"Lissit via Reddit "[My fantasy is] being submissive, but specifically being submissive by using a butt plug.
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A groupie was still thought of as a submissive slut.
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Female coalitions preserve bonobo peace by keeping males socially submissive.
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Some adopt a more submissive posture, avoiding contact with others.
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The difference between the dominant and submissive objects is extreme.
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You could say it's submissive, but to what or whom?
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" He added: "We should neither be submissive nor have fear.
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It was too real for me, being submissive on screen.
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Each submissive has different weaknesses that we mutually enjoy exploring.
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Lilith in Cancer is a submissive siren in the bedroom.
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We offer something that politically, artistically, makes us less submissive.
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"A woman is supposed to be submissive," she once said.
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She's no longer the submissive follower of the Joker's antics.
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" He added: "We should neither be submissive nor have fear.
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Determining the degree of plus or minus here is pretty much the same as trying to define the point at which a dominant-submissive could be said to be really dominant or really submissive.
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Did I make myself impossible to respect by being too submissive?
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But I didn't feel angry, not then—you become quite submissive.
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Maybe you even enjoy switching between dominant and submissive sexual roles.
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How can a woman be submissive to men and a feminist?
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The women of paradise, the houris, are beautiful, submissive, languorous virgins.
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In that one moment, you are simultaneously in power and submissive.
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In the bedroom, she's typically submissive, and voyeurism turns her on.
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She is submissive and rebellious in ways that defy easy summary.
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His schoolmates' hair toed the line, groomed in submissive straight lines.
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They expect women to be completely submissive to their evangelical husbands.
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Feminine-of-center people may also identify as femme, submissive, transfeminine, etc.
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You can tell that they enjoy being submissive, serving as a doll.
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With other partners, I've felt submissive throughout the duration of the relationship.
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For anyone who's not submissive, a brutal crackdown is on the way.
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With the blow job, she's further infantilizing herself, assuming a submissive position.
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His rules for women involve her being submissive, quiet, and non-challenging.
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It doesn't really work out that way, because they aren't that submissive.
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She also has no idea about his secret life as a submissive.
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Song seemed to Gallimard "the perfect woman" — beautiful, submissive, modest about nudity.
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Ramos said Jesus' death was a subversive act, not a submissive one.
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This film is obsessed with reducing its female characters to submissive stereotypes.
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Which was funny, considering my profile specifically said I myself was a submissive.
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Women are pushed to be submissive to their husbands and act very feminine.
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In a healthy BDSM relationship, the submissive partner must have their needs met.
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I know plenty of women who enjoy submissive sex in powerful, empowering ways.
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But women should never, ever be made to be submissive against their will.
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Seductive sheikhs, submissive slaves, damsels in distress and swarthy men brandishing scimitars abound.
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They challenged everything that kept them sexually submissive, physically dependent and domestically servile.
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All their lives, the bears were beaten and abused to keep them submissive.
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I like to be the one being beaten—I prefer the submissive roles.
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Why other women like to be submissive, something like '50 Shades Of Grey.
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We instantly fall into an intense dominant–submissive relationship, which she continually escalates.
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For the majority of our relationship, I was content in the submissive role.
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When they respond, they should do so in a polite and submissive tone.
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I primarily identify as a submissive masochist, and she identifies as a sadist.
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But once they trust you, these attention-loving pups are submissive and loyal.
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Eventually, he surrenders to his desire and takes satisfaction in his submissive role.
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O played the spectrum of dominant and submissive in her youth and maturity.
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It was actually in a brothel and he claimed to be a submissive.
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Despite his humiliatingly submissive stance, Mr. Cathey imbues Clov with a haunting dignity.
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Very quickly, the guards became cruel, and the prisoners more submissive and depressed.
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If she was the submissive he believed, she'd feel it like an iron chain.
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Women, in contrast, are painted as weaker, submissive, and sexual gatekeepers to male desire.
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The women and men wearing it aren't sweet and submissive — they're smart and subversive.
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" Silverman said Franklin was a "sexual predator," who killed women who "weren't submissive enough.
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These groups of men are viewed as submissive and weak, making them easier prey.
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We are seen as brainless bigots who are submissive to our husbands or fathers.
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They might succeed if they can assuage Iranian pride by becoming the submissive demandeurs.
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"Relationship status: "I'm currently in a relationship with my 'slave' submissive male, age 22.
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Octopuses can also adopt intimidating or submissive postures to go with the color change.
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The worst is when a submissive mistakes her for a lifestyle dominatrix, Faithful groans.
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Someone who wants to become a submissive finds a lot of pleasure in service.
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When she grew older she would always be in control, even when being submissive.
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" Silverman said Franklin was a "sexual predator," who allegedly killed women who "weren't submissive enough.
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She's wrestled men for 12 years, having been introduced to sessioning by a submissive client.
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He's now the submissive but violent Frankenstein's Monster of Westeros, completely beholden to Cersei's orders.
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You can be submissive and still be bossy: sentences beginning "make me…" are still instructions.
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It was usually dominant, occasionally submissive but always coupled — if not tripled, quadrupled or quintupled.
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Harris reconstructs her found materials and paints submissive expressions over each of her figurines faces.
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In D/S relationships, sometimes the submissive will identify as being "owned" by their partner.
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The business relied on a group of submissive men for the women to practice with.
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But in office, President Trump has been submissive to the congressional GOP's health care agenda.
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His exacting, virtuosic style gives a whiff of the dominant-submissive to the composer-performer relationship.
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He's submissive to me and is thrilled at being able to support and interact with me.
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Offred is submissive and free from the struggles that come with fighting against the Gilead machine.
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He stood there, still and submissive, letting her pull the vest down and off his arms.
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Georg Friedrich Haas credits the dominant-submissive power dynamic of his marriage with increasing his productivity.
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Maybe this — a teenager allegedly trained to be a submissive sexual object — is the breaking point.
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"Being submissive within the sex scenes, I found more difficult than being dominant," Friel told me.
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Similarly to secretaries, flight attendants—in terms of how people perceive them—are devoted and submissive.
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Being a submissive essentially means that the dominant partner has control — with your consent, of course.
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After all, some people—regardless of gender—are content to take on a submissive sexual role.
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When women are submissive, silent and even headless, Morgan and co haven't got anything to say.
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The most important way a dom can show love to their submissive is in the aftercare.
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Men genuinely seem to think that Asian women are submissive and are desperate to be dominated.
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In the story, every woman in the totalitarian society is expected to play a submissive role.
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There's an admission of frailty in both the act of saying it and the submissive reception.
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The stereotyping of Asian women as submissive and exotic sex objects persists in American cultural works.
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Immediately afterward, the submissive performer records a testimonial to assure viewers that she thoroughly enjoyed herself.
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J: I'm in what you could classify as a dominant/submissive relationship, it's not necessarily romantic.
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Along the way, there are run-ins with Christian's old submissive and, well, a lot of sex.
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As with many hard submissive fetishes, this may sound terrifying to those looking in from the outside.
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But things get really interesting when she controls the male puppet while also performing the female submissive.
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And women shouldn't be made to feel like their sexual prowess is ruined when they aren't submissive.
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He cannot now afford to appear submissive to the president-elect, but he cannot alienate him, either.
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Australian actress Bella Heathcote is also in the cast as the down-and-out former submissive Leila.
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And that means that the submissive has to ask the dominate partner for any sort of release.
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For my militant brothers and sisters, please don't misconstrue loving and lovable to be weak or submissive.
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It's also normal to primarily feel more submissive or dominant, and want to experiment with role reversal.
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Such fat rewards make would-be predators like AMS look more like submissive Anastasia than domineering Christian.
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For example, I prefer to be dominant on screen because in my personal life I'm a submissive.
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"Ironically, I started off in the community as a male submissive, or a male slave," she recalled.
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The bottom line: The conference stands out as a uniquely submissive moment in the country's recent history.
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"I'm looking for a monogamous long-term partner whose natural dominant qualities complement my submissive," I wrote.
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Renault: (kissing Sally's hand) I was informed you were the most submissive woman to ever visit Casablanca.
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Feminists typically have criticized beauty contests for objectifying their subjects and perpetuating a submissive view of women.
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The children were strangely submissive, he said, reluctant even to accept a banana without their mother's permission.
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I can be the hungriest, most submissive bottom in the world, or the roughest, most alpha top.
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Perceiving and fluidly shifting between dominant and submissive roles improves our communication as a species, she said.
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When masculinity wants to be vulnerable, or be submissive, or play with their own gender...that becomes deviant and ridiculed and how in media so much of the time the submissive man in BDSM play is not usually the stud or the guy you want to be with.
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As that relationship unveils itself, it will be nice to see Noah face being in a submissive position.
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I consider my partner and I switches, meaning that we alternate between being the dominant and the submissive.
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He helped pass resolutions banning women as pastors and taught that women should be submissive to their husbands.
