yourself to really get into the experience is to take it slow," she says.
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Nearly three-quarters of women said that clitoral stimulation during intercourse was either necessary for their orgasm or made their orgasms better.
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"And, it's good for you anyway; it boosts your endorphins, and there's evidence that orgasms reduce heart disease and diabetes," Jansen continues.
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Luckily, women are no longer deemed hysterical (at least, not by medical professionals), and most men understand our desire to have orgasms.
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Collectively, they work to form a picture of the hurdles women face in their quests to achieve, sustain, and ask for orgasms.
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So, we can't help but wonder, are multiple orgasms (a commonly upheld "skill" of the female anatomy) actually attainable for all women?
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Awakened by the old, familiar sound of Sally's faked orgasms, he stands up, looks around the room and stumbles to Sally's table.
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It's enraging that faking orgasms to satisfy a man's sexual script has not been confined to the trash heap of bad history.
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They are requesting labial reduction even though the labia minora is a sexually responsive body part that plays a role in orgasms.
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I wish women could know what it's like to possess a male opinion — like a Tiresias but for "actuallys" instead of orgasms.
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Research into sleep (or nocturnal) orgasms is sorely lacking, with very few definitive answers to even the most basic questions about it.
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"Sometimes people recall erotic dreams in connection with their sleep orgasms but other times recall completely mundane, non-sexual things," said Herbenick.
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"It's not so much the number of orgasms or how vigorous the sexual experience that predicts a woman's sexual satisfaction," Berman said.
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Go for multiple orgasms Think of sexual pleasure like a wave and ride it to a second orgasm (or third, or fourth).
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The procedure, he insisted, worked like a charm; within days, he claimed his erections were larger and harder and his orgasms better.
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The good news is, women of every relationship status had more orgasms over time, supporting the theory that sex gets better with age.
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There's only one problem… RHS' Heathers musical Is Set In Motion Choni's problems are too complicated for a few good orgasms to fix.
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At first glance, they're just a fun and colorful way to look at the orgasms that people have uploaded to the sound library.
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A small study published in March 2019 found that marijuana helped women have more pleasurable sex and more satisfying orgasms, Insider previously reported.
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Related: Six Things People Still Get Wrong About SexFive Things Porn Tricks Us Into Thinking Everyone Does Why Don't Men Have Multiple Orgasms?
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And not just because of the potential of orgasms at the finish line: Turns out, getting physically intimate can boost emotional intimacy, too.
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But sex experts say there are 12 types of orgasms, total, including climaxes from nipple stimulation and from kissing (yes, just from kissing).
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Women who used marijuana before sex were twice as likely as those who didn't to say they had "satisfactory" orgasms, the survey found.
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The finding was totally unexpected for the scientists, but could easily explain why some women report having orgasms from nipple-touching, they said.
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If you're not already really into nipple play, then consider chasing another form of elusive orgasm instead, such as orgasms from sexual fantasy.
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There is a reason why Hitachi wands have been best sellers since their advent in the 70s: They deliver powerful, insanely awesome orgasms.
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Despite its overblown reputation as Sting's favorite bedroom pastime, tantric sex is about more than marathon orgasms and sustained, seemingly pointless, eye contact.
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If true, this means we've probably only scratched the surface when it comes to understanding when, how, and why people might have orgasms.
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This podcast explores culture phenomena that spring from the intersection of sex and technology —like intimacy with robots, or how tech impacts orgasms.
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So why do lesbian women have orgasms almost as often as men do—is it because these gender roles don't apply to them?
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She performs under a pseudonym, and has a clear set of boundaries—no public shows, no saying "I love you," no fake orgasms.
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Vaginal Kung Fu invigorates the vagina so it can function as it's meant to: a giver of multiple orgasms and life-changing pleasure.
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Orgasms are not always obvious or in-your-face: They can be subtle, or they can be explosive, and everyone does it differently.
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And since people with vaginas are capable of multiple orgasms, after you tell him and continue hooking up, you could even come again.
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This can make for the best orgasms of your life, but you both might be too self-involved to make it something longterm.
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But when it comes to orgasms, Prause said, the same response doesn't seem to have negative health effects, which was a shocking discovery.
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While it can be sexy to lick their labia and kiss their inner thighs, orgasms from oral sex typically happen from clitoral stimulation.
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Similar chemical releases happen during induced ovulation, the authors claim, which led them to believe that orgasms once provoked fertilization in ancient humans.
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For example, the authors failed to consider the neurological and muscular effects of an orgasm, as well as orgasms in other mammalian species.
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Queen advises figuring out if a particular sexual act or position triggers premature orgasms and avoiding them if you want to last longer.
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I remember reading about the orgasm gap, and being shocked to learn how much less often heterosexual women have orgasms than heterosexual men.
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Dr. Cass specified that women can, technically, have between five and seven orgasms in a row — but, for some, this just doesn't happen.
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An admirable sex expert Lou Paget says that vagina-bearers can experience 10 different types of orgasms, while penis-bearers can have eight.
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You can see how shocked Jessica is to see she can truly have great orgasms if she focuses on what turns her on.
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If it's not so much orgasms, but intimacy that you crave, remember the world is full of other people who also like sex!
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I was a homeschooled, Jonathan Taylor Thomas-obsessed, freshly vegetarian preteen who understood the basics of reproduction, yet orgasms had remained conceptually elusive.
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A study published earlier this year in the Archives of Sexual Behavior found that straight women had fewer orgasms than any other group.
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Partly because nearly half of younger women now have their first orgasms during masturbation, rather than waiting until they're sexually active with a partner.
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And, like those daily orgasms, it was a moment to do something completely for myself — and honestly, I think that's the most important thing.
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However, you should be mindful of your needs and aware of the risks, such as its affect on IRL relationships and intensity of orgasms.
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For months after the laser treatments, she experienced a progressive decline in her sex life with worsening libido and less frequent and intense orgasms.
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Doing Kegel exercises, whether with weights or without, can help control urinary incontinence, lessen pelvic floor pain, and even make orgasms feel more intense.
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"I've never orgasmed during sex, but it happens in my sleep almost every other week," one woman who experiences sleep orgasms previously told Refinery29.
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For people who have vulvas, masturbating regularly can also exercise your pelvic floor muscles and lead to stronger orgasms in the future, Finn says.
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While the idea that queer women never fake it is obviously untrue, research and anecdote imply that gay women do fake orgasms less often.
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From a super crushing a man's skull as she orgasms to another super's paraphilic infantilism fetish, Kripke uses extreme moments to build the story.
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There are tantric breathing classes that build ecstasy, techniques to lengthen orgasms until they're several minutes or even an hour long, and many more.
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Some studies say that about 15% of women have multiple orgasms, some of which feel like one big orgasm with a few smaller aftershocks.
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But if you're aware of how exactly anxiety and feelings of anxiousness can mess with your orgasms, you can take some pressure off yourself.
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I love hearing that he made her moan, that she was pleading for more, that she had several orgasms while in his capable hands.
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So that means more arousal, better orgasms, yummier sensations, more sensitive body parts, more connection to your own body and to your partner's body.
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The typical read on fake orgasms is a simple one: women fake because they're having bad sex and want to get it over with.
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Yes, in spite of all the hype, there are plenty of orgasms that aren't all that exciting, let alone awe inspiring or life changing.
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You may have cornered the wand as your solo-only toy, but its big head and long body make orgasms during intercourse even easier.
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"Sendler talked to Women's Health about the "7 Ways To Make Missionary Position So Much Hotter" and the "12 Orgasms Every Woman Should Have.
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The woman got up to go to the toilet after having had a few orgasms, and I thought, I'm going to please myself now.
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But in this case, watching characters we barely know make out, fake orgasms, and give each other head fails to arouse — or even interest.
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It won't spark a movie-moment between you and your partner; it won't become "your song"; it won't make your orgasms feel any better.
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From personal, clitoral, and g-spot orgasms, to the repetitious fucking of hulking gods, the hidden power of our sex lives is still illuminating.
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It would be rude to say no to strong, ejaculatory orgasms, so I took myself down to my local clinic to try it out.
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Conger points out that "blue balls" may get more exposure, because male orgasms are considered easier to attain — ever heard of the "orgasm gap"?
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But if regular orgasms are consistently harder to reach for many women, shouldn't "blue vulvas" be even more of a thing than "blue balls"?
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That means classifying orgasms vaginal, clitoral, or something else wrongly insinuates that the orgasm itself is occurring in the clitoris versus in the vagina.
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Etler considers her quick orgasms "80 percent weaker" than ones that take longer, so it frustrates her to be unable to go for another.
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But there is also pointed writing not just about politics but about subways and orgasms and woolly underwear and air conditioning and retirement homes.
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He says that through the "virtual reality simulation" of lucid dreaming, sexuality can be explored, fantasies can be fulfilled, and orgasms are more intense.
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Instead of correcting them, I just nodded and faked my share of orgasms because I prioritized men feeling comfortable over my own sexual pleasure.
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"Sleep orgasms are a common part of human existence, and perhaps your body's way of relieving tension or experiencing pleasure and enjoyment," Herbenick said.
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I get the idea at the core of OMGYes, the website introduced late last year that promises to teach women techniques to improve their orgasms.
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Read these stories next: Why LGBTQ Pride Deserves More Than One Month 7 Misconceptions About Bisexuality We Need To Forget Yes, Lesbians Fake Orgasms, Too
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How Foria Awaken Works Per the press release, FORIA Awaken will: enhance sensation, increase desire, improve lubrication, heighten awareness, deepen orgasms, and relax your body.
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The site's founders, Lydia Daniller and Rob Perkins, wanted to create a place where women and men could get versed on techniques for better orgasms.
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Study after study has shown that the majority of women say they have indeed done it before—but it's not just women who fake orgasms.
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Her poem forms part of Durex UK's #wininorgasms campaign to encourage couples to communicate more in the bedroom in an effort to achieve mutual orgasms.
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Women fake orgasms all the time, likely because they feel the pressure from male partners who feel that sex is only successful if she comes.
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Obviously, my husband loves me, but because I wasn't mentally in the right place during sex, I wasn't allowing myself to release and have orgasms.
