A conflict you had with a co-worker or an ex-spouse.
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Lance had a history of abusing his ex-spouse when they were married.
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My ex-spouse had acted courageously, I imagine, to relieve a tremendous burden.
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My ex-spouse had acted courageously, I imagine, to relieve a tremendous burden.
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So, what exactly did Kris Jenner know about her ex-spouse Caitlyn Jenner's transition?
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Setting boundaries for when you can discuss an ex-spouse will also prevent burnout.
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If you have minor children, be sure to discuss guardianship with your ex-spouse.
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In April, Bloom shared a sweet Instagram wishing a happy birthday to his ex-spouse.
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If funds in a traditional IRA are withdrawn and then given to the ex-spouse — i.e.
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If your ex-spouse is deceased, however, you can claim survivor benefits starting from age 60.
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Linda Thompson says she's happy to be a a fountainhead of support for ex-spouse Caitlyn Jenner.
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The benefit amounts do not change if more than one ex-spouse claims on one individual's records.
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An ex-spouse may be entitled to benefits based on your earnings, but it doesn't affect your payouts.
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In casual conversations I don't know whether to call him my ex-late spouse, or my late ex-spouse.
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California and New Jersey are the only states that ban alimony to an ex-spouse convicted of attempted murder.
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She agrees to put on a different kind of face, the gold exfoliating mask kind, for her ex-spouse.
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Your ex-spouse can continue to cause you trouble long after the ink is dry on your divorce decree.
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Once a worker begins collecting Social Security benefits, their spouse, ex-spouse, and dependents may be eligible for benefits too.
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" Robert Bott, Canada "I have two kids studying in the U.S. and an ex-spouse who holds H-1B visa.
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"You don't want your [soon to be ex-] spouse to make life or death health-care decisions for you," he said.
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For the momager, that focused almost entirely on her strained — and today, essentially nonexistent — relationship with her ex-spouse Caitlyn Jenner.
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Whether they can use that status will depend on which ex-spouse is spending the most time with the children, said Freeman.
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Refinancing can also be worthwhile if you want to remove someone from the mortgage, such as an ex-spouse following a divorce.
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" Affleck, who recently completed a stint in rehab, has also showered his ex-spouse with praise, calling her the "world's greatest mom.
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Any amount of Social Security claimed by an ex-spouse will have no effect on the amount a current spouse can claim.
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"We have a lot of recently divorced people using the site, because one ex-spouse often takes all the friends," she said.
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Under the new regulations, the individual who pays alimony to an ex-spouse will no longer be able to deduct those payments.
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R. Kelly's ex-wife Andrea "Drea" Kelly is speaking out about raising her kids amidst the abuse allegations that surround her ex-spouse.
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Keep in mind that you might also have access to benefits based on the record of a spouse or ex-spouse, Yousif said.
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Divorce would become a bit more burdensome for the ex-spouse who paid alimony because it would no longer be a deductible expense.
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" Ms. Levy is deferential to her ex-spouse, whose alcoholism arguably tanked the relationship, though Ms. Levy said, "We made a fine mess together.
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A study of married adults who were recently separated, for example, found that nearly one-quarter of people reported having sex with their ex-spouse.
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Ms. Roberts said she feels there is something about New York City life that makes living so close to your ex-spouse an attractive option.
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NEW PLAN Divorce would become a bit more burdensome for the ex-spouse who pays alimony because it would no longer be a deductible expense.
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The slayings went against the typical pattern of violence stemming from divorces by targeting professionals involved in the split rather than the ex-spouse, Levin said.
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The Tax Cuts and Jobs Act made it so that a taxpayer will no longer be able to deduct alimony payments made to an ex-spouse.
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I would ask everyone to put aside the easy narrative here: that an angry ex-spouse took matters into his own hands to resolve a custody dispute.
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Creating an account on Wevorce has the sad, but definitely necessary, reminder that your password needs to be one your soon-to-be-ex-spouse doesn't know.
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The Tax Cuts and Jobs Act, unveiled on Thursday, includes a provision to kill the deduction that taxpayers get for making such payments to an ex-spouse.
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"[If] you know your future ex-spouse really wants to be able to take the alimony deduction, that actually might give you better bargaining power," Gorman said.
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What the House proposed: Divorce would become a bit more burdensome for the ex-spouse who pays alimony because it would no longer be a deductible expense.
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Currently, an ex-spouse who pays alimony can deduct the payments and the recipient spouse, who is presumably in a lower tax bracket, must pay taxes on the money.