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The lightweights are pretty submissive but the heavier bulls are big dominant males who have heaps of energy.
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Thurman is as submissive as his dad, Roger (Ethan Phillips), who's in prison for a white-collar crime.
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I've always been into reading fiction about rough sex or rape, and have always been submissive in bed.
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Like, how you talk to a submissive: the tone of voice you use, the different cues you use.
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I'm an odd duck in that although I'm a genuine sadist, I feel zero attraction to submissive men.
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If you're as strong as I am — if you're not, be quiet and be humble and be submissive.
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VICE: As a submissive, is there anything you find super romantic that might seem backward to vanilla types?
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In this case, utilizing this theory, Marge would trend toward dominant desires while Homer would trend toward submissive.
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Renewed and resurrected, they confront the view that a woman cannot be both sexually submissive and a feminist.
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But in a dominant-submissive relationship, the arousal of being tattooed by a dominant goes beyond physical sensation.
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One girl in particular subbed [meaning she was submissive] to black guys and dommed [or dominated] white guys.
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"He becomes submissive to save his life," Honda said, a response that's sometimes referred to as Stockholm Syndrome.
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For those out there who believe that following the tax bill is too complicated, they are becoming submissive.
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Other symbols of BDSM lifestyles include tattoos/branding of the submissive with an image that symbolizes their master.
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Men assume I'm either wild or submissive in bed or think I'm some sort of Japanese Hentai character.
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I know girls who feel like they have to adopt the "exotic, submissive" persona just to get attention.
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"One of the dads we talked to intends his daughter to be submissive to her husband," she said.
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" In fact, "submissive behavior in depression was significantly associated with angry thoughts and feelings, but not aggressive behaviors.
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This conservative — and independent — strain of elite women does not necessarily fit a stereotype of submissive religious women.
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All of the films contain elements of exoticism: Submissive women are seduced; a man eats a live octopus.
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My preferences—which are submissive and based in BDSM—felt weird and promiscuous, unlike a "good" woman would be.
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"If the person who's submissive isn't having their needs met, the relationship can't get off the ground," she says.
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To the question: whatever happens is consensual so it's not hurting the submissive, but that's a bit too simplistic.
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You may recall that Leila was an ex-submissive of Christian's who began stalking him after a bad breakup.
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She dismissed women who "stay home and bake cookies," insulting Christians who hold to "biblical" views of submissive women.
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While some are eating up the BDSM romance, others aren't quite in for the dominant and submissive-based pairing.
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It's the pain and sexual humiliation that does it for him—and the sight of seeing a submissive woman.
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" Defense attorney Scot Courtney argued that Thompson had Hernandez in a "somewhat submissive hold" that was non-strangulating. "Mr.
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Therefore, when she imagines a scene in which she no longer has control, it's more of a submissive fantasy.
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To them, Mr. Peña Nieto looked weak and submissive in front of a bully who is humiliating their nation.
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The submissive males, hoping to avoid a fight, emit a thinner, more feminine roar, and consequently lose the mate.
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If you're a girl, then you're this one who has to be submissive, not make problems and sit quietly.
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In the latter world, she's agreeable and submissive in that non-aggressive, quiet, not-as-black sort of way.
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My 16-year-old and I are very close, and he is a submissive male and into bigger girls.
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People always assumed, among other things, that I was great at math, and that I was shy and submissive.
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"He dreams of a soft, submissive, gentle, giggling, inexperienced, weak, ideologically amorphous and politically uncertain president," Mr. Poroshenko said.
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Threats of harm to his family, deception by Miranda and psychological abuse, he says, kept him quiet and submissive.
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The woman is positioned beneath the camera, which allows for an obvious anatomical reveal and also a submissive posture.
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The woman is positioned beneath the camera, which allows for an obvious anatomical reveal and also a submissive posture.
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It's also hypersexualized—its characters not only have anatomically impossible bodies but are often submissive to their male counterparts.
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He has had his misadventures: looking adrift and submissive in a loss at Wimbledon to Andy Murray last year.
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Ms. Scott's suit said the founders tried to secure "submissive Asian women" for a fund-raising trip to Asia.
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Superior technology — so goes the argument — induces a stereotypical overview of unfamiliar lives, leaving them in false, submissive categories.
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"When BDSM scenes are negotiated they are done so according to the desires and limits of the submissive," she says.
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Males born of mothers given unadulterated drinking water all quickly assumed a submissive posture when confronted with such a stranger.
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It's the idea that being submissive puts me in the "feminine" role of sex, which in turn makes me weak.
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If you're the submissive type, being handcuffed allows you to enjoy the extreme arousal of being at your partner's whim.
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In my case, I've only played both the submissive and dominant roles with specific partners who were also into switching.
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Most people expect women to be quiet and submissive, so they're surprised when they find a woman who is different.
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"What you doin' out here in this weather, pastor?" a frosted-haired lady asked in a joyful and submissive voice.
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The characters in my work are soft but show defiance in being submissive, it's a reflection of my own experiences.
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Making her first appearance in 50 Shades Darker, Williams suffers from her breakup with Christian Grey and the submissive lifestyle.
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"The Valentina that I drew is soft, erotic and submissive while confident and comfortable in her own skin," Otrakji says.
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Their typically female voices and often submissive styles reinforce problematic stereotypes, the United Nations Educational, Scientific and Cultural Organization says.
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The film argues that these expressions were not submissive (as some critics have claimed), but demonstrations of courage and grace.
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"A Submissive France: Voices of Defiance" compiles interviews on France's troubled banlieues, or suburbs, overseen by the historian Georges Bensoussan.
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Ambiguous descriptors like "African" and "small Asian figure" sit alongside "submissive" and "party girl" personalities, playing into sexualized racist stereotypes.
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But for submissive animals, the group setting is a stressful change, and they respond by increasing their use of cocaine.
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The objective was to make the detainees tired, stressed and submissive for interrogators, witnesses later said in military court hearings.
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But some guests had previously dated or been involved in a dominant/submissive relationship, which caused a lot of tension.
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Could, say, a Muslim woman—a group so often dismissed as inherently submissive—be embraced as a serious professional fighter?
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"The best protection is to be submissive, hand things over," said Roberto Maldonado, who handles paperwork for truckers in La Grita.
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"It is time for Europe to decide whether it wants to become a submissive continent...or a sovereign continent," he said.
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GUTFELD: Kat, it could go three days and I think the strategy is to wear everyone down to a submissive nub.
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Conversely, I have met submissive folks who have resolved their concerns about their impairments through the care provided by a dom.
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The purpose of the "crush box" is to break the elephants spirit so that it is submissive to its human masters.
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Choose a safe word (have fun with this!), and remember that the submissive one (the person getting spanked) is in control.
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"I watched my mom have to be submissive, watch her Ps and Qs or she's gonna get beat up," she reflects.
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The submissive partner always has the right to end whatever is happening, without having to explain, justify, beg, or apologize afterward.
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"I would sit down with the couple and find out which one is dominant and which one is submissive," he says.
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Pet play is simply another riff on the classic dominant and submissive dynamic—just with less words and sturdier knee pads.
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After the horse entered the arena, Grant pointed out that she was already submissive, keeping her head low and smelling Freckles.
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To be obedient and to be submissive, especially to male authority figures, is — in most evangelical communities— a de facto virtue.
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If you're an Under-Cover Lover, you might be more submissive — and into sex that feels a little more buttoned-up.
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"My maidens aim to explore the submissive woman's battle between states of empowerment and vulnerability within the fetish lifestyle," Harris explains.
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"I wouldn't worry about any tattoo I received from a domme if we separated," says Chloe, a 41-year-old submissive.
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The host Angela (Talulah Riley), once a submissive greeter to guests at the park, blew it up in a suicide bombing.
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Because you have this extreme kind of humiliating, submissive way of contorting your body, but then there's also power in that.
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According to Witherspoon, BDSM and dominant/submissive relationships should have safeguards built in to create boundaries and prevent abuse from occurring.
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Weapons of mass death, and the submissive fear they engender, put teeth on that shrinking minority's entitled claim to indefinite power.
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I had grown up in the margins; in the media Asian Americans were assigned side roles, submissive, soft-spoken secondary characters.
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"I felt underestimated throughout the [court] process; maybe they saw me as differential or submissive," she told the website in September.
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Howe's husband, Samuel, a prominent Boston educator and intellectual, yearned for a submissive wife, fulfilled by her marital and maternal duties.
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One of her short stories became the movie "Secretary," in which James Spader spanks and sexually dominates a submissive Maggie Gyllenhaal.
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The way that whole thing works is the submissive has all the power because they're giving you the consent to be dominant.
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Speaking of Holden's more submissive behavior, the first time we see him going down on Debbie, it's proof he's willing to learn.
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Far from being demure, submissive, and feminine, these women use their clothing to protest against what they see as unfair gender norms.