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In particular, she's got beef with the research into female orgasms mentioned by this New York Times article (particularly the "evolutionary mystery" phrasing, we imagine).
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Although many focus on achieving the impossible during their lucid dreams—telekinesis, flying, shapeshifting—Bramlett is not the only woman interested in lucid dream orgasms.
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Whether you got laid or achieved the fireworks via your own handy work, orgasms are a self-care tool that we all deserve to experience.
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" The shorts will also "entrench the hardness and glow with powerful ejaculations" and "unlock the mysterious quest for the most wanted experience of multiple orgasms.
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It's a mistake to take that as a sign that someone isn't capable of multiple orgasms, only that they will arise in a different way.
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But you can still have a fulfilling, pleasurable sex life without orgasms, because they don't have to be the finish line of every sexual experience.
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They then conducted two follow-up studies that, combined, involved more than 1,400 adults (mostly recruited through Craigslist) who also had prior experience faking orgasms.
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Some might have never had an orgasm, whereas others can experience difficulties after previously having had orgasms for years, a subset known as acquired anorgasmia.
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Part of what makes the sex feel supercharged is the use of the Xeron, a vaginal stimulator dildotron that enhances orgasms by 1 million percent.
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For others, it can stimulate the g-spot and the legs of the clitoris, or the prostate, leading to real pleasure—even fully anal orgasms.
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High Island Health had a guest book on its site at the time, Andrews said, and the company heard from other customers reporting intense orgasms.
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Although their X-rated wares would supposedly give women orgasms, unlike the feminist-championed toys they were sold primarily as devices that would benefit men.
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Kross and other stars have banded together on a campaign called #PayForYourPorn, urging consumers to recognize the financial value of all those Internet-assisted orgasms.
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The steady regimen of tooth-brushing orgasms was exhausting, rather than exalting, and led to an unusual morning dilemma: to brush or not to brush.
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Their hope is that making inclusive, diverse porn—in which the performers' pleasure is authentic and the orgasms real—will change sex for the better.
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Not all women necessarily want more frequent orgasms, but for those who do, understanding the gender differences can point to ways to close that gap.
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Frustrated by this unequal distribution of orgasms, Marin founded Finishing School, an online course dedicated to teaching women the nitty gritty details of their anatomy.
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If I'm going to invest in a sex toy that is roughly the size of an ottoman it better provide me with the best orgasms imaginable.
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" Another, up on the blog right now, is from a woman who exclusively fakes orgasms, "because one time I had one, and some poop came out.
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What researchers didn't find in their review, despite anecdotal reports they'd heard, was evidence that documented drooling, nausea, queefing, and swearing as responses associated with orgasms.
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Lisa Williams and Anniki Sommerville from the Hotbed Collective wrote about this very issue in their aptly titled book More Orgasms Please: Why Female Pleasure Matters.
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Image: ShutterstockWe joke about women faking orgasms both because it's common and because public perception suggests they do it to stroke the egos of clueless boyfriends.
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Hopefully someday the orgasm gap will be a thing of the past and women will get to enjoy plenty of orgasms, regardless of their sexual orientation.
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Unable to find much evidence of urethral orgasms in medical literature, I turn to my second favorite (and probably least reliable) source of scientific information: Reddit.
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One blog post on goop recommended inserting a rock, called a jade egg, into your vagina to improve your sex life and orgasms, among other benefits.
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" You could also indulge in a "Root," which is "a sentient, tree-like dildo," whose "woody texture will grow your orgasms to new and exciting level.
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If you're a long nail devotee with no interest in giving up your claws, fear not: You can keep your long nails and have your orgasms.
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Still, the idea that having your penis pearled will make have you wringing orgasms out of your partner by the dozen seems to have taken root.
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Luckily, researcher Nicole Prause and her colleagues came swooping in this week with a bit of healthy validation: clitoral orgasms are not to be messed with.
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Is the "multiple orgasm" exclusively defined as immediate and successive, or do multiple orgasms that are spread throughout the course of a sex act also qualify?
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Researchers discovered a lot of things about American sexuality at the time, but one of the most notable was that men were hogging all the orgasms.
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Exercise-induced orgasms are a real thing — about 10% of women and 8% of men have reported experiencing a "coregasm" at some point in their life.
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The majority of those surveyed reporting that orgasms were less pleasurable (and at times, weaker, painful, and emotionally disconnected) during these negative but consensual sexual encounters.
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Plus, the idea that there are special types of orgasms and a hierarchy built around them is factually incorrect, and there's even science to prove it.
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Boler sites a study in Istanbul that shows women who do pelvic floor exercises are more lubricated, have stronger orgasms and have a higher sexual arousal.
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" When she and Jerry are talking about women faking orgasms, she refuses to lie to save his feelings (again), and instead tells him: "You didn't know?
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" In an interview with psychology news website PsyPost, the authors noted that women's orgasms "shouldn't be seen as another notch on the bedpost, so to speak.
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You can be happy, but you have to be happy and gain weight, or happy but you can't have orgasms, or happy and have a tremor.
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" Another is still grappling with performance, regularly faking orgasms: "I have a confession to make...I haven't been completely honest with, say...70 percent of you.
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But I'm an adult woman with the ability to have secret orgasms at the gym, and that's sort of a highlight in a fairly average life.
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Pardlo examines the existential quality of mutual orgasms, his marriages, the role of time in the lives of African-Americans and his experiences raising two daughters.
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"It's designed to help people with vulvas experience amazing blended orgasms through simultaneous clitoral and G-spot stimulation, making it the ultimate multi-tasker," Cole explains.
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One woman identified as Patient G told the state board she had become sexually aroused by the doctor's manipulations, and two others said they had orgasms.
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Show notes revealed that "Clitoridian" was a tongue-and-cheek reference to Freud's writing on clitoral orgasms, while "Patriarchy = C02" attributes climate change to male oppression.
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In the episode, called "The Pleasure Is Ours," we meet feminist sex educators Betty Dodson and Carlin Ross, who have coached thousands of women on orgasms.
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Orgasms release oxytocin, the anti-stress hormone that gets you warm and fuzzy when cuddling, while dopamine, a neurotransmitter that regulates sleep, also makes an appearance.
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A comparative sociological study of East and West Germans conducted after reunification in 1990 found that Eastern women had twice as many orgasms as Western women.
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"I didn't learn about what synesthesia was until my early 20s, and I had been seeing colors during my orgasms for years before then," Arlanda says.
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Vibrators were first invented as a cure for the so-called disease, and doctors used them on women to provide them orgasms and help them find relief.
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"While female orgasms were most commonly experienced during foreplay, copulatory vocalizations were reported to be made most often before and simultaneously with male ejaculation," the researchers wrote.
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Another potential issue is that most women don't have orgasms through intercourse without clitoral stimulation, which limits the orgasm's ability to help with pregnancy for obvious reasons.
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In a time of fake news, fake restaurants, and fake jizz secreted during fake orgasms, there's something profound about surrendering to the unapologetic artifice of amateur wrestling.
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I was in my 20s and had been having orgasms for a decade-plus (see bike story), but had never gone 'all the way' with a girl.
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That being said, your doctor still might tell you to avoid orgasms if you're at high risk for preterm labor because of the theoretical risk, Proudfit says.
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For those who didn't dig female friendly porn, their reasons were almost identical: too soft, too tame, too heterosexual, fake orgasms, too much like a Lifetime movie.
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I never particularly cared for Jacques Cousteau or the sea in general—I'm not even sure what Cousteau ever actually did, beyond helping me stave off orgasms.
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Bodies are not assembled as cleanly as plumbing systemsVaginal and clitoral orgasms are not separate because the vagina and the clitoris, as anatomical structures, are not separate.
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Back in the early 1900s, Sigmund Freud, the father of psychoanalysis, decided that clitoral orgasms were a sign of sexual and psychological immaturity, and sometimes mental illness.
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Lioness, a smart vibrator, can measure a woman's vaginal contractions (with sensor in the that measures tension in the vagina) and display her orgasms on a chart.
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Interestingly, however, men's sexual satisfaction was unrelated to how often they themselves were orgasming, but that's probably because most men have orgasms most of the time anyway.
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To get even more basic, orgasms are simply a "reflex in the body," or side effect of great pleasure, says Shannon Chavez, PsyD, a clinical sex therapist.
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The results are illuminating: 47% of women surveyed have multiple orgasms, and interestingly, the majority of them use different techniques after the first to achieve the next.
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"It does give me better orgasms – easier and stronger," said Dina, 45, who asked her last name be kept private because she was discussing something so personal.
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To change this, neuroscientist and sex researcher Nicole Prause founded Liberos, a biotechnology company that studies the brain-body connection in relation to orgasms and sexual pleasure.
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Prause added that when a woman orgasms, it appears that her brain is firing off "excited" neurons that are typically seen when a person has a seizure.
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According to Swann, people with vulvas don't have a post-coital refractory period, which means that they remain sensitive to sexual stimuli and can achieve further orgasms.
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But sometimes, orgasms can come with unpleasant side effects—say, a bout of tears, pain, or maybe even a seizure, according to a recent review of studies.
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Much like the human tailbone, female orgasms once served an important function, according to the study whose findings were published today in JEZ-Molecular and Developmental Evolution.
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Her orgasms have changed from quick climaxes to drawn out moments of intense satisfaction, and she is no longer controlled by the gripping sexual impulses of masculinity.
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Ultimately, we are responsible for our own orgasms and pleasure, but it can definitely be stressful to introduce a new element, like lube, into our sex lives.
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Above all this, a cheeky neon sign spells out "Holiday Motel," and to the side, a light box advertises "Free Narcissistic People Disorder... Free Orgasms," and more.
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All the shame that had built up in my brain, instilled by society's insistence on governing who we get to be, was shattered by my ecstatic orgasms.
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Consider, for instance, this handful of well-known distinguishing human traits: our constant interest in sex, permanent breasts, big penises, and, last but hardly least, women's orgasms.
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It also serves as a feminist fairy tale of sorts, in which women subvert patriarchal society by procuring orgasms from their doctors, paid for by their husbands.