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"If your ex-spouse dies, you are not guaranteed to keep receiving their benefits," said Ramnani, who advises clients to update the beneficiaries on wills and all retirement plans.
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That way, your spouse — or soon-to-be ex-spouse — will not be able to claim they never read it or that they didn't know what they were signing.
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Beware that you might be contractually obligated to keep your ex-spouse as beneficiary of a retirement account or life insurance policy for a certain period of time, Green added.
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Once a worker begins collecting Social Security, their spouse, ex-spouse, and any children under age 19 who are in school or over age 18 and disabled are also entitled to benefits.
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That goes particularly for divorced widows, according to Elsasser, who may not know that their ex-spouse has died or that they are eligible to claim benefits on their ex's work record.
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It will also be considered separate from the marital pool, which means if one of your children were to divorce, that money will not wind up in the hands of an ex-spouse.
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Further, though an ex-spouse who pays alimony can claim a deduction for it — and the recipient must recognize it as taxable income — neither will receive documents that they can use on their taxes.
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"Assets could still be left to your ex-spouse if you have not updated your beneficiary designations, even if your intent was to provide for your new spouse and/or children instead," she said.
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Because the ex-spouse receiving the alimony typically is in a lower tax bracket, the amount of tax paid by the recipients — the majority of which are women — on the spousal support is less.
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Women do not even have to notify their ex-spouse to be able to find out the benefit to which they are entitled, and their ex need not even know when they begin collecting, either.
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"It is important to file and commence benefits immediately upon reaching full retirement age because there is no delayed retirement credit eligibility for an ex-spouse," said Chris Ure, managing director at HighTower Boca Raton.
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"If beneficiary designations are left blank or not updated, your wishes could be ignored and assets could go to an ex-spouse, or state law could become applicable and decide how to split your accounts."5.
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And if the process for the division of those assets is not done properly, there can be a steep price to pay in taxes, penalties or an unintended amount of money going to an ex-spouse.
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If you updated your will but never changed your 401(k) plan beneficiary designation from your mom — or your ex-spouse — to your new spouse, the designated beneficiary on record wins in a conflict with your will.
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With the word-smithery in the capable hands of her friend, Cora is free to crash auditions for a "rinky-dinky" film version of "Confessions of a Trophy Husband," a memoir written by her ex-spouse, Melvin.
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The surprise bash turned out to be a total hit, and Kris' ex-spouse Caitlyn Jenner was also in attendance – in fact, Caitlyn, 66, even hung out and joked around with Kris and Kris' boyfriend, Corey Gamble, 35.
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Filing taxes after a divorce can get contentious for any number of reasons, not the least of which is that your ex-spouse may get a new accountant with sharp red pencils ready to "correct" your past tax return handiwork.
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These individuals are likely to stick with the old rules —generally speaking, it would only make sense to change to the new tax treatment if the ex-spouse paying the support is in a lower tax bracket than the recipient.
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In a previously released Keeping Up with the Kardashians season supertease, Kris blasted Kim as a "traitor" for styling her ex-spouse Caitlyn Jenner for the ESPYs — and now, a sneak peek at the full scene reveals just how intense the argument actually was.
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Related: Panamanian Police Have Raided the Headquarters of Mossack Fonseca For Americans, hiding money offshore in hopes of keeping it from a potential ex-spouse is especially dangerous, noted Barry Sziklay, a New Jersey-based forensic accountant who helps clients find their estranged spouses' offshore funds.
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Similar to content that seems to read your mind in your newsfeed or chatbots that you can't get to stop suggesting make-up gifts for a soon-to-be ex-spouse, many of the problems arise when people don't know what a machine will do next.
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"A lot of people come to the realization that they're not going to live the same lifestyle anymore, unless they earn the same level of income as their soon-to-be ex-spouse," said Niv Persaud, a certified divorce financial analyst and managing director at Transition Planning & Guidance.
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While delaying Social Security will incrementally increase benefits for the worker up until age 70, the largest possible monthly benefit for a spouse or ex-spouse is always 50% of the worker's benefit amount at their full retirement age — there are no increases for spousal benefits when the worker delays claiming their own benefit.
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Despite revealing in a deleted scene from this season of Keeping Up with the Kardashians that she was considering changing her name back to Kris Kardashian, the momager has since decided against it "out of respect" for her two daughters Kendall and Kylie Jenner, 20 and 18 respectively, whom she shares with her ex-spouse Caitlyn Jenner.