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As Ana begins to anticipate a romance, Christian drops a bomb: He'll only be with her under contract as dominant and submissive.
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In so many ways he is the ideal ISIS foot soldier: submissive in demeanor, uneducated, and from a hotbed of Sunni radicalism.
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"He was totally compliant, submissive even still not enough to save him from the ferocious violence of the police department," Maupin said.
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Add to the fact that I'm Asian American, with all of the stereotypes related to submissive women, and the burnout just increases.
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The film gives the mannequins a narrative as employees of small businesses, but as ones who must always be smiling and submissive.
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In fact, there's definitely something bubbling below Sarah's surface that needs to be addressed: Normally in her BDSM sessions, she's the submissive.
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What about the idea he stands next to Putin like a submissive puppy and says, oh, I believe Putin, not the Americans.
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If you are shy yet submissive, extremely feminine, and love to be dominated by a strong-willed Irish woman then write me.
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Domination and humiliation play is a form of BDSM in which the submissive partner is consensually demeaned through verbal or physical acts.
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Jurors are unaware of of their own importance because the jury system is designed to beat them into feeling submissive and deferential.
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They're often associated with BDSM, since a dominant partner may put them on a submissive partner as as form of power play.
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She called that model woman "The Angel in the House," after an 1854 poem by Coventry Patmore celebrating his demure, submissive wife.
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"Interestingly, the seductive smile could be accompanied by submissive behavior (tilting the head downward), or dominant behavior — proudly and slowly glancing away."
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Just because you're being submissive it does not under any circumstances mean you have to go through with something you don't want.
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Along with the traditional roles often pushed on women by Asian parents, society is quick to typecast us as quiet and submissive.
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On both these albums—as with her former band Daisy Chainsaw and later Ruby Throat—Katie Jane seemed fragile and intentionally submissive.
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"Some people find it as [a] form of bondage due to the obviously restricted movement of the submissive, berried individual," Riddlercorps said.
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She's in a loving dominant-submissive relationship with her partner of four years, who proposed to her last year in Luxembourg Garden.
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Jim's behavior in these chapters led me to suspect Twain believed slaves were too unintelligent and submissive to stand up to adolescents.
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"Do they really think that people here are so stupid and submissive that they would put up with a dictator?" he said.
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When monkeys are moved from an individual cage and housed in a group, some become dominant and others assume a submissive role.
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The acronym "BDSM" conjures images of leather-clad dominatrixes in high heeled boots hitting submissive men with a whip might to mind.
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Officer Betty Shelby arrived on the scene, and although Crutcher remained calm, submissive, and was clearly unarmed, she shot and killed him.
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In the same way, porn can help us to appreciate real sex, says Louisa Knight, a professional submissive and escort from London.
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I was meant to be—because I happened to be the more feminine—submissive, and I was going to make them feel good.
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As a professional submissive and fetish porn producer in Los Angeles, being tied up, spanked, and flogged is part of the job description.
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Kinky sexual relationships can take virtually any form, but the basic dynamic tends to center around "submissive" participants surrendering power to "dominant" partners.
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They also take care of their bosses' private matters and are 'willing,' in a sense, which makes them appear tone devout and submissive.
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While padding on its buddy's back with its paws, the submissive kitty keeps getting swiped at and even gets a few unimpressed looks.
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A slightly meek teenager, I was naturally submissive in these matters and let Max take control of the sticky mouse and clacky keyboard.
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In response, Sanders committed to combating Islamophobia and invited Abdelgader, who challenged stereotypes that Muslim women are silenced and submissive, to the stage.
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This is where Peele's love for The Stepford Wives, the 1975 film and 2004 reboot about submissive women in a rich suburb, blossoms.
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Not to mention, many people begin identifying as a submissive or a dominant, and then realize they want to explore the flip side.
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His younger sister, Candace Cameron Bure, made headlines after she discussed being submissive in her marriage to former NHL pro Valeri Bure, 41.
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But her physical appearance is another example of what some see as a traditional representation of conventionally attractive, submissive-by-design female robots.
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When my submissive is in support of me being with other men and dating other men, I find that to be extremely connecting.
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That's why dominant and submissive roles, which are explicitly concerned with intentional exchanges of power, are often conflated with topping and bottoming, respectively.
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In Mr. Morris's world, not only are same-sex couples equal to opposite-sex ones, but women can be propulsive, and men submissive.
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In Asia, I feel like, in a man's head, men think they should have more control and that women should be more submissive.
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" For Sara, the key to breaking down stereotypes is "to keep telling our story about inspirational Muslim women who are anything but submissive.
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The entire reason Negan did what he did in the season premiere of The Walking Dead was to make Rick utterly and completely submissive.
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I was also able to find other subtle ways to feed my submissive side, like sitting at his feet while we watched a movie.
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The other dog, much younger and extremely submissive, would surely follow her older sister to the ends of the earth for no reason whatsoever.
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And is the mostly submissive — if emotionally and physically challenging — act of gestating a baby truly a test of a woman's endurance and spirit?
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At once ferocious and submissive, Margot is acutely aware of the caste system she must navigate in order to succeed as a female scientist.
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Initially, I started by domme-ing — working at a BDSM dungeon — but I didn't like being the 'top,' I was more of a submissive.
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We call for rebellion and a struggle against the alliance of the patriarchy and capitalism that wants us to be obedient, submissive and quiet.
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Ever since I've spoken up...I'm no longer the perfect submissive bride these women are looking for because I'm...too strong-minded and independent.
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If a partner pees on another without consent, the submissive partner could be traumatized, and the dominant partner could end up in legal trouble.
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When I see them at our parties, they're submissive, and I think for a few hours, they just want to let their guard down.
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I'm starting to think the least interesting part of the show is the one we skipped over this week: Rick's spiral of submissive despair.
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On the submissive side, I feel like there's this fantasy of the cold read, of finding a dominant who knows exactly what they want.
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In my first BDSM relationship, I was the submissive partner, and I was dating a dominant cis man who wanted to tie me up.
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And how can the denomination square a belief in submissive, obedient women with a commitment to fighting sexual harassment, sexual abuse, and gender discrimination?
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And the extent to which Jiajia makes women seem submissive and image-obsessed is almost more troubling since the robot's face can barely move.
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And he bragged about crossing conservatives to protect entitlements: But in office, President Trump has been submissive to the congressional GOP's health care agenda.
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It's a common thing for some men who find women to be too difficult, to get what they hope will be a submissive woman.
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Some became submissive, some acted out, but no one — at least no one I ever knew — viewed it as an occasion for moral betterment.
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They remembered how a rogue Shariah court he had established passed sentences on fellow Shiites deemed too submissive toward the American occupation of Iraq.
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Professional dominatrixes are the first to scoff at the idea that all men enjoy being dominant in bed and all women enjoy being submissive.
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At an event, I exchanged phone numbers with an extremely submissive server who was dressed in ragged clothes and had a cloudy, damaged eye.
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He's blocked her in the past, and I think he's always threatened by women that have their own voice and aren't submissive to him.
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Roiphe's aim is to investigate a profound contradiction within herself, between her submissive attitude toward men she desires and her fierce, feminist self-reliance.
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However, there are always unforeseen circumstances where the submissive can't use the safe word and depends on a certain degree of trust in the dominatrix.
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Responsible members of kink communities know that the submissive is extra vulnerable and has placed tremendous trust in the dominant one to respect their humanity.
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Women like Desai, having brought a big employer to a halt, were walking refutations of the stereotype of South Asian women as submissive and downtrodden.
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It's a show that gives power back to those who need it: the submissive men, queer Asian-American women, the kink community, and many more.
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Her whispered orders to Everlasting's suitor start sounding less like that of a producer to a reality show star than a dominatrix to her submissive.
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"I also think it's very important to challenge the rhetoric that women are submissive and easily intimidated, as this ratifies Roosh's belief structure," she added.
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I really enjoy it as a sign of worship and ritual, so my submissive would drink me as a sign of taking goddess' golden nectar.
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When one partner sports a tail, they can resemble an animal or pet, a form of role-playing common in consensual dominant and submissive relationships.
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It fits for a movie in which almost all the characters have been playing variations on the same role of slavishly adoring, lethally submissive servant.
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If you ever see someone wearing a chain and padlock as a necklace, they are very likely a submissive in a master/sub BDSM relationship.
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In the bleakly comic and relentlessly claustrophobic "Endgame," a play by Samuel Beckett, he plays the submissive Clov to Mr. Cumming's cantankerous and blind Hamm.
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The two young people formed a relationship and frequently met at Doe's GMU dorm room to have BDSM sex, with Roe as the submissive partner.
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Here, beauty standards are like, a girl has to be sexy or independent, but in Asia it's more like the cute, submissive, soft, innocent [type].
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" Their relationship, which they closely documented online, was based around a dominant–submissive power exchange in which Dylan was the "Master" and Tank was his "pup.