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The future senator once referenced studies purporting to link cervical cancer with sexual activity — but his concern was actually women having too few orgasms, not too many.
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Strgar makes very good points about how we confuse sexual freedom with sexual license, resulting in a hookup culture that has us faking orgasms like porn stars.
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"I know you just had amazing orgasms and want to be blissed out—the last thing you want to do is go clean your toys," said Hall.
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We are creating new spaces and new orgasms—multifarious things that might involve genitals, breath work, fantasies in our heads, or just old-fashioned sweat and dripping.
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And a recent (but very small) study out of New York University suggests that sex while high leads to "magnified" orgasms and less regret than sex while drunk.
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Then the fully "mature" vaginal orgasms could occur, and babies would be produced, and the world could continue on in the fashion to which we've all grown accustomed.
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"I think we're all capable of having multiple orgasms, but a better goal is to find your own version of what feels like to max out on pleasure."
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At the next night's service, Ariel (Eden Epstein) is grumbling about a girl who has yet to call her back, despite Ariel giving her three orgasms (the nerve!).
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That's a problem, says Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist who specializes in teaching women how to orgasm, because many people who struggle to have orgasms already blame themselves.
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Most people associate anal orgasms with people who have penises, since they have a prostate (a gland located inside the anal canal that's considered a "potent pleasure point").
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Of course, not every woman enjoys anal penetration, but for those women who love it — the clitoris is stimulated during anal sex and she has orgasms this way.
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Swan toes the same line on her Instagram, where she features memes mocking herself in between quotes about extraterrestrials, living in hell, and "orgasms to manifest" (sound familiar?).
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There's an argument that vaginal weights and Ben Wa balls aren't sex toys because people don't have orgasms with them, and so they're more of a health device.
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According to sex experts, the coital alignment technique is the best sex position to try for clitoral stimulation — and it can possibly lead to having multiple, simultaneous orgasms.
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For people with clitorises, this indirect stimulation can be a huge turn-on that can lead to orgasms, and it can feel amazing for people with penises, too.
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This story first appeared in VICE UK. If you've ever been a teenage girl – or, in fact, a fully adult woman – you'll be well versed in faking orgasms.
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I want to know how it was made, I want to know that everybody's having a good time, and I want to know that the orgasms are real.
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Three-quarters (77.5 percent) of the women reported that some orgasms feel better than others (of these, 39 percent said adding clitoral stimulation to penetration enhanced their experience).
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" Janet Ellis (The Butcher's Hook) refers to a man's erection as an "audacious swell," and when a woman orgasms, Ellis writes, "I spill like grain from a bucket.
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Americans' tendency to attach morality to orgasms is probably linked to our belief in God, with 53 percent of us saying religion is very important in our lives.
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The weekend, your vacation, sense of self-satisfaction, orgasms, the taste of pizza and other dope things never stop when you're listening to indie pop duo Freedom Fry.
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Waterproof vibrators can create clitoral orgasms that feel like they last for days, but so can using the warm stream of water from the bathtub you already own.
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Often, people only focus on the physical sensations of an orgasm, but the brain also plays a role in how orgasms happen, sex researcher Nicole Prause told INSIDER.
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In a typical scene, the camera lingers on shots of tangled tattooed limbs, butt cheeks dappled with stretch marks, and palpably real orgasms from cis and trans couples.
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Women's orgasms should be experienced—when they are wanted—as a wonderful part of sexuality, not as something men give to women as an example of their prowess.
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To answer this differently, I used a word based on logic that meant "doesn't have orgasms" without knowing there was a medical "condition" with a mental distress component.
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Although research has found links between frequent orgasms and a number of positive health outcomes, we clearly need more data to understand why in all of these cases.
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While we must await future research for a more complete picture, the data that has emerged so far suggests that orgasms just might be beneficial for our bodies.
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There's also the fact that the clitoris is related to the male penis, and because the two body parts are related, the orgasms they produce may be linked.
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A 2011 study of 124 women who had experienced exercise-induced orgasms found that 40% of them had experienced this type of orgasm on more than 10 occasions.
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I&aposve always been a pretty sexual person, open to lots of kinks, oral, and anal, and before taking medication, orgasms used to come very easily to me.
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That's right: one person can "experience wildly different orgasms" in different situations, Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist who specializes in teaching women how to orgasm, previously told Refinery29.
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If he was a gent, she came first but come on, those orgasms were extensions of his ego and spoke to his masculine prowess more than anything else.
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It's a wearable that uses biofeedback to give women the ability to track their own orgasms and understand their bodies on a scale society has always denied them.
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My friend group's conversations are blunt, almost intrusive: Whether we're discussing masturbation, methods of giving oral, or the best orgasms we've had, the conversation always gravitates to fucking.
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I edged with the hopeful intention of one day being a better partner but I soon found that it also made my orgasms more powerful and um, productive.
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They asked people how many orgasms they had and reported that taking that into account didn't change the results; however, orgasmic frequency isn't quite the same as sexual enjoyment.
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He believed that young girls experienced clitoral orgasms, but that these were "immature sexual responses" they'd grow out of once their husbands or lovers introduced them to penetrative sex.
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Lelo conducted a survey of 2,200 respondents from 21 different countries, and found that 35% of people in Norway said that they had orgasms at least once a day.
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He is, however, open to nitrous oxide and the idea that two strangers can achieve simultaneous orgasms and get pregnant on the first try in about two minutes flat.
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"Quite frankly, there's not a whole lot of data on multiple orgasms since it's difficult to study," says gynecologist Lauren Streicher, MD, author of forthcoming book Love Sex Again.
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It's okay to be skeptical about cervical orgasms, because there's no solid research confirming their existence, and some experts aren't entirely sold on it even from an anecdotal standpoint.
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In one survey, 76 percent of men said cannabis increased their sexual pleasure; 68 percent reported it enhanced their orgasms; and for 39 percent it helped them last longer.
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Even if you don't have an orgasm solely from anal stimulation, adding ass to your routine can heighten pleasure sensations and increase the frequency of your orgasms, Ward says.
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After some time, the very woke sex therapist helps Ilana rise above the trauma that "a sexual assault-bragging steak salesman has become our president," and eventually, Ilana orgasms.
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But Kibz also told me that estrogen has allowed her to achieve multiple orgasms, though before her transition she was incapable of having more than one at a time.
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Whether you consider these extra waves of pleasure as the tail-end of one super long orgasm or a form of multiple orgasms, in the end it doesn't matter.
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It's like an interactive pamphlet from the free clinic, except it's not about herpes or breast cancer, but how you can achieve better orgasms with or without a companion.
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Oxytocin is released during lactation and orgasms, and one widely cited (though later challenged) study suggested that whiff of the chemical can increase trust in a money-sharing game.
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Kerner tells Broadly that much of the confusion surrounding vaginal orgasms comes from the idea that the clitoris is just that little nub at the top of your downstairs.
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Unfortunately, lots of young people are letting porn inform them on how to have sex, what orgasms are supposed to look like, and what bodies are sexy and desirable.
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The research adds some much-needed data to the science of women's pleasure, which has long been haunted by largely baseless Freudian assertions about the nature of female orgasms.
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Anyone can brag about being good at yoga, but imaginary Valencia boasts that not only does she have vaginal orgasms, but she's also not afraid of clowns and trains.
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Many people with SCIs or other paralyses affecting their sex lives eventually find they can have pleasurable sex lives—even orgasms—without the use or feeling of their genitals.
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As feminism continues its insidious creep into popular culture, men are expected to understand and appreciate the female anatomy and all the ways they can make it have orgasms.
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"Our purpose was to understand more about women's experiences with ... the kinds of touch they find pleasurable and how clitoral and vaginal stimulation contribute to their orgasms," she explained.
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"If you love your vibrator, are happy with your orgasms, and don't feel any negative impacts on your partnered sex life, keep firing that puppy up," Marin tells me.
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Plus, the findings perpetuate the idea that orgasms primarily happen through vaginal or anal penetration, when we know that there are plenty of ways for women to achieve orgasm.
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Since Vyleesi was only recently made available with a prescription, it remains to be seen how women in the real world will find it affects their desire and orgasms.
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Dr. Puts and his colleagues have carried out studies to test the possibility that orgasms increase the odds that a woman's eggs are fertilized by a genetically attractive male.
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Read more: 17 times celebrities got brutally honest about sex"It is not surprising to me when I hear of women who fake orgasms with male partners," Gunter wrote.
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A number of Dame's competitors have begun incorporating apps into their couples' products, some explicitly looking to "gamify" of sexual pleasure—as though, you know, orgasms weren't reward enough.
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When women have orgasms, they found, their bodies are flooded with "feel good" chemicals called prolactin and oxytocin, which is an effect that has already been observed in men.
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Kerner recalls another client of his, who faked orgasms during loud sex: Her male partner was "stunned" by this, Kerner said, because his girlfriend was so auditory during intercourse.
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Here, a reader can see the scope of Maple's career, such as works like her I love Orgasms acrylic, her Bananarama oil work, and her Melons C-type print.
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There's an important trade-off, however: While abstaining from orgasms does indeed boost men's sperm count, longer abstinence periods are simultaneously linked to the release of lower-quality sperm.
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My response is to tell them that statistically — especially with that attitude — they have likely induced more fake orgasms than real ones, so I am uninterested in their opinions.
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Sure, decreasing estrogen levels affect vaginal dryness and elasticity, but Betty Dodson proves that with the help of a little lube, toe-curling orgasms are available into your 288s.
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Lian: No, but I had enough images in my head to expect that if you're having sex and you're not having orgasms—which, who does when you start having sex?
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Related: Korean Artist Sketches Awkward Daily Life in Illustrations Free Orgasms, Neon Lights, and Pepto-Bismol at the Korean Pavilion A South Korean Artist Paints Positive Faces Over Depressing News
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Orgasms aren't just good for you physically, they can also be beneficial for your mental health, says Rachel Needle, PsyD, a licensed psychologist and director of Modern Sex Therapy Institutes.
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I met a guy who was the first to give me multiple orgasms during sex, as opposed to my previous (but few) sexual encounters, which solely focused on male pleasure.