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Divorcées who were married to the worker for at least 10 years, have not remarried, and are at least 62 years old can also claim half of the full retirement amount of their ex-spouse, but they don't have to wait for their former spouse to claim benefits if they've been divorced for at least two years.
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A copy of his prenuptial agreement with Maples that was obtained by Vanity Fair showed that Trump wasn't afraid to draw harsh lines in the sand in the event of a divorce, including cutting off child-support payments if the child got a job or joined the military, and barring the ex-spouse from publishing any details about the marriage.
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Instead, the decision to receive the body of Christ while living conjugally with someone who is not, from the church's perspective, your true wife or husband is treated as a question of when, not if — do it now if you feel ready, wait a little longer if it might hurt your kids or your ex-spouse or you feel like have some spiritual maturing left to do.
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"The fundamental issue is that the heirs of a couple remarrying have more to fear from the new spouse than from the federal estate-tax collectors," said lawyer lawyer John J. Scroggin, an accredited estate planner and partner with Roswell, Georgia-based law firm Scroggin & Co. He gives some examples of why: The ex-spouse may still be involved, too, said Susan Green, lawyer and certified financial planner with Wescott Financial Advisory Group.
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After divorcing Shmock, she married sprinter Mark Lutz, ex-spouse of distance runner Francie Larrieu.
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When a veteran divorces, he or she can refinance the home in their own name, but the ex-spouse who is not a veteran cannot take over the mortgage.
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The issue of enforceability of the existing law to protect victims of abuse from stalkers and convicted domestic abusers highlights the complexity of separating guns from abusive owners. The nexus between gun confiscation programs is advocated for in light of alarming rates of ex-spouse homicide victims. Reports published by The United States Department of Justice showed that firearms were involved in over two-thirds of ex-spouse homicide incidents over the period 1980 to 2008. The boyfriend loophole discussion is relevant in the context of dating partners.
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Shaghayegh Dehghan is an Iranian actress who is active in Iranian cinema since 1993. They have one son, Noyan. Ghasem Khani also has a daughter from his first marriage named Nirvana. His brother, Peyman GhasemKhani is also a writer and his ex-spouse, Bahareh Rahnama is an actress.
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See IRS Publication 523. One is not able to deduct a loss on the sale of one's home. The exclusion is also pro-rated if there is a portion of the ownership period in which the home was not the principal residence of the taxpayer, spouse, or ex-spouse.
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448 par. 1, 444 For insult against one's spouse, ex-spouse, close relative, an impaired, ill, pregnant or otherwise vulnerable person or a subordinate, the penalty is prison from 16 days to two months or a fine from €502 (ca. $587) to €5,000 or both.Luxembourger Penal Code (2020), Art.
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Many types of relationships are not legitimized by society; therefore when one person in the relationship dies, the other may not have their grief legitimized and it can become disenfranchised. For example, following the death of a partner in a homosexual relationship, societal supports can tend prioritize the immediate family, invalidating the significance of the romantic relationship and loss for the grieving partner (McNutt & Yakushko, 2013). Another example may be a former partner, such as the death of an ex-spouse (a person who the griever was previously married to, but eventually divorced). The death of an ex-spouse does not typically receive the same recognition as the death of a current spouse.
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Dishonoring () is punishable by prison up to one year or by fine.Icelandic Criminal Code (2019), Art. 234 For serious insult () against one's spouse, ex-spouse, child or close relative, the penalty is prison up to two years.Icelandic Criminal Code (2019), Art. 233b Upbraiding () without a reason is punishable by a fine.
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In November 2011 he contracted with DJ Memo to join his record label after a fallout with Raphy Pina. After a fallout with DJ Memo he is now under contract once again with Pina Records. He has two children named Anthwan Feliciano and Kamille Feliciano whom he shares with Ex- Spouse, Katherine de Jesus.
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There, a joyful Parakutty awaits her lover Ananthapadmanabhan's return from the Pathan camp. A few days later, Marthanda Varma ascends the throne. The king orders Ananthapadmanabhan to move Subhadra from her house to safeguard her from Kudamon Pilla, who the king has just released. Subhadra is at her house and sad due to the revelation about her ex- spouse.
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Larson is from Charlottesville and lives in Catlett, Virginia, with his parents. He admitted to raping his ex-spouse, who was transgender and committed suicide after the birth of their daughter. In November 2015, a jury in Colorado denied him custody of the girl, and he announced the following month that he would seek legal termination of his parental rights. He has remarried.