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The needs of the bottom come first, followed by the needs and wants of the person in authority, and, finally, the wants of the submissive partner.
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"That may be why you hear of some people in power, like high-powered CEOs, who love to play the role of submissive," Dr. O'Reilly says.
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He would have volunteered to enter the enclosure and assume a submissive fetal position on the floor to try drawing the gorilla's attention from the boy.
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" He added, "The conservative movement is no longer represented by submissive, bow-tied conserva-nerds who've never been slugged in the face or slugged anyone else.
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"You could explore what it means to be a submissive, or in a BDSM relationship before actually seeking out these scenarios in real life," she said.
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She writes that women were expected to be "submissive," both in the church and in her band—Smith appointed one of her male bandmates the leader.
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A stock print of young dancers in delicate tutus hung before me, and they looked exactly how you'd imagine a cliché ballerina might: Demure. Submissive. White.
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In the past, ties were damaged by a center-right government that was "submissive (to) pressure from the United States and... the European Union", he said.
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Opposition leaders, however, had rejected that demand despite the president's threats that he would hold new elections in those states in search of more submissive winners.
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The country remains submissive before spiritual authority, even under laïcité, the century-old constitutional secularism that the French mistake for a system of freedom of religion.
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He stepped in to take his mentor's place twice in previous years, but was so carefully submissive to her that he avoided sitting at her desk.
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"Hurry on Home" sees Ms Brownstein play the submissive to her returning lover: "You know I'm dressdown-able / Uptown-able / Hair grab-able / Grand slam-able".
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Maya challenges her boyish applicants poetically, sexually and finally with offers of intimacy, but the editing all too often settles into a submissive back and forth.
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" In a statement to BuzzFeed News, Dylan said the list circulating online was "a piece of erotic fiction written by Tank, featuring some of his submissive fantasies.
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Holden doesn't want to show sexual dominance — no, he would rather be submissive to prove he's not a bad guy — instead, Holden is looking for career dominance.
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"I found that playing with dominant/submissive dynamics was a way to reclaim my power," Esposito tells me over the phone from a vacation in Jakarta, Indonesia.
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"In May 2011 he read a review of sex workers into extreme practices ... in 2013 he was looking for more submissive sex workers," he told the court.
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Making women feel weak and submissive has long been a way to control women's power, says Rena McDaniel, MEd, LCPC, a gender and sex therapist in Chicago.
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If a submissive came to me and told me that their dominant was treating them in that way I would strongly counsel them to leave that relationship.
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A small group of neurons in the brains of mice may control whether males are aggressive or submissive in encounters with other males, according to new research.
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Though every sissy/femdom relationship is wildly different, the common denominator is usually the forced cross-dressing of the male submissive—anything from lingerie to evening gowns.
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Belle the woman is still forced to be the submissive to this powerful Beast/prince, but their chemistry is so potent, you can almost excuse it. Almost.
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Given that a new wave of refugees could destroy Merkel's chances of re-election this fall, the chancellor has been conspicuously submissive in her approach to Erdogan.
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But in a larger sense, SHODAN is the twisted, charismatic answer to the submissive, invariably female digital secretaries that companies like Apple and Microsoft have given us.
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If they fight for justice, and demand some measure of control over their lives, they reject another colony teaching: Women are supposed to be submissive to men.
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"You have to do what you can at home to be submissive in every way that you can and to elevate him," Patterson said in the recording.
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For me a very romantic time would be to have the submissive be my bath butler and help me get ready for a date with someone else.
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Most bottoms make known how they want to be pleased and in what contexts, so the submissive is ultimately the one most in charge of the scenario.
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Some practitioners say BDSM play feels natural to them, like they are inherently drawn to being dominant or submissive, and it's a true expression of their selves.
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Miller told Shondaland her race might have "worked to my advantage" because it confronted stereotypes that Asians were submissive and would keep quiet about stories like this.
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Today, Mr. Mushtaq sexually identifies as an impact-play and bondage switch, meaning he is comfortable assuming the dominant and submissive roles in the infliction of pain.
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But it left him feeling countermanded, corrected, submissive and weak, and those emotions just won't do for an ego as needy and skin as thin as his.
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Conversely, some dogs shut down in self-protective, submissive mode, masking what may even be aggressive behavior that only emerges in a safe setting, like a home.
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That was such a learning curve for me, because I used to think if you were vulnerable and admitted how much you needed someone, you were being submissive.
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Initially Nat doesn't realize he's part of a systematic indoctrination, a way to keep his fellow slaves down by twisting God's teachings into a guide for being submissive.
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If you haven't had to do it for a while, it may seem like having to be completely submissive to customers shouldn't be that big of a deal.
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Disappointingly, it makes sense, in a way, that guys enthralled, or neutrally submissive to, the norms of patriarchy would look for intimacy with us in sex work, too.
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Obviously, the idea is for the movie version of E.L. James' novel to be sexy and erotic, from star Jamie Dornan's impressive biceps to its dominant-submissive naughtiness.
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If we have to divide the world into alpha and betas, then I am probably considered an alpha by the public, when in truth, I am quite submissive.
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Xi has no interest in a united Korea, which would result in a more powerful, less submissive and perhaps more unruly neighbor than either of the two Koreas.
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A month ago, some Republican senators were briefly roused from their submissive torpor by Trump's cavalier decision to greenlight a Turkish attack on America's Kurdish allies in Syria.
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All of this is dumped into a political butter churned by media that have been, for the most part, submissive to Trump in an effort to be fair.
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"Exposed palms to show nothing is being concealed in the hands, hunched shoulders to protect the throat from attack, and raised brow, which is a universal, submissive greeting."
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Or maybe they just don't know that they're allowed, and assume they're not without being told so, because after all, at heart, human beings are so extremely submissive.
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Roles like dominant and submissive are not aligned with any particular gender or orientation; they are identities that determine sense of self and interpersonal relationships, says Mr. Coleman.
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This exhibition was prompted by Rozsika Parker's 21998 book The Subversive Stitch, which aimed to separate needlework from historical perceptions of it as a submissive craft by women.
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"I enjoy taking care of a sir's needs, and this goes beyond the sexual side," says Minnesota-based "boy" (a sort of low-pressure submissive role) Matthew Theis.
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Along with her sisters, Ona has been raised to be silent and submissive — like animals, the women themselves note, as they begin to question everything in the hayloft.
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But the truth is that Taiwan, one of Asia's most vibrant and boisterous democracies, is a terrible example to cite as a cultural other populated by submissive peons.
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If anything, Mr. Smilde said, the measures might have the opposite affect — discouraging neighboring countries from taking action for fear of appearing to be submissive to American interests.
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And you get these moments with Beavers, the submissive black mother, and Washington, a tragic mulatto character who seems to be cursed by her drop of black blood.
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And you get these moments with Beavers, the submissive black mother, and Washington, a tragic mulatto character who seems to be cursed by her drop of black blood.
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But many family members of detained lawyers say that the evidence points to widespread abuses, including the forced taking of drugs that made the detainees docile and submissive.
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Hawks are submissive when cornered, so Jenna was able to gather Aya up in a T-shirt, free her talons from the wire mesh, and take her home.
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One of those FOBs was Mack McClarty, a friend of Bill's since kindergarten, who was appointed chief of staff despite his submissive personality and lack of prior experience.
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"The market anticipates that new a chief executive might be more submissive and inclined to finance some of the minister's projects," said Robert Maj, analyst at Ipopema Securities.
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Australia-born Chapman legally changed his name to Tank Hafertepen about six years after striking up a submissive relationship with Dylan Hafertepen, a heavily tattooed and beefily muscular dom.
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If one partner in a conversation is seeking dominance and the other is seeking co-operation, the status-seeker will wind up hearing co-operative conversational turns as submissive.
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"I was never much of a female dominant so the submissive aspect of being beautified and told what to do as a model is fun to me," Delacroix says.
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People were always kind of onboard with me being a submissive or masochist—although they were worried about hitting me too hard and knocking a joint out of place.
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"I once worked with a couple in which the husband was submissive, but the wife had been physically abused as a child and couldn't imagine dominating him," Nichols said.
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Not only am I a small woman, I'm a small woman of color — specifically, an Asian woman, whom stereotypes will tell you should be submissive and docile by nature.
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Depending on how long the submissive partner wears the belt, it can also make sure that their every sexual thought is focused on the person who holds the key.
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He helped to pass resolutions that ban women as pastors and declare the Bible is without error, as well as teaching that women should be submissive to their husbands.
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Then there's the entire plot of the film's inspiration: in The Taming of the Shrew, multiple men scheme and plot over who could obtain the most submissive, docile wife.
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That can include everything from tending to any wounds the submissive partner got during the scene, to taking a moment to be still and relish the experience, Fous says.
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Part of the show is about this idea: Can I knowingly embrace this submissive, sexy female role and enjoy it without feeling guilty that I'm reinstating ridiculous gender roles?