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After all, we already know that politics and sex might be more closely linked than you'd think — and orgasms are one of our favorite ways to relieve stress and anxiety.
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Last year, in a postcoital daze after probably 20 orgasms, I told my person that the sex we'd just had was the best thing that had ever happened to me.
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If you're a vagina owner, you're likely aware that your clitoris is a reported "magic button," which can give you orgasms capable of solving world peace and ending world hunger.
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Add in differences in what turns you on (one person's Idris Elba is another's Kristen Stewart), and knowing how exactly to use that clitoris to achieve orgasms can get confusing.
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If only women could be more in touch with their physical pleasure, could speak about their needs more, could advocate for their own orgasms, no one would need to fake.
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After changing how I pleasure myself, not only am I giving myself way more pleasure (including multiple orgasms in a row which is brand new!!), I don't feel shitty afterwards!
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Also, some described these orgasms as occurring in the presence of others, while others were alone, so we don't know how much other people matter in all of this, either.
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This leads Tepper and others to believe that orgasms are essentially a sensory overload: Enough of any pleasurable stimulation, embraced and followed without expectation, can tip you over that edge.
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Women were more satisfied with their sex lives when they orgasmed more often, when their partners accurately perceived their orgasms, and when there was more sexual communication in the relationship.
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For people who do practice witchcraft, though, the full moon is viewed as a powerful time to perform sex magic, or harnessing sexual energy through orgasms to manifest your intentions.
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JERUSALEM (Reuters) - Male fruit flies enjoy orgasms more than alcohol - and Israeli researchers who tested the insects' addiction to pleasure hope to apply their discovery to controlling human substance abuse.
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"For orgasms, we kept it reserved for humans and primates," said Mihaela Pavlicev, an evolutionary biologist at University of Cincinnati College of Medicine and an author of the new paper.
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Spells can last for hours or even days at a time, waking women during the night with spasms and orgasms, destroying their ability to work or even leave the house.
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Leaving orgasms to one side, it makes sense that those caring for pregnant women should listen to them and be kind in order for birth to be a good experience.
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His view was that while girls like me might first learn to orgasm that way, grown women should and could transfer their orgasms to the vagina once they were married.
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I had no idea that when I finally did get a hold of a sex saddle it would be less about orgasms and more about accidentally discovering the perfect cat toy.
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Honestly, just knowing that a product like this is on the market and that people are trying to synergize weed and lube for the sake of orgasms makes me so happy.
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That's when the problems started, as the scientific paper details:This subject found that whilst the orgasms were extremely enjoyable at the time, he could easily spend too much time experiencing them.
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In other findings, 2.54% of people in Germany reported that they had never had orgasms at all, while a whopping 15% of Canadians said that they had never experienced an orgasm.
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"Performing oral sex isn't an issue and receiving oral sex is fine as long as you aren't at high risk for preterm labor and your doctor advises against orgasms," Minkin says.
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Showcasing the vast differences in how people experience sexual pleasure was part of the impetus behind the orgasm sound library, a project that collects recordings of real people having real orgasms.
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One treasure we all adored was the Double Rainbow video, in which a man—ostensibly on peyote and beaver tranquilizers—nearly orgasms at the site of two rainbows in the sky.
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In an effort to finally learn these important lessons, and unlearn others, we've talked to several sex-positive educators about pleasure, consent, orgasms, and never settling for sex you don't want.
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According to dermatologist Elizabeth Tanzi, MD, founder and director of Capital Laser and Skin Care, since orgasms help to relieve stress, they can also lead to a decrease in skin inflammation.
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Photo: Marco Verch (Flickr (CC BY 2.0))A research project called Fertinuts seems to have found evidence that men who eat lots of nuts can boost their orgasms and sexual desire.
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What did it say about the hierarchy of sexual relations that women's orgasms were routinely treated as either a mystery or a myth, and that women felt compelled to play along?
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In addition to studying how orgasms actually work and what makes men and women tick in the bedroom, Johnson and Masters ended up developing real, non-clinical feelings for one another.
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Orgasms are nowhere near as instantaneous as they are in porn and aggressive or demeaning actions that are frequent in porn are not always normal in a sexual relationship (BDSM excluded).
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Or it could be that since men typically want to have sex more frequently than women, some hetero couples might be doing it without a "tit-for-tat" expectation of orgasms.
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"I have worked with some women for whom sleep was their only orgasm and who gradually, through relaxation and training were able to begin to experience orgasms while awake," she said.
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Timing and orgasms are tricky factors during sex that partners care a lot about: If the sex is too long or too short by one partner's standards, someone could get frustrated.
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As the Huffington Post reports, the group is tackling the under-discussed issue of the orgasm gap — the fact that women don't experience orgasms as often as men during sexual encounters.
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That being said, one of the best orgasms I ever had was from hooking up with a woman who I'd just met at a party and whose name I don't remember.
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Women fake orgasms for a wide range of reasons, from not wanting to hurt a partner's feelings to showing appreciation for a partner's efforts to just wanting sex to be over.
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The Study of Women's Sexual Pleasure involved three years of in-depth interviews with more than two thousand women and found that today 47 percent of women have had multiple orgasms.
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Now, OMGYES has revealed the results of its 2015 Study of Women's Sexual Pleasure, and its focus is one of our favorite subjects: multiple orgasms — more specifically, how to have them.
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If people can find the spot and stimulate it through penetration using the penis or fingers, the theory goes, women can have out-of-this-world orgasms without any other stimulation.
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We make our own yonis from brightly colored clay, and for the next hour, Van Der Velde talks us through the tantric tricks that have been delivering shuddering orgasms for eons.
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The trick is that they have a superpower that should enable them to commit the perfect crimes: when they have orgasms, time freezes and they can move unseen through the world.
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You feel tension, then a release The reason some people say orgasms feel like a sneeze is that both experiences begin with a buildup of tension, followed by a sudden release.
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In the past ten years, we've seen the rise of bluetooth vibrators, gender-neutral sex toys, wearable vibes, and plenty of other innovations that can take our orgasms to new heights.
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Right there on the silver screen, they got abortions, had orgasms, dealt with birth control, went on adventures, and, in 1924's The Last Man on Earth, ran the entire world.
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I help people understand what physiologically happens during orgasm, so they understand that some orgasms may only register as a one on the Richter scale, and others might be an eight.
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"Orgasms can cause the uterus to contract, but these aren't continuous contractions like the ones during labor and they will go away, and it isn't a problem for most women," Minkin says.
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Making orgasm the sole goal leaves out the fact that the whole experience can be pleasurable, and stops us from having more nuanced conversations about sexual pleasure that go beyond demanding orgasms.
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Anal orgasms are possible for people with vaginas because of the anus' proximity to the nerve endings of the vaginal wall and pelvic floor, says Evan Goldstein, DO, founder of Bespoke Surgical.
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PornHub, another go-to site for many porn viewers, also has a broad selection of videos that only feature audio (you can even filter your search to only hear moans or orgasms).
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She unapologetically owns that orgasms make her skin glow, believes that slut-shaming is the new anti-feminism, and has become the baddest bitch ever to represent an Estée Lauder-owned brand.
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Orgasms during sex have gotten so much easier to achieve that sometimes I get there faster than my partner, which would have seemed ludicrous to both of us a few years ago.
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According to a study in The Journal of Sexual Medicine, a third of women who frequently have vaginal orgasms say that they're more likely to orgasm if the man is well endowed.
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There was no writhing around or fake orgasms in this scene, just a woman wearing her pyjamas masturbating noiselessly under her duvet as her laptop moved up and down with her hand.
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From there we see all the obvious benefits of white male privilege — the ability to hail any cab, boys' night invites, acceptable weight gain, easy orgasms — and the ones we barely acknowledge.
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That said, we have collected quite a few tried-and-tested tips that sex therapists, sex toy experts, and sex-having people swear can help you reach orgasm (and maybe even orgasms).
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Whether they're depicted in movies, porn, or even in erotic literature, orgasms seem to be defined by loud moans, heavy breathing, and a declaration of "I'm coming!" right before the finish line.
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If you're not sure if you're having orgasms, or just want to explore your own orgasm potential, here are some answers that might help you get there: What exactly is an orgasm?
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While orgasms have an important role in a woman's intimate relationships, the evolutionary roots of the experience — a combination of muscle contractions, hormone release, and intense pleasure — have been difficult to uncover.
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Sure, sleeves theoretically might help some people control their orgasms better, but that same marketing point is another aspect of the mentality that leads people to have a negative perception of sleeves.
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Bonus tip: If we haven't had enough orgasms after you have had your one gigantic orgasm, please continue to pleasure us with your hands and mouth — as well as those awesome toys.
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For the climax of the scene, one of the performers had these intense, earth-shattering orgasms where she was shaking and crying as we were all holding her and kissing her face.
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Or to put it another way: crowdfunded sex toys may not have quite lived up to the hype, but the revolution they've incited—and the orgasms they'll unleash—has only just begun.
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Get Erotic Hypnosis Some people report experiencing mind-blowing orgasms while under erotic hypnosis, which is exactly what it sounds like: a trained hypnotist helps you experience your fantasies through mind control.
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Sex. While the jury's still out on sex's supposed hangover-curing abilities, orgasms are a proven stress-reliever, meaning that you could keep those scaries at bay even when the afterglow fades.
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The trailer skims over a lot of quasi-medical healing procedures, from exorcisms to psychedelics ("I went through years of therapy in about five hours," says one woman) to psychics and orgasms.
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Once they've fully recovered, patients can also opt for flexible rods or inflatable implants, which allows them to achieve erections—with or without implants, the penis has sensation and patients experience orgasms.
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In mainstream lesbian porn the way the girls have sex is different: head looks kind of the same, but quite often the girls have no clue what they're doing and orgasms seem fake.
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Read these stories next: How Long People Really Wait To Have Sex Science Says Women Have The Best Orgasms At This Age — & It Might Shock You How Often Are Other People Having Sex?
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Read These Stories Next: How Long People Really Wait To Have Sex Science Says Women Have The Best Orgasms At This Age — & It Might Shock You How Often Are Other People Having Sex?