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Comparative rates of homicides involving family members between 1980 and 2008. Killing by a spouse or ex-spouse exceeds the rate of all other categories. In proportion to the total number of family homicides, killing by spouses and ex-spouses fell from 52% to 37% during this period. Women are more likely than men to be murdered by an intimate partner.
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In August 2012, Mehrdad Bayrami visited Dr. Manoj Singhal and complained of a sore arm. Dr. Singhal observed symptoms of depression, suicidal ideations, and sleep deprivation. Dr. Singhal then saw Bayrami regularly, up until 2 weeks before the shooting. Tetiana Piltsina lived in Richmond, BC when she began to complain to the local RCMP about her ex-spouse Mehrdad Bayrami.
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Natalia Streignard (born Septembar 9, 1970) is a Spanish-born Venezuelan actress. Natalia is best known for her work in successful telenovelas such as El Juramento with Osvaldo Rios, La mujer de mi vida, with ex-spouse Mario Cimarro, Mi destino eres tu with Lucero and Jorge Salinas, and La Tormenta with Christian Meier, in the most famous telenovelas productions of Televisa, Venevision and Telemundo.
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Lilith Sternin (Bebe Neuwirth) is the ex-wife of Frasier Crane and mother of their son, Frederick. A cold, remote woman, she is disliked by most of his family and friends. Lilith appeared as a prominent character on Cheers, in which Frasier also first appeared. Her relationship with ex-spouse Frasier is polite yet distant in the early seasons, becoming more cordial in the final seasons.
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A widow is a woman whose spouse has died, while a widower is a man whose spouse has died. The state of having lost one's spouse to death is termed Nineteenth Century gravestone illustrating "relict" used to mean "widow." Located in the churchyard of St. Peter's Church in the Great Valley, Chester County, Pennsylvania. widowhood. These terms are not applied to a divorcé(e) following the death of an ex-spouse.
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Kudamon Pilla arrives, catches her by the hair and is about to plunge his sword but Beeram Khan rushes in crying not to kill her. On hearing the voice of her ex-spouse and seeing him longing for her, she thanks god that she can even die. The sword falls on her neck. Before Kudamon Pilla can slay Beeram Khan, he is cut into two by Ananthapadmanabhan who has just arrived.
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Family law is an area of deep concern among men's rights groups. Men's rights adherents argue that the legal system and family courts discriminate against men, especially in regards to child custody after divorce. Also available through HeinOnline. They believe that men do not have the same contact rights or equitable shared parenting rights as their ex- spouse and use statistics on custody awards as evidence of judicial bias against men.
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He also tells her that one of the men at the camp resembles her ex-spouse. An angry mob of citizens rush the palace, but are turned back by the ailing king who signals for them to leave. Ramanamadathil arrives at Thambi's house to tell about the revolt at the palace and praises the actions of Sundarayyan. Chulliyil Chadachi Marthandan Pilla and a servant arrive and announce the death of King Rama Varma.
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Erdmann & Block (2000): p. 279 During the course of the episode, no characters register concern about Dax being involved with a woman, only that she was an ex-spouse. David Greven, literary critic and author of Gender and Sexuality in Star Trek, said that "Rejoined" was one of the better-received episodes of Star Trek that dealt with homosexuality as a theme, but that the franchise overall had typically avoided LGBT issues.Greven (2009): p.
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On November 7, 2012, Merhdad Bayrami was shot and killed by Delta Police Constable Jordan MacWilliams after a five-hour standoff at the Starlight Casino in New Westminster, British Columbia after he took his ex-spouse Tetiana Piltsina hostage. Constable MacWilliams was controversially charged with second-degree murder in October 2014. By July 2015 those charges were dropped. It was the first time a police officer had been charged for using lethal force in British Columbia since 1975.
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Eight months before the outset of season 2, shortly after the events of season 1, Virginia dies. After her funeral, the children part ways – Paulina moves to Madrid to be with her ex-spouse, now-girlfriend María José; Elena becomes a successful architect; and Micaéla and Julián live at home. Ernesto, overcome by grief, joins a Scientology-esque scam cult. A challenge to Virginia's long-awaited brings the siblings back together, Paulina returning from Spain to take care of business.
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An adopted sibling is ghayr mahram, and marriage is allowed to an adopted sibling of the opposite sex. The term "adopted" means those children who are adopted by one's parents for the purpose of providing shelter and upbringing and who do not fall under the relationships outlined under the section "Who is mahram?" above. One is ghayr mahram to one's ex-spouse. One must not stay with a ghayr mahram in seclusion where none of their mahrams is present (see also proxemics).