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Of course, you don't need to date dominant partners with cage fantasies or attend BDSM workshops like I did to take pleasure in switching between being dominant and submissive.
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Mistress Bettie Bondage, a professional dominatrix and BDSM educator in Los Angeles, says that CBT is a very common request she gets from submissive clients with penises during sessions.
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The worse I felt about myself and doubted myself and internalized his view of me and the way the world should work, the more submissive and accommodating I became.
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But the effect was that I became submissive to all of it, believing in it when it was fortifying and believing in it when it left me feeling abandoned.
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Gypsy, who eventually realized the fraud to which she was an unwilling party, and the lengths to which her mother would go to render her submissive, began to rebel.
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In Christina Dalcher's recent debut novel, "Vox," an ultraconservative political party gains control of Congress and the White House, and enacts policies that force women to become submissive homemakers.
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Having borne four daughters who died in infancy, Zuleikha is lonely and unhappy, but patient, submissive — and unable to imagine a life significantly better or worse than her own.
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The controversy surrounding "Story of O" concerns its plot: A woman named O becomes a submissive and slave to her male lover and the members of his sadomasochistic club.
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If new AIs continue to fall into current gender role stereotypes, then the stereotype of the passive and submissive woman versus the knowledgeable leader/expert man will be furthered.
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One minute he's musing about Nan as God, the next he's talking about her as if she's the submissive half of a quasi-romantic relationship in which he's dominant.
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BDSM sexual and lifestyle practices very greatly beyond the dominatrix and submissive dynamic, including humiliation (being mocked by degrading language), electroplay (being shocked by an electrical source), and gagging.
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To the extent that this is what motivates him, his policy choices might be guided primarily by which policies could extract the maximum submissive discomfort from the party establishment.
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Madison: The scene I just shot last week was a BDSM impact scene where I was the submissive, so I had an authentic experience where I went into subspace.
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Roe, who played the submissive role, alleged in court documents (where both were assigned anonymous monikers) that on that day she pushed Doe away and did not want to continue.
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He told them he was using cocaine regularly -- up to 220 grams in a 2000-hour period -- and spending large sums of money on prostitutes, especially ones who were submissive.
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Some of these videos feature straight men in very dominant roles where, for example, they may have rough sex with another man or get "serviced" by a submissive male partner.
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"You can be forthright without being a bully, but equally you need to be empathetic without being submissive," Jones writes, adding that it's important to gauge how others will respond.
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Submissive loyalty to one man and the rage he both feeds off and incites is a threat to the shining democracy that the world has often taken as its example.
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In my most recent performance, "Odalisque," shown recently at The Invisible Dog Art Center in Brooklyn, I reimagine the classical reclining nude as a gender non-conforming queer bondage submissive.
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Asian people have long been infantilized and told that we appear more youthful than we are, which plays a role in the stereotyping of Asian women as submissive and exotic.
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She has carefully established a political career that will likely take her to White House, an accomplishment that argues persuasively against the depiction of her as a meek, submissive woman.
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Unlike many forms of bondage within BDSM, shibari isn't usually meant to foster a sense of helplessness and humiliation for the person who's tied up (which many submissive people desire).
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But rebels and bandits were unrepresentative: Most peasants were devout and submissive, which is of course why Russian and Chinese Communists hated them so much, and waged war against them.
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"The 'distraction' or delay in implementing global agreements on the environment shows that politics has become submissive to a technology and economy which seek profit above all else," Francis said.
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Lives has not just one, but two, private Snapchats: one that offers access to her explicit hardcore porn, and femdom account that provides jerkoff instructions to her eager submissive followers.
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It starts with "Ladies, if he:" followed by a bulleted list of trademark fuccboi behavior like not texting back, being disrespectful, and expecting women to adhere to submissive gender roles.
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"Our government's submissive attitude can make North Korea arrogant and trigger a backlash from our people," Sohn Hak-kyu, leader of the opposition Bareun Mirae Party, told reporters on Monday.
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Read: The Paris park where Nigerian women are forced into prostitution Threats of harm to his family, deception by Miranda and psychological abuse, he says, kept him quiet and submissive.
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By proxy I do enjoy being in a dominant position, since she is sexually submissive, but I enjoy it a more in the moment than as a total sexual need.
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"The submissive person who is willingly giving over his or her agency can be getting precisely what he or she wants," Kevin McFarland, the JACK's cellist, said in a telephone interview.
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Macrophilia, or a giantess fetish, is a sexual fantasy that mostly involves submissive men getting off to the idea of being crushed or eaten alive by destructive, sky scraper–size women.
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If you wore your hanky in your left pocket, you were deemed as more submissive, or a "bottom," whereas the right pocket meant that you were a "top" or more dominant.
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The meat, close to burgundy in color, is jerkylike in funkiness of flavor but more submissive in texture, and a distant cousin of bresaola from across the Adriatic Sea in Italy.
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So while her previous choice of Generation G's Jam was bold, brazen, and ballsy, it appears Steele is finally settling into her comfortable life as part-time submissive, part-time wife.
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In film and porn, we are mostly shown dominant sadist "tops" and submissive masochist "bottoms," but there is so much territory to explore in intimate exchanges beyond this oft-gendered binary.
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That means she's continually asking clients for their consent to hit them and tie them up, which can be tricky when the whole point is that they feel submissive to her.
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Men and women might speak with higher-pitched voices towards high-status people because a low-pitched voice sounds dominant, particularly in men, while a high-pitched voice sounds relatively submissive.
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The second generation of Muslims in the West rejected the quiet and submissive faith of their parents and looked for preachers who spoke their language and understood their concerns, often online.
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Because even if the dominate partner isn't looking to humiliate their submissive by having them question gender roles, locking up someone's genitals gives the dom the key to their pleasure — literally.
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Director James Foley takes the reins and tries to build some suspense around that, as well as side plots like Christian's former submissive-turned-stalker and Anastasia's creepy boss (Eric Johnson).
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He presented alternatives to hypermasculinity, embodying men who enjoy being submissive to women, who are are open to sexual lessons and advances from women, and who are vulnerable without negative connotation.
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Blue began studying rope as a bottom with her partner Kanso, but over the course of her career, her role changed to that of "switch," moving between dominant and submissive roles.
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The stereotype of a Chinese woman is submissive, and to the patriarchy she is just a woman who is meant to be at home, not grabbing everything life has to offer.
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At the same time, Mr. Ho said, it is possible Mr. Yang is falling victim to false stereotypes that paint Asian-Americans as "reserved and submissive," as Mr. Ho put it.
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When I put my first website up, I described myself as cutesy and sweet and submissive, and by describing myself like that, I was attracting people who were seeking to dominate.
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"We find that, after the type of bruises that the people in this administration have taken, that the next group coming in is usually people more submissive to this administration," Cardin said.
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Most BDSM relationships have a safe word (let's say "eggplant") that the submissive can use to stop whatever is occurring (since "no" or "please stop" is often part of the role playing).
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There were people saying, 'These types of things happen in every kind of society' without looking at the culture of the remote colonies — the male entitlement and the submissive roles of women.
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I was not perceived as a feminist when I'm With the Band came out, and in fact I was perceived as submissive to men, and that's just because they got it wrong.
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A hair stylist and samba dancer from the favela Morro São João, she says the song is a call for sexual liberation in a world where "women are still seen as submissive".
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But Marine Le Pen is praising Chancellor Merkel's management of the German economy and a strong (she would say "selfish") defense of German interests, while berating the "submissive and brainless" French politicians.
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She feels masculine and dominant in her everyday life, but is able to be more feminine and shy or submissive when she's negotiating a BDSM scene with one of her play partners.
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Seeing straight men in submissive roles might also be appealing because it offers some gay men the opportunity to "overcome their feeling of being disempowered and unwanted by straight men," Kort says.
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Ultimately, Ley thinks that the cuckold and hotwife relationships he studied may be about many things for men: Bisexuality, an interest in being submissive, wanting control, wanting to cede control, being masochistic.
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So-called "zen" spanking is spanking with intent, and it focuses on that connection Dr. Aaron mentions, the one between the dominant partner giving the spanks and the submissive one receiving them.
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They are programmed to be submissive and servile - including politely responding to insults - meaning they reinforce gender bias and normalize sexist harassment, said researchers from the U.N. scientific and cultural body UNESCO.
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The video, which showed the princess topless with a string bikini bottom being attended to by submissive palace staff, scandalized a public accustomed to perceiving the monarchy as a paragon of virtue.
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A person who has a script that says "I give the pleasure" or is dominant would likely get pleasure from spanking someone who gets pleasure from receiving it—most likely a submissive.
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One day my editor, a well-respected journalist who stood apart from his submissive state-appointed colleagues for his outspokenness and professional rigor, called me into his office after an editorial meeting.
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Little Women was part of an answering trend of books for girls that were supposed to offer obedient, submissive girls an alternative to the kind of outdoorsy, wild books offered to boys.