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"Anal sex allows the vaginal opening and clitoris to be stimulated in tandem – whether manually or with the assistance of toys — which can lead to powerful clitoral and anal orgasms," Dr. Goldstein says.
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Maybe because of the literal and figurative ways I've been opened up, orgasms have also gotten deeper and more intense, like I'm being rammed in places no digit or appendage ever reached before.
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Beautiful Agony began as an experiment, but since its conception nearly 15 years ago, it has been on display in sex museums and has a frequently updated database full of user-submitted orgasms.
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After the show ended, Joyner hung up his 70-pound dino suit to pursue a different passion—running a tantric sex business that offers ritual baths, chakra balancing, massage, and yes, cosmic orgasms.
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Eighteen percent of respondents said vaginal penetration alone was sufficient for orgasm, and 9 percent reported that they didn't have orgasms during intercourse, or achieved orgasm in other ways, such as oral sex.
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Within that power dynamic—and just knowing what's required to amass and maintain that sort of wealth—I just don't see them being someone who wants to just lovingly give you endless orgasms.
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And I've always scoffed at warnings that vibrators "desensitize" your lady bits and create dependence: They feel great, whether used solo or with a partner, and they make orgasms easier — what's the problem?
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Meanwhile another popular smart biofeedback sex tracker, the Lioness vibrator, records orgasms but emphasizes that the app's journaling function is more important than the hard data for determining the quality of your climax.
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This isn't the first time research has indicated that the clitoris is an important part of reproduction, as it was commonly thought that clitoral orgasms were tied to egg fertilization in the 1970s.
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But while a great deal of research has been done on how these areas behave during addiction, relatively little is known about how they work when people fall in love or have orgasms.
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But once she paid attention, she realized she was experiencing multiple short, subtle orgasms—around three or four over the course of five minutes—and that she had, in fact, experienced them before.
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Another major factor, when it comes to the measure of pleasure, is the type of sex that's being had: straight men and gay men, for instance, have about the same number of orgasms.
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And when all three of these structures are stimulated at once, perhaps this is what produces the intense orgasms (and sometimes, ejaculation) that have long been associated with the so-called G-spot.
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Even though it can seem awkward to bring up your orgasms at your check-up, it's super-important to mention these symptoms to your doctor so they can make sure nothing else is wrong.
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That lack of representation that contributes to straight women having way fewer orgasms than men and to a lot of stress for queer women who go into their first time giving oral totally clueless.
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Female-fronted post-punk bands were already singing about sexual assault, abortion, orgasms, and just generally blowing minds by acknowledging that sometimes women's bodies are gross and scary and oozing and non-titillatingly-sexual.
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The above-mentioned study found that pretend orgasms occurred when a genuine orgasm was deemed unlikely, but the faker was ready to be done with sex and wanted to avoid hurting his partner's feelings.
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There are so many myths about what can and can't help someone get pregnant — orgasms can be helpful, but sex positions don't really matter — and some of them definitely sound more true than others.
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For the uninitiated, I'm here to testify that vaginal orgasms are not a myth, but I may never have discovered them were it not for the one-time car accident in my birth canal.
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If you think sexual intercourse is described in a few sentences, think again: There's extensive foreplay, passionate spontaneous sex, mentions of contraception and consent, multiple orgasms, and a lot of drawn-out sexual release.
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While Urman has never seen a client's sex life instantly transform after incorporating marijuana, she has observed that weed can be a catalyst on the path to having orgasms, individually or with a partner.
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To start, orgasms shake up a cocktail of neuro-hormones in the brain, producing elevated levels of endorphins, the "cuddle chemical" oxytocin, and a dose of prolactin to counter the effects of heightened dopamine.
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The NHS does say that sex or orgasms later in the pregnancy could potentially set off Braxton Hicks contractions, but if that happens you'll just need to relax or lie down until they pass.
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When women orgasm in porn, they tend to be very vocal and show a lot of facial cues of pleasure—so maybe some guys are using these same criteria to infer their partners' orgasms.
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There were liposculpting and fillers for your vulva, followed by g-spot injections (which would supposedly improve orgasms), and targeted skin lightening treatments that would change the shade of a vulva to Carnation Pink.
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First, I want her to start feeling more sexually comfortable, certainly, enough to stop faking orgasms left and right, but also comfortable enough to find out how her body works and what she likes.
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BEIJING — She was known as China's clickbait queen, an irreverent blogger who prescribed shopping to combat sadness ("better than sex, orgasms, strawberry cake") and makeovers to win back cheating husbands ("men are visual animals").
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Regency, psychopaths, wedding planners, ranchers, sadists, grandmas, bordellos, dukes (of course); whips, fish tacos, entails, Down syndrome, recipes, orgasms — romance can absorb them all, which suggests it's a healthy genre, not trapped in inflexibility.
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It's one of those facts that sounds like it was made up just to make kids terrified of having sex: It's possible to get pregnant from penis-in-vagina sex — even if nobody orgasms.
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The study's findings that a gap between the percentage of lesbians and heterosexual women having orgasms in bed suggest "there's something to be learned" from women who have sex with other women, Lloyd says.
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Lloyd found that that only one in four cis women consistently orgasms through intercourse and comments that as many of the these women could be stimulating their clitorises during intercourse, it's likely fewer still.
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Perfectly sculpted Adonises and vampy sexpots with acrobatic anal skill may offer reliable orgasms, but it's the outliers of the adult world who truly captivate us, staying in our minds for the long haul.
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In January, the Lora DiCarlo Osé personal massager, marketed as a hands-free vibrator for "the holy grail of orgasms," was named as an Innovation Awards Honoree in the show's Robotics and Drone product category.
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Hoechstetter remembers the first visit to Hadden's Upper Manhattan office in 2010, when she told him she was planning to get pregnant and he asked her, among other things, if she had trouble having orgasms.
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That doesn't mean that her relationship is somehow flawed — I know that Sierra and her partner have a healthy, loving, and strong relationship — but the rhetoric around faking orgasms would make it seem that way.
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Medical experts, sexologists, and other sexperts had a lot to say when a Twitter user named La Sirena tweeted on Monday morning that all women should be able to have orgasms from penetrative sex alone.
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"If my orgasms were being tracked by an app, that's something I'd want to know," Lynn Comella, Ph.D., an associate professor of gender and sexuality studies at the University of Nevada, Las Vegas, tells Refinery29.
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This study, though, stands out for concentrating on female pleasure and orgasms, especially when the reality of an orgasm gap—the clear disparity between men and women when it comes to achieving orgasm—still exists.
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As for their subjective experiences of pleasure, a majority of women cited 'spending time to build-up arousal,' 'having a partner who knows what I like,' and 'emotional intimacy' as techniques which enhance their orgasms.
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I'm not sure how to navigate the sometimes-murky parameters of an open relationship, or how much to rely on vibrators for pleasure, or how to stop evaluating my sexual experiences based on partner's orgasms.
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That's why we asked the women* in the Refinery29 community to tell us, in graphic detail, what their orgasms feel like, and then collaborated with artist Sam Cannon to turn their experiences into evocative GIFs.
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Though the researchers also found that 13% of women had "ambiguous" orgasms — it wasn't clear whether or not they had climaxed — there was still a massive orgasm gap even if you factor this group in.
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From making orgasms better to essentially getting us drunk without a hangover and perhaps even making us nicer people, the "cuddle hormone" has benefits that extend far beyond its evolutionary goal of mother-child bonding.
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"Oddly, the drugs that treat erectile dysfunction and give men more robust erections can cause delayed orgasms," Reitano says, explaining that for millions of men who experience both erectile dysfunction and PE, it's a twofer.
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Toned Kegels—AKA pelvic floor muscles—can deliver a host of benefits; studies have found exercising these muscles can help treat organ prolapse, urinary incontinence, ease labor, and even give you stronger, more reliable orgasms.
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Vanessa's sexual boldness and Virginia's sexual angst are well documented; it seems unnecessary to consider the frequency or fact of orgasms, as though these are the only arbiters of pleasure or satisfaction in a relationship.
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I discovered how to ask for my wand needs, and I realized that what I found sexually attractive in a male partner was their desire to give me orgasms so intense that I'd pass out.
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If something's off in the bedroom, masturbation may just be the spice your relationship is missing: Grab two toys on sale and see how mutual masturbation can lead to more (and better) orgasms for both people.
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Even if you factor in that another 13 percent of the women were coded as having "ambiguous orgasms"—meaning it wasn't totally clear whether a climax occurred—we're still talking about a very sizeable orgasm gap.
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"A fembot or malebot who not only gives great orgasms but also relieves one's sexual tensions, provides new sexual experiences, leads a path away from boredom, and reduces stress could make an outstanding lover," he writes.
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For the cover of the fall issue of Allure, Bloom wrote a superb song about the male gaze, the reality of female orgasms, and the fact that no magazine "tips" will get you Angelina Jolie's tresses.
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So society shortens it — to V, vag, down-there, anything that lets us pretend we're not explicitly talking about a complex sexual organ that bleeds and sometimes smells and orgasms and brings life into the world.
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Enterprising therapists are redesigning erotic massage for women's pleasure, offering both "yoni massages," which aim to release tension and increase sensation in the vulva, and more explicitly sexual treatments where orgasms act as a therapeutic release.
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It was as if enough orgasms would balance out the times men followed me home, the principal who told me not to come out to my students, or every minute of loneliness that I didn't understand.
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This variation helps to open up and allow for deeper penetration that can also better stimulate the G-spot, leading to some body-shaking orgasms, and it's also great if you want to make eye contact.
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And take it from me: Freeing yourself from the role you think you should be playing during sex, and allowing yourself to experiment depending on your partner or mood, can result in some mind-blowing orgasms.
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The theory is sound—many people want the comforts, orgasms, and reliability of a regular hook-up without the inconvenience of having to check in from time to time or engage in hour-long phone calls.
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I enjoy sex with Ryan because he's attentive, respectful, creative about positions, passionate (his orgasms are spectacular), and has sinewy arm and chest muscles that are lovely to gaze at when he's on top of me.
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Beyond this, there's a perception—especially prevalent among men who frequent online forums—that sex (or even self-achieved orgasms) causes the comer to lose energy that could be otherwise put towards building a better life.