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This phenomenon is termed "double-grief" by Davidson and she explains that this makes bereavement even more difficult. Loss of an ex-spouse is disenfranchised due to the lack of a current or ongoing personal relationship between the former couple. Although the marriage has ended, the relationship has not, and there are ties between the two people that will forever be there including: shared children, mutual friendships, and financial connections. Research has shown that those couples who never resolved conflicts after the relationship ended experienced much more grief than those who had.
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The parties to a marriage or civil partnership must be 18 or older and not already married or civilly partnered. The prohibited degrees of affinity and consanguinuity that apply under the Marriage Act also apply under the Civil Union Act;Civil Union Act 17 of 2006, s. 8(6). thus a person may not marry his or her direct ancestor or descendant, sibling, uncle or aunt, niece or nephew, or the ancestor or descendant of an ex-spouse. The Recognition of Customary Marriages Act, 1998 allows, in limited circumstances, a man to marry multiple wives.
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279 During the course of the episode, no characters register concern about Dax being involved with a woman, only that she was an ex-spouse. David Greven, literary critic and author of Gender and Sexuality in Star Trek, said that "Rejoined" was one of the better-received episodes of Star Trek that dealt with homosexuality as a theme, but that the franchise overall had typically avoided LGBT issues.Greven (2009): p. 93 Bryan Fuller, who also wrote for Deep Space Nine, said that the franchise had usually avoided those story lines because of the paranoia of the studio regarding homosexuality.
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The people at the palace conduct occult acts with clergy, priests and magicians to extend the lifetime of the king. Thirumukhathu Pilla goes for paranormal retrocognition through Mashinottam, an Indian clairvoyant practice, to confirm the rumors concerning the death of his son, Ananthapadmanabhan. Velu Kuruppu mentions that sorcery was used by a namboothiripad of the Akavoor family to evoke protection on his armor shield by the incantation of seventy million Dhanwantharam, a set of hymns offered to Dhanvantari in order to safeguard against ill fortune. Beeram Khan is a Muslim convert who is also a Nair and Subhadra's ex-spouse.
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Foreign divorces may also be registered in Japan by bringing the appropriate court documents to the local city hall along with a copy of the Family Registration of the Japanese ex-spouse. If an international divorce includes joint custody of the children, it is important to the foreign parent to register it, because joint custody is not legal in Japan. The parent to register the divorce may thus be granted sole custody of the child according to Japanese law. Divorce by Mutual Consent in Japan differs from divorce in many other countries, causing it to not be recognized by all countries.
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The WBL's third season proved to be its last for the league was forced to dissolve under severe financial hardship. After the WBL folded, Bolin was engaged in a custody battle with her recently divorced husband over their son, Damien. Initially, the court awarded her ex- spouse full custody, arguing that Bolin's profession and her glamour shoots made her an unfit parent; however, the decision was appealed and overturned in 1983. In 1984, Bolin was selected for a USA All-Star team composed of former olympians and professional players to participate in exhibition games against the 1984 Summer Olympics women's team which eventually won the gold medal.
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He was then moving up as an investment banker. The McCaugheys separated in 1992 and divorced in 1994, with McCaughey and her ex-spouse sharing joint custody of their three daughters. In January 1993, she filed an affidavit in her divorce proceeding in which she said she had no annual earnings from employment during most of the 18 years of her marriage to Thomas, and she had never earned more than $20,000 per year except in 1990, when she "sold an idea to Fox television for a windfall once- in-a-lifetime sum of $75,000." She married wealthy investment banker and prominent Democratic Party fundraiser Wilbur Ross, Jr. in December 1995.
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A civil ceremony was presumably chosen to avoid potential controversy caused by the future supreme governor of the Church of England marrying a divorcée in a religious ceremony, Camilla Parker Bowles having divorced her first husband in 1995. In fact, the marriage of a divorced person whose ex-spouse is still living has been possible in the Church of England, at the discretion of the member of clergy conducting the ceremony, since 2002. When Princess Anne married Timothy Laurence after having divorced Mark Phillips, she did so in the Church of Scotland. Remarriage of divorcees is less controversial in the Church of Scotland, and the sovereign has no constitutional role in the governance of the Church.