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With a tamed Justice Department under Attorney General Bill Barr and a submissive Republican-led Senate, Trump is all but above scrutiny by or consequences from any other institution at the moment.
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It will peck at the younger bird and demand chronic displays of submissive behavior, like facing away with its bill tucked down, but in good times it will let its sibling live.
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One of the greatest female basketball players ever is calling out Jameis Winston ... saying the time of women being silent, submissive and meek is OVER ... and he'd better get used to it.
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Sansa's assault, seen through the eyes of a submissive, broken Theon (presumably in order to show us how helpless HE feels) felt like a gross injustice to the eldest Stark daughter's character arc.
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By contrast, other videos feature straight men taking on submissive roles, where sex may be forced on them by another man and, sometimes, they are tied up and/or humiliated in the process.
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Christian has a surveillance file — pictures, schedules, notes made by a private investigator — on every woman he wanted to turn into a submissive; for most women, that would be deal-breaking psychotic behavior.
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A "sub-drop" refers to the sadness a submissive partner may feel once endorphins crash and adrenaline floods their body after a powerful scene (though dominant partners can also experience drops, Fous says).
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In many heteronormative power dynamics, you, as the woman, are considered to be more submissive—you can't go out of the house wearing certain things or can't express your sexuality in certain ways.
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In fact, going between more dominant and submissive roles in bed, depending on mood and/or partner, is a natural and totally normal way to express your sexuality, says Shara Sand, clinical psychologist.
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The GOP is so cravenly submissive to all pro-gun arguments, many of its members will say on camera things that â€" judging by the fear in their eyes â€" shock even themselves.
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" If anyone is the passive mare in this situation, it's the submissive Ken, who can only watch Bridgette in excited amazement, agreeing to being a "little bitch whore" with a "tight little dick.
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After acknowledging that she knew how to type, she was asked to type up classified ads — "Dominant iguana seeks submissive zebra" was one — while sitting on the lap of the publisher, Allen Katzman.
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" Pushed as to how a woman adequately assertive to divorce her first husband in her 20s was now so submissive in a bustling Turkish city, she said: "This was years in the making.
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"Some girls want to call their man daddy in a way that has nothing to do with their father but as a way that communicates she is submissive to your masculinity," says another.
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Why do most virtual assistants that are powered by artificial intelligence — like Apple's Siri and Amazon's Alexa system — by default have female names, female voices and often a submissive or even flirtatious style?
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"It is a trap, especially for women, because they say you have to take the veil, and marry and not study, and they want you just to be a submissive woman," she wrote.
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It would be hard for audiences at Venice to stay submissive or pacified this year, as one filmmaker after another takes them out of the Mediterranean sunshine and into a very dark place.
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He displays calming and submissive signals and behaviors (ears back and down, tail tucked, lowered or hunched posture, puppy licking of the person's face, pawing) because he wants assurance he won't be hurt.
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She sets out not only to bust stereotypes about submissive Japanese-American women but also to rescue hick Kentuckians, intolerant Christians, "tiger moms" and even the dying from the broad brush of caricature.
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"They're usually good at bottoming … most Asians dudes are," the other user wrote in response, conjuring a derisive stereotype that deems receptive sex a form of submission and casts gay Asian men as submissive.
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Because that's how I felt: like the world wanted me to be invisible, or go away, so the art was a way of existing in the world whilst simultaneously being hideously submissive and polite.
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They will be told to look out for signs of trafficking such as people who look inadequately dressed, fearful, or submissive, sport bruises or are accompanied by someone who seems controlling, the company said.
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If it's an SM scene and we're going for something that easily facilitates forced choking/being submissive/dropping to your knees, it's less about the cock and more about the power play (and choking).
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"There is a consistent impulse for figures in positions of power (whether they are doctors or directors) to prefer their audiences in submissive states, pacified, vulnerable and malleable," Mr. Alverson said in an email.
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So why, between them, couldn't they come up with something better than a ham-handed parody of macho arm-twisting and submissive toadying in the manner of third-rate David Mamet or Harold Pinter?
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The suggestion is that the worst thing that could happen for these men is if they engaged in homosexual acts together, as if that devalues them as men, makes them submissive, or emasculates them.
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It holds that traditional, biologically determined gender roles (men dominant and rational, women submissive and emotional) mean that women aren't capable of regulating their own behavior or decisions and must be controlled by men.
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In a sculptural piece named Lost Subs, old gear from her past submissive partners was hung in the space—a replica of a harness; two actual collars worn by subs—generating an eerie, mournful energy.
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On Tinder, for instance, men tend to tilt their cameras from below to appear taller and more powerful, and women tend to hold their cameras from above, which makes them look shorter and more submissive.
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This does not correspond with the dominant view of womanhood in which women are expected to be caring, compliant, and submissive — not to stab their little brother to death with scissors, as Patty Columbo did.
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People will be clear about being submissive or dominant or enjoying both roles (which is called switch), and it would do the rest of us well to learn how to have those kinds of conversations.
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She says she began her training at the chateau as a submissive, and began to explore her dominant side after staff at La Domaine noticed her capacity to lead as a former professional ballroom dancer.
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I was pretty annoyed that it seemed to be a thing restricted to straight dating; I prefer older women and I liked the idea of being spoiled, and maybe being a bit submissive if required.
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But research also shows that because men and women are socialized differently — men to be more aggressive and assertive, women to be more submissive and nurturing — they approach mentor-mentee relationships from entirely different perspectives.
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"Last week, President Trump held a summit with Vladimir Putin, someone who has violated the most fundamental international norms ... in the summit's aftermath, we saw an American President who appeared submissive and deferential," Corker said.
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The twin rookie congresswomen, with their very existence, poke holes at the idea that only unveiled Muslim American women are suitably assimilated (read: safe) or that all veiled ladies are pathetically submissive or latent terrorists.
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But by 2016, she said, many Black Lives Matter activists were no longer using the chant because they felt it was submissive and they wanted to focus on language that they felt was more empowering.
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"President Trump held a summit with Vladimir Putin, someone who has violated the most fundamental international norms ... in the summit's aftermath, we saw an American President who appeared submissive and deferential," committee chairman, Republican Sen.
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But it's often the BDSM furniture that stands out: stocks and crosses, metal cages and medical-style equipment, fucking machines and giant latex sheets equipped with vacuum suction to wrap skin tight around a submissive.
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I could have a sensual bath, and I could have my submissive there to scrub my feet and oil my body and help me pick out lingerie to go on a date with someone else.
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The dogs responded with submissive behaviors like tucking their tails, a reaction that Ted Ruffman, a study author and professor of psychology at the University of Otago in New Zealand, described as low-level empathy.
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Expectant in the 40's, submissive in the 50's, enraged in the 60's, they have arrived in the 70's independent but somehow unstrung, not yet fully composed after all they've been through.
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The suggestion is that the worst thing that could happen for these men is for them to engage in homosexual acts together, as if that devalues them as men, makes them submissive, or emasculates them.
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While that may sound out of left field, Vocativ reports that, in major cities, personal listings are rife with creative ads from submissive white men volunteering to take a spanking in the name of stress-relief.
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Instead, net neutrality has become an integral part of a broader strategy to paint the unified Republican government as submissive to wealthy corporate interests, said three congressional staff members whose bosses seek re-election on Tuesday.
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Being a submissive does it for me, too: One Sunday morning, after a few slaps to my face with his penis and hand, my guy ordered me to go to his room, get naked, and masturbate.
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Ample pages cover Hillary's time in college, in law school and in Arkansas, but like Hillary herself, the book isn't sure what to do with her role as first lady — sounds so submissive and second-fiddle!
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As a self-styled feminist and student of the budding field of psychology at Harvard University, he formed a thesis that women are mentally stronger than men, but argued that they are also happiest being submissive.
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If a client comes in nervous, I might be more nurturing as I spank them over my knee; if they slide into a submissive role with confidence, I know I can be a bit more imperious.
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Lv cautioned that true reform cannot be achieved solely through changes to laws, as women are still subject to widespread discrimination, as well as deeply-entrenched traditional values that put pressure on them to be submissive.
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When it comes to BDSM kinks, some people, like my former partner, fit snuggly into a specific role: a dominant (one who takes a controlling role) or a submissive (one who submits to the dominant partner).
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Inevitably, many of her readers will be disappointed by any story that doesn't involve the dominant-submissive relationship between the sadomasochistic billionaire Christian Grey and his demure conquest Anastasia Steele, who becomes his willing sexual servant.
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By asserting the right to make their own decision, Republican representatives rejected the notion of the president as boss — and rejected also Mr. Ryan's submissive catering to the will of the man in the White House.
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While it's certainly possible for healthy relationships to flourish despite stark power imbalances, according to Jansen, a seasoned kinkster will take extra care to ensure the submissive can make a safe exit if and when they choose.