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Some of the legacy novelists like Nora Roberts, who eschews popular vernacular and still describes female orgasms as "floating away on gossamer wings," will always have an audience and a place in the Koch sisters' hearts.
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While many people's sex dreams just live in their imaginations, some people say they can actually have orgasms or experience "wet dreams" in the middle of the night — and these people are not just teenage boys.
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I know that certain breathing exercises during sex could potentially prolong and intensify of an orgasm, and bet that orgasms can be explosive when you're in "rope space"—though I'm still not really feeling particularly horny.
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Fewer Faked Orgasms Over the past year, conversations about consent, safe sex, and healthy intimacy have come into the spotlight, and these kinds of convos (even the tough ones) help us live more satisfying sex lives.
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Over six seasons, a show that began with jokes about oral sex and orgasms offered a window into an upscale slice of New York City, spurring a generation of young, ambitious single women to move there.
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And according to the book The Wonder Down Under: A User's Guide to the Vagina, an anonymous female participant in the 2009 Danish Masturbate-a-Thon set a record with 222 orgasms in a single hour.
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At a Pennsylvania rally on Tuesday, President Donald Trump claimed out of nowhere that an affair between Lisa Page and Peter Strzok ― the FBI "lovers" the president once mimicked having orgasms ― ended with a restraining order.
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Seventy-eight years ago last month, German gynecologist Ernest Grafenberg published a paper describing an "erotic zone" on the front wall of the vagina that, when stimulated, can lead to intense orgasms, sometimes accompanied by ejaculation.
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Sneezing and orgasms both produce endorphins, which make your body feel good, but the amount of endorphins released by a sneeze is significantly less than the amount released by an orgasm, sexologist Vanessa Thompson told Business Insider.
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All that said, if you'd like to tell your partner that you no longer want to fake orgasms, you should understand from the beginning that your partner may feel a little confused or angry by your confession.
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In an upcoming study presented this week at the annual meeting of the British Psychological Society's Psychology of Women, researchers at Ryerson University and St. Thomas University, both in Canada, interviewed women about why they faked orgasms.
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"You have an intention, and you're using orgasms or sex as a tool to achieve that particular intention," explains Cat Cabral, a Wiccan priestess who managed the East Village occult shop Enchantments for more than a decade.
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In early 2014, worldwide news outlets began covering an interesting story about an invention called The Orgasmatron, an implantable piece of tech patented by Dr. Stuart Meloy that can deliver orgasms at the push of a button.
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Now, it turns out, it can help women who spend a little time with the bud before having sex, to have higher sex drives, less pain during sex, and more satisfying orgasms compared to women who abstain.
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Whether brain orgasms and VR are enough to build a successful audio startup is anyone's guess, but as Hear360 begins shipping out "hundreds" of its high-end microphone rigs, they're looking for that answer… in the 8ball.
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I had been masturbating for years, and then started hooking up with guys who would finger me, and it felt good, even though I wasn't having orgasms and didn't even fully understand I was supposed to be.
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"Some studies have shown that exercise, especially exercises that increases blood flow to the pelvic area, like yoga, and even having orgasms can help relieve menstrual pain, especially pain in the back and the legs," she says.
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If a guy thinks his partner is having orgasms when she isn't, it stands to reason that he probably isn't going to take any steps to address the issue because he doesn't even realize there's a problem.
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Regardless of the reason(s) behind men's orgasmic misperceptions, the data is clear in showing that men who are more attentive to their partners' orgasms are more satisfied with their sex lives—and their partners are, too.
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Ahead of the release of Guardians Of The Galaxy 2, which comes out May 5, a company called Geeky Sex Toys has released a new line of toys called Orgasms Of The Galaxy, inspired by the movies.
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And even if it does, believing finding it is the key to out-of-this-world orgasms is dangerous since sexual pleasure is more complicated than touching one area of the body and calling it a day.
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It felt like the best toy for the job (despite its misguided name) because the pinpoint suction stimulation induces almost involuntary orgasms in me, and the process is automatic enough to not require much maneuvering or thinking.
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A patron describes the erection he gets when Summer performs "Love to Love You Baby," her breakout single full of erotic moans and groans (featuring a "marathon of 22 orgasms" according to a Time editor in 1975).
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You read that right: We stuffy book nerds have somehow let down our hair enough to put together an entire issue devoted to books about orgasms, porn, kissing, vibrators, bedroom fantasies, extramarital affairs and even teenage hookups.
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For instance, author and researcher Thomas Cash found that women who were focused on their body image during sex reported having orgasms 42% of the time, but women who weren't body-conscious climaxed 73% of the time.
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Ms. Jones, a 32-year-old teacher from Virginia who prefers not to use her full name in case her students read about her colorful orgasms, first started to notice synesthetic sexual experiences a few years ago.
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But, truthfully, the way we talk about faking orgasms likely cycles right back into the reasons we fake it: There's so much pressure to orgasm, for both straight and queer women, that we feel the need to pretend.
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However, Dr. Valez (Candis Cayne) comes to Jackson and his mom, Catherine (Debbie Allen), with the idea that will revolutionize gender confirmation surgery, work for vaginal canal issues in cis women, and possibly give us all better orgasms.
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In the current study, however, Dr. Becky Lynn of Saint Louis University School of Medicine and colleagues focused on the connection between marijuana and women's satisfaction with their sex lives, sex drive, orgasms, lubrication and pain during intercourse.
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And there's also the fact that Berman's product isn't just about churning out orgasms: it's specifically designed to help queer couples experience artificial insemination in the same kind of intimate, loving environment many heterosexual couples take for granted.
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Pete is a sex therapist who has achieved modest fame with a book that suggests that people spend too much time thinking about intercourse, orgasms and such, and would be more productive if they channeled their energy elsewhere.
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Over three percent experienced it so often that they met the criteria for female premature orgasm: frequently or always orgasming before they intended, a lack of control over their orgasms, and distress and relationship problems as a result.
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And I also like working with Amazon, they work very well, and I like that I have something new to say, that I don't just talk again about sex education, or contraception, or AIDS, or orgasms or erections.
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LAS VEGAS (Reuters) - Futuristic sex toys that allow the user to control a vibrator from across the country or achieve "blended orgasms" got some visitors at the Las Vegas Consumer Electronics Show hot under the collar this week.
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After all, what these men provide is exactly what some women have been dreaming about getting from their partners for centuries: active listening, backrubs, cunnilingus, mindful intercourse, earth-shattering orgasms, and sometimes even a home-cooked chocolate soufflé.
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The Lioness Generation 2 was developed after analyzing data from over 30,000 orgasms Lioness was founded in 2017 by Klinger and Anna Lee, an ex-Amazon engineer who was recently selected for Forbes&aposs 103 under 30 list.
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LAS VEGAS (Reuters) - Futuristic sex toys that allow the user to control a vibrator from across the country or achieve "blended orgasms" got some visitors at the Las Vegas Consumer Electronics Show hot under the collar this week.
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Styled by Marie-Amélie Sauvé There are two unexpected orgasms in "Elle," the latest film by Paul Verhoeven, and both are achieved by Michèle, played by the French actress Isabelle Huppert as only Isabelle Huppert could play her.
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I also fully expected that my masturbatory orgasms were mere imitations of the real thing — as soon as I started having "real" sex, I'd surely have mind-blowing climaxes that would make my childhood efforts pale in comparison.
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A We-Vibe representative, who was involved in the product development process, directed me towards studies showing that increased blood flow to PC (pubococcygeal) muscles help make it easier to climax and enhance the intensity of your orgasms.
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On the eve of her debut EP, No Rush to Leave Dreams, we talked to the Taipei-based artist about the Taiwanese music scene, her unique brand of feminism, and why "Scream" is actually a song about orgasms.
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The "Orgasms of the Galaxy" collection is currently sold out of the popular Cumora and Stimula strokers, but the Groot-inspired dildo and butt plug, "Randy the Raccoon" butt plug, and Star-Lord vibrator (among others), are still available.
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I was also fascinated by the people who reported orgasms while experiencing a lot of pain, such as while getting a tattoo or body piercing, or even while being in severe pain from a kidney stone or dental procedure.
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In a not-yet-published study, Becky Kaufman Lynn, director of the Center for Sexual Health and assistant professor of obstetrics and gynecology at Saint Louis University, found that 53 percent of women report better orgasms when they're stoned.
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And if they fake it with a spouse once, they might feel pressure to continue faking it, which is going to exacerbate the misperception problem, leading their husbands to believe their orgasms are more frequent than they really are.
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If you don't like the idea of anesthesia, he can plump your lips with fillers, inject your G-spot with your own blood plasma to improve orgasms, or stick a laser wand inside you to painlessly tighten things up.
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Great lovers know that kissing, manual stimulation, and oral sex is a vital part of the sex act and that front loading a session with lots of foreplay increases the likelihood of their partners having one or more orgasms.
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Serafim Carvalho, a psychiatrist, sexologist, and the lead author of the Portuguese study, tells me that a typical case of chronic female premature orgasm involves unwanted orgasms, negative feelings associated with them, and consequent culmination of the sexual interaction.
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We had no idea we were opening ourselves to hundreds of emails from people around the world who, like our study participants, had experienced orgasms while doing crunches, leg lifts, pull-ups, and other exercises that tax the core abdominal muscles.
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When we spoke to sex therapist Vanessa Marin about these findings, she was surprised by the results on orgasm frequency, since she told Refinery29 that her clients typically have more orgasms with a consistent partner than with one-time hookups.
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But the myth that sex between two (cisgender) women is significantly better than sex between a cis man and a cis woman, at least in terms of the number of orgasms we have, seems to be backed up by research.
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In order to finally allow ourselves to bring conversations about real female sexual pleasure out of the perfect porn world and into the messy reality of our bedrooms, orgasms and relationships, we must first embrace the value of awkward sex.
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If that sounds strange to you, consider this: A survey of East and West Germans after reunification in 1990 found that Eastern women (the socialist side of Germany during the Cold War) had twice as many orgasms as Western women.