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The next day, Olivier Mathieu, candidate for Lasalle-Emard-Verdun, stepped down following allegations of physical abuse against his ex-spouse. During the election, Jagmeet Singh has faced questions about wearing of a turban and whether that would reduce the number of people who would vote for him. Jonathan Richardson, the former federal NDP's executive member for Atlantic Canada, who defected to the Green Party, stated in an interview with CBC Radio, that some potential NDP candidates were hesitant to run in New Brunswick, due to Singh's turban. CTV News covered a Singh event in Verner, Ontario and spoke to a number of voters there, including NDP supporters, who said that they would not vote for a leader wearing a turban.
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Loss is one of the most common experiences that brings about grieving, and although this is often viewed as normal, there are times when it is disqualified. Some examples of when grieving over a loss is disenfranchised include: the loss of a grandchild, of an ex-spouse, of a sibling, or of a child through adoption. Loss of a grandchild can be extremely difficult for a grandparent, but the grandparent's grief is often disenfranchised because they are not part of the immediate family. Attention and support is given to the child's parents and siblings, but the grandparent's grief is two-fold as they have not only grieving the loss of their grandchild, but are also grieving for their adult children who have lost the child.
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Domestic violence is illegal in Portugal. It is specifically addressed by Article 152 of the Criminal Code of Portugal. The article, which has been amended several times throughout the years, reads: "Whoever, whether in a repetitive manner or not, inflicts physical or mental maltreatment, including bodily punishments, deprivation of liberty and sexual abuses: a) On the spouse or ex-spouse; b) On a person of the same or another gender with whom the offender maintains or has maintained a union, even if without cohabitation; c) On a progenitor of a common descendant in first degree; or d) On a particularly helpless person by reason of age, disability, disease, pregnancy or economic dependency, who cohabitates with the offender; shall be punished (...)".Article 152 reads in Portuguese: Artigo 152.
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Threat management experts are often suspicious of restraining orders, believing they may escalate or enrage stalkers. In his 1997 book The Gift Of Fear, well-known American security specialist Gavin de Becker characterized restraining orders as "homework assignments police give to women to prove they're really committed to getting away from their pursuers," and said they "clearly serve police and prosecutors," but "they do not always serve victims." De Becker also observed that restraining orders are most effective when the emotional involvement is lowest—for example, when used following a brief, unsatisfactory, dating relationship as opposed to with an ex-spouse. In the case of stalking, de Becker advised that restraining orders are most effective if the woman rejects once, and then obtains the restraining order immediately following any further unwanted contact.
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Disposable retired pay is a measure of post-service pay defined as the gross retired pay less (A) any prior military retirement overpayments and recoupments required by law, (B) any court-martial forfeitures, (C) retirement pay waived in order to receive disability payments from the VA, and (D) the premium costs paid for a spouse, or former spouse pursuant to court order, as a designated survivor under the Survivor Benefit Plan.USFSPA, 10 U.S. Code §1408(a)(4). Former spouses can receive their marital share of the retirement benefit directly from the Defense Finance and Accounting Service (DFAS) rather than from the ex-spouse, but to do so must have at least 10 years of marriage to the service member which overlaps the military service.USFSPA, 10 U.S. Code §1408(d).
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It is common for people to transfer feelings about their parents to their partners or children (that is, cross-generational entanglements). Another example of transference would be a person mistrusting somebody who resembles an ex-spouse in manners, voice, or external appearance, or being overly compliant to someone who resembles a childhood friend. In The Psychology of the Transference, Carl Jung states that within the transference dyad both participants typically experience a variety of opposites, that in love and in psychological growth, the key to success is the ability to endure the tension of the opposites without abandoning the process, and that this tension allows one to grow and to transform.Jung, Carl C. The Psychology of the Transference, Princeton University Press, Only in a personally or socially harmful context can transference be described as a pathological issue.
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There is a Social Security government pension offsetSocial Security Government pension offset accessed November 14, 2014 that will reduce or eliminate any spousal (or ex-spouse) or widow(er)'s benefits if the spouse or widow(er) is also receiving a government (federal, state, or local) pension that did not require paying Social Security taxes. The basic rule is that Social Security benefits will be reduced by 2/3's of the spouse or widow(er)'s non-FICA taxed government pension. If the spouse's or widow(er)'s government (non-FICA paying) pension exceeds 150% of the "normal" spousal or widow(er)'s benefit the spousal benefit is eliminated. For example, a "normal" spousal or widow(er)'s benefit of $1,000/month would be reduced to $0.00 if the spouse or widow(er)'s if already drawing a non-FICA taxed government pension of $1,500/month or more per month.
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