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As Rosemary, Mia Farrow may start out meek and submissive, eager to please her husband and fulfill her duties as a homemaker and wife, but she evolves throughout the film, her anxieties and burdens becoming our own.
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When I started to think about why I like what I like, I came to think maybe it all began because being submissive allowed me to override the basic Catholic schoolgirl shame of having sex at all.
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Whereas the commenters on Melania's page are priggish and critical, the commenters on Ivanka's page are more, ah, submissive: But Melania and Ivanka are non-politicians, and thus their feet are a little less charged with controversy.
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This kind of stern figure—typically in her 40s or 50s—sits on one end of the Asian woman spectrum in media; on the opposite side is a submissive, hypersexualized fantasy version that is also, weirdly, infantilized.
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The matches end when the judges decree that one of the dogs is exhibiting submissive behavior; they rarely fight to the death, in part because the winning dogs are too valuable to let them get badly injured.
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After months of this, I started to believe his insults: that I wasn't kinky, I was a prude, boring, not submissive enough, and it was stupid of me to be getting so anxious about our sex life.
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By the end of the weekend, a biocoating of his invention will be attached to a glowing wire under the forearm of Hylyx Hyx, a self-described "submissive for science" who met Louis in a Slack group.
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The Handkerchief Code is one of the most well-known, and involves color-coded hankies worn in the back pockets of jeans, which indicate sexual preferences and whether one is more dominant (left pocket) or submissive (right).
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Aftercare, a term coined by the BDSM community, refers to the routine done (usually by the person in the dominant role) in service of the person in the receiving/submissive role once rough sex or play has ended.
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"There's such a huge diversity of opinion, of talent, of how Muslim women look, of what they do — all of them trying to make the point that there is no one submissive type of Muslim woman," Janmohamed said.
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Marston wrote about women being to be superior to men in some aspects, but was also intrigued by the dynamic between the dominant and submissive — hence why so many Wonder Woman comics portrayed the heroine bound and blindfolded.
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I hated how docile and submissive I had become, especially when it came to my body, and I thought playing the role of a domme might help me actively rework my wiring and my relationship to societal expectations.
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The most senior figure detained, Prince Ahmed bin Abdulaziz, more than 70 years old, had once been recorded in London making comments distancing himself from the crown prince's policies but had since appeared submissive, at least in public.
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"There is still a belief in China, deeply ingrained in traditional culture, that it is a virtue of women to be submissive to the wishes of others," women's rights activist Ye Haiyan told the Washington Post in January.
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But Ms. Maybury, who also works as a dominatrix, has clothed the cutout with a necklace of 21971 color photographs, each showing a submissive, naked male client with the Photoshopped face of a different aging white rock star.
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Delivered in 1931 before a branch of the National Society for Women's Service, the speech celebrates Woolf's successful killing of the Angel in the House (the idea that a woman should be devoted and submissive to her husband).
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Queer femmes employ the hankie code in innovative ways—some wear them on their wrists, around their necks, or even in their hair, (the higher the hankie is worn, the more submissive they are, according to some circles).
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Contrast this with the innumerable portraits of Walter (always described as 'Nude' or 'Girl' to maintain secrecy); figures outlined by impossibly voluptuous, almost geometric curves and smooth liquid swirls, peacefully sleeping, head thrown back in abandon, or placidly submissive.
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On the other hand, Taqu advertised providing customers with a sexual outlet that is "totally submissive and can meet the needs of the single home boy," which let's just say is yet more evidence there's no accounting for taste.
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I wear a ball gag and lacy panties, while projections of my mouth and eyes, mapped onto my face and huge on the wall behind me, deliver a series of monologues about my experiences as a lifestyle bondage submissive.
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But Duterte's style of handling has frustrated nationalists, who say he has been submissive in refusing to criticise China's military buildup, or seek its compliance with a 2016 arbitration award that invalidated its claim to almost the entire waterway.
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But if the takeaway lesson from this project is that architects need a free pass, a vain, submissive client and an open checkbook to create a public spectacle, then the hub is a disaster for architecture and for cities.
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After a sputtering start to the U.S. Open that saw him drop the first set in his opening two matches in astonishingly submissive style, Federer had looked more like the silkly smooth Swiss maestro fans have come to expect.
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Selling clothing and beauty products via Facebook live streams is a rising trend in Cambodia, a conservative country where many expect women to be submissive and quiet, a legacy of Chab Srey, an oppressive code of conduct for women.
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Selling clothing and beauty products via Facebook live streams is a rising trend in Cambodia, a conservative country where many expect women to be submissive and quiet, a legacy of Chab Srey, an oppressive code of conduct for women.
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Critics have homed in on its dramatization of ageless gender stereotypes and divisions of labor: The men can be imperious, the women submissive; the garage is often the domain of the husband, the kitchen the responsibility of the wife.
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It really looks, at least from afar, like a weaponizing of the most pernicious stereotype placed on Asian women by the West — this insistence on seeing them as submissive and sexually compliant, which is to say, not seeing them at all.
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Duterte's management of those issues has frustrated nationalists, who say he has been submissive in refusing to criticize China's military buildup, or asking for its compliance with a 2016 arbitration award that invalidated its claim to almost the entire waterway.
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"I'm surprised that the idea of Asian women being submissive continues to be pretty strong in the culture, particularly given the degree to which Asian countries and China in particular have become more dominant over past 30 years," Hwang said.
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For example, as a legacy character, Wonder Woman has meant many different things at different points in time, evolving from an intentional representation of passive, submissive femininity in the 1940s into an overtly political icon in the '70s and '80s.
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The submissive man on the left (also nude but for Nike high-tops), his head literally detached from his body, turns his back on his partner, but there is ambiguity as to whether he considers his body desirable or taboo.
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These acts can include anything from the submissive partner being called names (like "slut") in bed, to the dominant one dipping their balls in and out of their partner's mouth (again, all of these acts are pre-discussed and consensual).
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The upshot of all this is a dynamic worthy of the protagonists in the bestselling erotic novel "Fifty Shades of Grey", with controlling financier Christian Grey and submissive college graduate Anastasia Steele playing the parts of buyer and minority shareholders, respectively.
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One surprise was when Representative Jerrold Nadler (D-New York) motioned to cut the hearing for an executive session to discuss President Trump's comments at the Helsinki press conference yesterday that he said were submissive to Russian president Vladimir Putin.
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Beyond that, Asians are generally considered more submissive (a stereotype that's perpetuated by the media) — which makes us even more desirable as dominatrixes, since apparently, there's something particularly hot about being dominated by an already-sexualized woman acting out of character.
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In the Gor universe, there is a near-ubiquitous master/slave dynamic between men and women, and the ladies—or "kajirae," who are submissive to the point of being physically and sexually brutalized by their masters—learn to love it.
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San Francisco will take down a controversial statue depicting a submissive Native American man after an outcry sparked by a deadly rally last summer in Charlottesville, Va., led the city's arts commission to vote unanimously this week to remove it.
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In the play, both the new and the old versions, Gallimard falls into a relationship with an Asian woman who he believes to be sort of submissive and extrapolates from that how the West should deal with the East politically.
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While Cambodia's young population is increasingly educated, many expect women to be submissive and quiet, a legacy of Chbap Srey, an oppressive code of conduct for women in the form of a poem that was on primary school curricula until 2007.
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" Todd's not willing to buy that Romans 13 still holds true, telling us ... "Based on the way our government runs, that would cause me to question my faith if I had to be submissive to the way this country's being handled.
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"The response was zero to 1000 because black women are expected to behave in ways that are submissive and mammy-like, and when you ask one question that's perceived to deviate from that, this is the punishment that you get."
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The BDSM components of 50 Shades of Grey were smuggled into a film with mass appeal via Christian Grey's affluence — in the cinematic adaptations, the fantasy of being Grey's submissive was overshadowed, for many, by the high-end perks that came with it.
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It is important to note that dating sims featuring female companions often emphasize shy, submissive, naive personality types for their characters, going as far as to base many their scenarios in a high-school setting, or at least, with a school-girl aesthetic.
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Other pernicious myths surrounding kink — for instance, that women who enjoy submissive sex under specific circumstances are secretly self-hating and are to blame for any abuse they might suffer in the future — are explicitly leveraged by abusive men to absolve themselves.
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Before the session starts Brian begins flirting, eventually obtaining Ginny's phone number; their liaison is among the less believable developments, although it naturally gives rise to a comic scene in which Ginny mockingly acts out the stereotype of the sexually submissive Asian woman.
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Channeling Your Inner Anastasia SteeleIf you've heard of 50 Shades Of Grey, then you have at least some idea of what it means to be submissive (though keep in mind that both the books and movies get a lot wrong about kink).
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It's very likely that this game all began, just like the "Jenna Thing," with Ali and her submissive group bullying someone, tormenting A until they concocted the perfect game of revenge that got out of hand (shout out to Lucas is A.D. believers).