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Hailed as the first chocolate cannabis aphrodisiac, the Colorado-made "High Love" erotic edibles by the brand 4203 are all-natural and low-dose (5 mg of THC a piece) bon-bons meant to heighten sensitivity, increase arousal, and enhance orgasms.
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" The report alleges that Robbins created a "highly sexualized" environment in which "both men and women have been told to touch themselves intimately and simulate orgasms — but he has repeatedly singled women out of the crowd for more personal attention.
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She cites a study conducted by Lisa Meyers for her Widener University dissertation in 2015—she found that 93 percent of answers from cis and trans women surveyed described positive shifts or changes in their orgasms after attending a bodysex workshop.
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The next time a person, daytime TV segment, or magazine article tries to imply you're inferior because you don't experience 12 different types of orgasms, remind yourself that they're advocating the impossible, and looking pretty silly while they do it.
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RELATED: 14 Fascinating Facts All Women Should Know About Orgasms You may put on a few pounds You'll hear jokes that people "let themselves go" when they're in a happy relationship, and there may be some truth to that stereotype.
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This time, I spoke to people about the other side of the story, when you're the one navigating hearing other people's orgasms and constantly encountering that moment when couples are looking each at other right up close before they kiss.
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Specifically, when you look at whether people said they had regular orgasms with their partner (defined as orgasming more than 80 percent of the time they have sex), nine in ten men agreed compared to just one in two women.
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This analog presentation adds to the feeling of sweaty reality that Ms. Goldin's images convey, their sometimes excruciating, you-are-there immediacy, as in close-ups of people making love and having orgasms or in pictures of people shooting up heroin.
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What if water is actually solid and orgasms are painful, up is down and Trump is awesome, and, in related news, my wife and I ate this weed brownie and now I think we're dead, anybody else smell burnt toast, etc.
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I can't do this for her, however, and as much as friendly cunnilingus would probably be a quick fix here, I'm not sure how comfortable I would be having the weight of 28 years of unobtained orgasms on my mere shoulders.
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Jumping off of the Masters and Johnson bombshell that women who didn't climax during intercourse could have multiple orgasms with a vibrator, Koedt called for replacing Freud's fantasy of "mature" orgasm with women's lived truth: It was all about the clitoris.
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A recent study of anonymously posted online comments, published in the International Journal of Sexual Health, chronicled the wide variety of seemingly nonsexual experiences that can produce orgasms: riding in vehicles, exercise, eating and auditory stimulation, to cite just a few.
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We rarely talk openly about what's required for a woman to have a good sexual experience, and so many heterosexual women learn the mechanics of sex and female orgasms from movies (most of which are written, directed and produced by ... men).
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Kary Brittingham is bringing some fire to the ladies of Dallas and already established her feistiness in the season 4 preview, where she is introduced while saying she doesn't want to have "multiple orgasms" and then asking who invented marriage, anyway?
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These adolescent orgasms were great: They helped manage my overwhelming teen hormones, they seemed to be really good for my skin, I started to figure out what I liked to fantasize about, and they even helped me recover from chronic migraines.
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Sadock suggests your doctor might also be able to prescribe something you can take before sex to briefly suspend your medication's serotonergic effect, in theory counteracting its inhibition of your much-deserved orgasms, but same caveats would tend to apply.
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If that wasn't enough, we've also added another layer of sonic bliss by combining the rhythm of the toys with the sounds of moans, orgasms and sex, creating a one of a kind song that will get your feet (and hands) moving.
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Dermatologist Joshua Zeichner says that sonic vibrations may help dislodge debris and enhance the effectiveness of cleansing ingredients, and the science is already there that orgasms can boost collagen production and decrease inflammation by lowering cortisol — it seems like a win-win.
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Countless studies have been done on orgasms—like who is having the most of them, the weird things that happen after we have them, and yes, how to increase the odds that you have many, many more, if that's what you're after.
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"There's plenty of women who can have lots of sexual stimulation and not experience discomfort, and other women who have multiple orgasms and find themselves standing in the tub pouring cold water over themselves because it's just that uncomfortable," Dr. Castellanos says.
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In studies, orgasms have been shown to improve your immunity, increase your pain threshold, get rid of headaches, improve circulation, regulate your menstrual cycle, help you sleep, and more, says Vanessa Marin, sex therapist and creator of Finishing School: Learn How To Orgasm.
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"When totality occurs, we will have simultaneous orgasms an we will conceive a child that will be on the next level of human evolution," the poster wrote in a since-removed listing that we obviously screen-shotted and the internet obviously archived.
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Regardless of sexuality, women fake orgasms because we think that we should be able to have them, because we want our partners to feel like good lovers, because we're tired and just want the sex to be over with, and on and on.
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On the off chance it still sounds like a fun thing you'd like to try, here's what you need to know about the elusive cervical orgasm, including how to have one, according to Dr. Britton: How do some people have cervical orgasms?
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Anxiety, whether it's a disorder you struggle with daily or something that happens sporadically, is a huge pain — but if we take time to recognize it for what it is and develop skills to cope, it shouldn't have to mess with our orgasms.
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The best part was when he described in exquisite detail how he tied her up on our bed, how he whipped her with a suede tassel whip, where he licked her, how she screamed, and the precise nature of her two orgasms.
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While many of her works arguably cross into the realm of hardcore, it's clear that her sophisticated and tasteful films are considered softcore relative to today's mainstream porn circuits (you know, that ones that feature extreme close-up shots and dramatized orgasms).
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So far they've found that your personality has a lot to do with it: Those of us who measure as being more open to new experiences are more likely to experience skin orgasms than those who aren't so excited to try new things.
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Josh had lost none of his instinct for drawing a crowd, and competition for entry was fierce the night Luvvy the clown attempted to coordinate the orgasms of three couples in the nightclub—a Reichian folly that was never likely to gel.
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As a wife, she couldn't be in control of her own finances, couldn't transfer money to family abroad, had to lie on her back and suffer through sex straight-faced, or fake her orgasms loudly so she's known as a voracious lover.
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" He continues: "You need to educate him about your body, your sexual pleasure, and help him to realize that your way of arriving at an orgasm could be very different from how his last partner orgasmed, or from how he has orgasms.
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And, yes, the sight of a potential world leader rocking the kind of moves your grandmother pulls after six multiple orgasms in a Benidorm bar is quite funny, but what's funnier is the genuinely bizarre longevity of the Macarena as a cultural touchstone.
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SAAH: Sure, we have a workshop called "Oppression and Orgasms" where we talk about what it means to be a Black person in America and all the sexual and racial scripts we get about our bodies and how we can counter that.
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In fact it's crucial to understanding why the ickiness of orgasms and squeals played on Funktion-Ones is more than just a throwback to the confusion and shame we felt as teenagers watching simulated sex on television with a parent in the room.
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What's called for, then, is a revolution in the way we look at sexuality: a de-emphasis on orgasms in favor of kissing and caressing, more solo play to connect with our erotic selves and "making affection" as an alternative to making love.
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What he can't bear to tell them is why: He recently discovered that Thea has been faking her orgasms for their entire marriage, and while that's not a reason to end a marriage, the way Gavin handled the news (poorly, angrily) might be.
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The appetite for cultural change — whether via conversations about race, gender, politics, or...orgasms — may thrive in entertainment, but it, in fact, stalls in real life when faced with barriers like bias, warring legislators, and Matt Damon trying to talk about #MeToo.
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Don&apost get me wrong, orgasms are great sensations that come with lots of mental and physical benefits, but you shouldn&apost beat yourself up over not orgasming, or write off your self-pleasure adventures as unsuccessful because you didn&apost have one.
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While I was skeptical that vagina "weight-lifting" would enhance my orgasms (people also told me weed would do this and the only thing it enhanced was self-sabotaging impulses), I wondered if sprucing up my vagina could spruce up my life.
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Buying into this idea could make some women feel as though they need to perform their orgasms rather than just enjoying them, while also making men suspicious about whether their partner actually had an orgasm and anxious about whether their own sexual performance was adequate.
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It's going to send electrical impulses in the spine in the same way that regular pleasure signals would be sent so that you can have orgasms and arousal, even though you maybe don't even have genitals anymore or the nerves are not functioning or whatever.
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One 2015 study found that 36.6% of cis women said that clitoral stimulation was necessary for them to reach orgasm, and another 36% said clitoral stimulation wasn't necessary for them to reach orgasm, but their orgasms felt a lot better if clitoral stimulation was involved.
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" So as I was sitting by the campfire listening to my FWB talk to her straight friend about how amazing sex between two women is, about how "we can go for hours" and have "so many orgasms," I thought to myself, "Is that really true?
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The older guys I have sex with are less focused on getting to the penetrative sex point as soon as possible, and they're less focused on orgasm having to be the goal at all times—because orgasms are great, but sometimes they don't always happen.
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If practitioners are to be believed, you can quit smoking, lose weight, time travel to past lives, have mind-blowing orgasms, get smarter, cure your phobias, get rich, enlarge your boobs, and heal all sorts of physical ailments, purely with the power of your mind.
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While orgasms don't have to be the goal of sex — in fact, focusing less on getting off is a terrific first step to longer sex — any time you come in a manner that makes you believe in magic is definitely something to strive for.
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It was Alfred Kinsey himself—who came to Indiana to study wasps and ended up the world's premier researcher of human sex habits—who reported in his 1953 book Sexual Behavior in the Human Female that most human females have the capacity for multiple orgasms.
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"Other girls started talking about how good orgasms felt when I was around 12 or 14 and I never understood, because no matter what I did I couldn't find anything that felt good," says Sarah Redell, a 19-year-old telephone captionist from Texas.
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But, we live in an orgasm-centric culture, and while there's certainly nothing wrong with getting off—and doing it efficiently—the fact that we are goal-oriented instead of pleasure-oriented can produce a lot of anxiety, shame, and not to mention, fake orgasms.
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So, thanks to science, if you're planning on having some electric, earth-shattering orgasms this Valentine's Day, don't come at your lover with a dildo or a variety pack of intense warming pleasure gels or restraints or frankly appalling DVD footage of someone getting done.
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The part I didn't expect to find hot, specifically, was that I'm primarily attracted to men—and those accidental orgasms, generally speaking, have come from the gay porn I've watched all my life, not the highly clinical tutorial of a woman's vaginal orgasm I watched.
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The Lioness is fitted with multiple sensors, including one that measures measure temperature and several that measure the movement of the pelvic floor, which will give anyone with a vagina a good idea of what their orgasms look like and how long they take to achieve orgasm.
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The first thing you need to know about your mom, as long as she isn't asexual or hasn't denounced sex for other reasons (like the amazing Jane Fonda, who's just over it), is that orgasms give her the same kind of pleasure that they give you.
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If you're preorgasmic, learning that orgasms are like sneezes, but also fireworks and definitely something you'll recognize when you experience it, and, most importantly of all, the greatest and best experience ever, isn't particularly helpful — especially if most of that doesn't quite turn out to be true.
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His appointment as editor prompted industry speculation that he was going to go "full Cosmo," chasing Instagram-friendly content and trending topics on Twitter just like Cosmopolitan, Esquire's sister publication at Hearst that has lately been pursuing data as hotly as it long proselytized multiple orgasms.
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Consider, for instance, the MinnaLife kGoal, a smart pelvic floor exerciser that helps women keep their pelvic muscles in healthy and fit, making pregnancy easier, staving off incontinence, and, in some cases, improving and intensifying orgasms (and, full disclosure, a product I provide consulting services for).
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Teacher Stuart ultimately reveals he doesn't want a full, female, human body; he wants her sign of blackness, so he repeats its verbal cue ("nigger lover") until he orgasms, while she stands not five feet away, aghast that love so ardently declared can be so trite.
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The rules on the subreddit say that "men (and top tier ladies) abstain from masturbating until the clock strikes 12:00 AM on December 1st," but later says that non-ejaculatory masturbation and pre-cum are allowed, and that orgasms, not masturbation, are what disqualifies you.
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Some have posited that the female orgasm is inherited from our animal ancestors who needed it to ovulate, while others say the male and female orgasms evolved in tandem from the same structure, and others still believe the female orgasm is a way to reward us for making babies.
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Ilana especially got more character development than she has in a long time: This season explored her depression and seasonal affective disorder, gave her a serious boyfriend in Lincoln (Hannibal Buress, a returning MVP), and helped her get over crippling Trump-related anxiety so she could have orgasms again.
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The study found that out of everyone surveyed, straight women were having the fewest orgasms: 65% of straight women orgasmed almost every time they had sex, compared to 66% of bisexual women, 86% of lesbian women, 88% of bisexual men, 89% of gay men, and 95% of straight men.
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That same year, in "Cancer, Disease and Society," Sanders opined with some obvious Freudian influence (he studied psychology at Brooklyn College) during the Vietnam era's free love movement, giving credence to a theory that a lack of orgasms and enjoyment of sex causes cervical and other female cancers.
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Now, we don't need an official holiday to fire up that warm and fuzzy feeling, but it's nice to call some attention to the importance of the Big O. Orgasms release oxytocin, the anti-stress hormone that gives you butterflies while cuddling, and dopamine, the neurotransmitter that regulates sleep.
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Of course, orgasms aren't the be-all and end-all of good sex — sex can still be hot, intimate, or otherwise pleasurable without a grand finale — but putting these decidedly female orgasmic experiences into words can be a powerful way for women to send the message: My pleasure matters.
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These essays almost exclusively went in the 'rejected' pile, as it is the absolute worst to have an interview with a young applicant when you have read her essay deeply detailing the shape of her labia and the face she makes when she orgasms for the first time.
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By taking orgasms off the table, even for a short period of time, we free ourselves from the burden and duty of end-game sex and can instead focus on pleasure, playfulness, and savoring our bodies' erotic responses the way we would a delicious, multi-course meal. Radical.
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To determine this, study author and Finnish sociologist and sexologist Osmo Kontula surveyed 7,000 women and 1,000 men in 2018 about how often they experienced orgasms, whether they believe it's easier or harder for themselves to orgasm than other people, and why they believed they had trouble reaching climax.
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Read more:A man was left with a &apospenile stump&apos after contracting gangrene and requiring surgeryA vibrator developed after analyzing over 30,000 orgasms is like a Fitbit for sexual pleasureReddit users are saying they use toothpaste as a lube replacement, but it can cause genital burning and scarring
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But whether tech is being used to make hormonal fluctuations more predictable, demonstrate proper pelvic exercise technique, or reveal a path towards better orgasms, there's no question that it's helping to open up conversation, and reduce stigma, around the topic of sex—and that's the most important mission of all.
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Maggie, a 25-year-old software developer in Oakland, California, who prefers not to use her last name (so this article won't be the first thing that shows up when you google her) also experienced more intense orgasms while stoned, which corresponded with more forceful vaginal contractions measured by Lioness.
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The Aneros' "T" shape fits your or your partners' body with arms that sit along the perineum and an insertable stem for G-spot or prostate stimulation—which is amazing, because sex that accounts for the P-spot can unlock incredible orgasms, even surpassing those that come with straightforward ejaculation.
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But according to Gunter, recent research suggests the G-spot doesn't even exist, and even if it does, believing finding it is the key to out-of-this-world orgasms is dangerous since sexual pleasure is more complicated than touching one area of the body and calling it a day.
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When Louise tells Tom that she didn't have any orgasms during her brief affair, he's so pleased that he doesn't register her addendum — that all she got was "warmth and solace" — and Pike's face captures, in just a glance, all the disappointment she's felt and will probably continue to feel.
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That the characters—Jane, Kat, and Sutton—write about orgasms (or lack thereof) is not radical, nor is a scene in which Jane has to ask Kat to pull out her Yoni egg (a jade egg you put in your vagina for "good energy," as promoted and made famous by Gwenyth Paltrow's Goop).
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The sex was good—we open on a chaos of frantic sound and acrobatic motion, then hear a pair of orgasms, mutually and unmistakably sincere, achieved in tandem and at alarming volume—but now she'd like to watch TV and have some ice cream, and, above all, to do those things alone.
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Fifteen years after they last did something good, Daft Punk have created their magnum opus, and it's a four and half minute slab of Kiss FM pop about female orgasms—which it is by the way, my girlfriend figured this out after my "five more listens before bed" routine the other night.
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As you might have guessed by now, rather than laying out an optimal number of orgasms or minutes to strive for, the book only offered "drive on and find glory" as motivation so I tapped out early on, rather than needlessly chafing myself Still naked, I whipped myself on the back with a belt.
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Shooting logs show Douglas carefully plotting performers' orgasms (marked with an "o"), and among his abundant outtake footage is apparently a climactic would-be threesome in More of a Man (1991) in which a horny extra decided to make it a foursome and Douglas interrupted the orgy to obtain a mid-coital release form.
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People who experienced negative orgasms felt pressure from societal expectations and to appease their partnersWhile orgasming has a long history of being tied to sexual success (and even became associated with feminism in the 1960s), the researchers behind the study point out that this can put unwanted pressure on people during a sexual encounters.
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"I think a huge benefit of using technology and design to develop sex devices is that they open up new forms of sexual experience, ways to experience intimacy with others, to feel good in our own skin, to have mind-blowing orgasms, all of it," said Shaowen Bardzell, associate professor of informatics at Indiana University.
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" Top posts include: an anthology of queer erotic writing; a blog exploring how to send nudes safely (spoiler: there is no foolproof method to avoid your image being used in unintended ways); and the 2011 evergreen post which reveals just how much of a mystery female pleasure can seem: "How can you tell when a woman orgasms?
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This is part of my book—we don't just feel sick in our bodies, but we also feel guilty for feeling sick in our bodies, especially in a world that says our bodies are supposed to work really well, and that we're supposed to get up and be productive and look great and be fit and have great orgasms.
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"In interviewing women, and certainly I know from my own experience, sleep-related orgasms for women are typically very physical, very strong," said Dr. Franceen King, a clinical sexologist in Florida who coined the term "sleep-related female orgasm," referring to those that occur in lucid dreams, non-lucid dreams, or even unrelated to dreams at all.
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The study suggests that many women who believe that they or their partners aren't able to have multiple orgasms feel that their genitals are too sensitive after the first one for further stimulation — but they may in fact be able to have more than one orgasm if they use moves that are slower, less direct, and less forceful.
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If you're with the right person, it can be like having a best mate who will go to Thorpe Park or eat tapas with you at a moment's notice, but can also give you multiple orgasms and make you laugh without you having to sadly swipe through a carousel of dead-eyed faces on an app beforehand.
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For $10 to $15 each, or for $40 for an entire day, participants could duck into the Goddess room or the Vibes Lounge or other satellite spaces and learn how to interpret tarot cards, get access to their chakras, read the stars, decipher the lines on a palm and cast spells using the power of their orgasms.
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And it's a bit prurient because when we talk about the provocations of "Slave Play" — and the people who saw it downtown last year at New York Theater Workshop have been talking about it almost nonstop since — what we usually mean is sex: the whip, the dildo, the nudity, the boots, the bondage, the orgasms both achieved and aborted.
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Everywhere it was mentioned, it was framed as a mystery that needed to be solved: by pharmaceutical companies racing to develop a "pink Viagra" to restore wives' flagging desire for their husbands; by feminists lamenting that only 57 percent of straight American women have orgasms compared with 95 percent of their male partners; by newspapers musing if women are turned on by apes.
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If I don't have clitoral orgasms and my partner doesn't ejaculate for a couple of weeks, he as a man is a lot more turned on and wants a lot more sex with me as opposed to him just ejaculating and I'm a lot more turned on because you're keeping the energy cycling through your body as opposed to getting rid of it.
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Long embraced by men who have sex with men as something like the male anatomical equivalent of the g-spot, heterosexual guys began to realize they could trigger independent or stronger orgasms by embracing this old-yet-new erogenous zone—a recent LELO survey found that 71 percent of straight men in relationships had tried or wanted to try prostate stimulation.
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Funded on Kickstarter (where it's considered a health device), and powered by a smartphone app readily available in both the iOS and Android app stores, the product can't be advertised on Facebook, where—despite the fact that it's designed to enhance pelvic fitness rather than provide orgasms—it's considered an adult product, in the same category as strip clubs and horny goat weed.
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