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This notion held that men are conventionally masculine and unchallenged in their dominance, women are the submissive property of their husbands, and procreation is the primary purpose — all tightly controlled by government policies that sanction normative family forms and don't recognize any others.
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With her figures Faraj reveals our desire to explore the body's penetralia, to cajole and seduce, to dominate or be submissive, to find and test the limits of another's body, to discover our own boundaries, and to watch others do the same.
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Senator Bob Corker, Republican of Tennessee and the chairman of the committee, opened the session by saying that Mr. Trump had been "submissive and deferential" to Mr. Putin in Helsinki, and derided the administration's foreign policy as an incoherent "ready, fire, aim" approach.
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I don't have any "little lions" of my own, because I must share my home with someone who has "terrible allergies," but I attempted a similar technique using a kitchen whisk on a friend's kitten and she immediately rolled over in submissive confusion.
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Bugliosi's story has since been found to have plenty of holes in it — but his account of the Manson girls as submissive dupes whom Manson could use as sexual bartering chips became the way the country talked about the girls going forward.
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Faced with the certain exposure of his kinky sex life, Chuck Rhoades decides to risk sacrificing his wife's reputation at the altar of his own ambition to become the attorney general, preemptively revealing that he is a sexual submissive to the world.
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Pelosi's main question -- why these people, many of them Evangelicals, support President Trump -- keeps coming back to religious faith, yielding responses about Hurricane Harvey being "a wakeup call from God" or the Bible teaching that women should be submissive to their husbands.
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" In an article titled "The Diversity of Origin of the Human Races," published one month after the photos were taken, Agassiz described Africans as "submissive, obsequious, (and) imitative" and said they possessed "a peculiar indifference to the advantages afforded by civilized society.
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Its segments feature a dominant-submissive couple who conduct their relationship via the Internet and tracking technology; a female victim of an ex-boyfriend, who posted intimate photos of her; and a Japanese man who is in love with an animated character named Rinko.
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Palin contrasts Mr. Trump with Mr. Obama, has everything she relishes: Mockery of Mr. Obama's early years working in Chicago neighborhoods, right-wing accusations that the president has apologized for America, and a crude reference to him as a submissive sissy on foreign policy.
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It is a story that is essentially about both an underdog and a visionary, a business-savvy Man in a Suit, who hoodwinks the government until he has to bribe the government, amassing a fortune and the submissive respect of his peers along the way.
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On her hotwife lifestyle blog, Alexis McCall, a hotwife and self-described "hotwife lifestyle coach," clears up what she believes are some misconceptions, describing her relationship with her husband, who enjoys it when she has sex with other men but is not sexually submissive.
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Ms. Rosenblit may think of the production, which begins opaquely but ends on a whimsical note, as a solo for three dancers, but the real star is a heaping stack of fuchsia felt, which becomes a malleable fourth character: tactile, submissive and aggressively bright.
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Democrats are united as the patriot party, seizing the high ground and a powerful advantage throughout the nation, as the free world watched in horror when a Republican president appeared weak and submissive in the presence of a Russian dictator who is attacking our country.
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Steven Brounstein, a defense lawyer, said in his closing argument that Ms. Buchbinder had taken advantage of Mr. Nolan's mental illness and submissive personality, indoctrinating him with the idea that Mr. Weiss had to be eliminated because he posed a threat to her son.
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Marking the anniversary of the Panmunjom summit, the North's state media released a series of articles on Saturday blasting the South's "submissive" alliance with the United States, which it said tries to "interfere" in inter-Korean ties, and urging Seoul to "take a proper stand".
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That might seem like an inversion of power dynamics, but instructors across the board agree that many more men like to be tied than are currently represented in kinbaku media, which largely recreates heteronormative configurations of power with man as dominator and woman as submissive.
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His defiance of the EU and Europe's heaviest-hitting politicos -- especially on migration -- illustrate an unwavering will to rule that, in the eyes of extremists, distinguishes the uncompromising nationalist from submissive liberals, those who voluntarily hand over hard-won national power to foreign authorities.
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From the day's catch, I selected a grilled whole San Pietro, or John Dory fish — possibly the most unsightly flatfish the Adriatic has to offer, but light and submissive in the mouth, requiring only a little parsley and lemon to bring out its gentle brininess.
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If there's one thing missing from the book, it's Ms. Baird's thoughts on why Victoria let herself become submissive to Albert for so long, but perhaps the answers to that are too obviously linked to the loss of a father so early in life.
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To the untrained eye, kinbaku doesn't look all that different from its roots in torture, but practitioners extol the virtues and pleasures of "sub space," in which submissive partners can achieve a meditative state that is deeply therapeutic—finding, like so many BDSM enthusiasts, liberation in bondage.
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While you get some dialogue options to communicate consent, the idea is that the dominatrix basically inhabits the role of the player, while the person wearing the headset becomes her game as a submissive, flipping the traditional adult video script of the player being in control.
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She dives into her struggles with things that most women are all too familiar with: Society's idea of physical beauty, sexism in the workforce (the TV industry in her case), and being called "bossy" simply because you're not the submissive woman the society wants you to be.
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Mary Gallagher, who directs the Lieberthal-Rogel Center for Chinese Studies at the University of Michigan, said entrepreneurs like Mr. Cao often populate their factories with migrants from rural areas, whom they expect to be relatively submissive, unlike American workers, who expect a more collegial management style.
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They noted that while critics of Islam here often charge that it keeps women submissive, the response to Ms. Abdel-Magied — a 26-year-old feminist who founded an organization called Youth Without Borders — shows that a Muslim woman can also raise their ire by speaking out.
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I learned there's a considerable amount of room for black dommes and other such figures, but it can get fuzzy for those of us who fall under submissive categories and as a black woman, there's something that rubbed me the wrong way about having a white male dominant.
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After all, Mr. Haas had jolted some readers earlier that week when he spoke openly to The New York Times about "devilish desires," his interest in playing with pain and the happiness he has found in his fourth marriage, which is based on a dominant-submissive power exchange.
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Blackout appears to be a psychological experience above all else, in which attendees are degraded, suffocated, insulted, and rendered utterly submissive, but they find camaraderie with other "survivors", building a support network to talk about their shared experiences that starts to feel like something out of Fight Club.
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"Indeed, much of cuckolding porn is focused on submissive themes, where the husband has a tiny penis compared to the hung guy that fucks his wife," says Michael Aaron, PhD, a kink-friendly therapist in New York City and author of Modern Sexuality: The Truth about Sex and Relationships.
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"A male friend had asked me about why I had chosen a boyfriend who was, in his eyes, more like a girlfriend: younger, prettier and obedient," she writes, and in her photos her boyfriend is submissive, vulnerable, and frequently nude, as male artists have so often depicted their muses.
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The allure of high-income submissive men willing to drop big whale money in particular has led to an explosion in the number of cam performers trying to adopt financial dominatrix, or findom, personas in recent years, adopting glam, haughty, and unobtainable airs and bossing their rooms around.
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" Treadwell, she adds, had a "savvy understanding" of the fact that audiences of the day, especially white ones, "needed Vaughan to seem silent, submissive, powerless and not disruptive so that, ironically enough, they could hear her voice, with its vitality, humanity, beauty and ability to challenge racial boundaries.
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The lyrics in Mitski's songs often project a paradoxical attitude that I associate with a specific type of millennial-feminist art— Sally Rooney novels come to mind—in which female strength takes the form of defiantly displaying a full range of roiling emotions, including self-abasing or submissive ones.
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We see toxic masculinity in our culture when "women are depicted as submissive, passive, and meek, while men are viewed as strong, dominant, and virile," Mellissa Withers, a professor at the University of Southern California Institute for Global Health and an expert in gender-based violence, told Vox.
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"What bothers me about this announcement is that it comes after the news story that a kid who wrote 'I live in a terrorist house' instead of 'terraced house' was subject to an official intervention, and after David Cameron's announcement about English lessons and 'submissive Muslim women,'" says Camille.
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I have had clients concerned that they could not be truly dominant if they were disabled, who then realized what a great way to have submissive partners provide service—like bringing pills on time, making sure they stay hydrated, prepping and cleaning up play spaces, or massaging painful body parts.
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That said, I wonder if my fixation on Shredder, this silent, dangerous person who holds your life in his hands, led me to be a little too eager to forsake safety precautions—and whether my fascination with martyrdom led me to mistakenly identify as a submissive for a long time.
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Yet, I can't help but feel everything that makes me submissive — when she makes the first move to initiate sex, when she lays me down in her bed, and when she drapes her arms around me to cuddle — relegates me to the "feminine" role in our relationship and makes me weak.
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This is to obviate a well-known BDSM phenomenon sometimes called "the drop"—a quasi-depressive state which happens in the wake of adrenaline and endorphin spikes and can leave submissive and dominant participants feeling vulnerable, fatigued, guilty in the 24-to-72 hours after the scene has taken place.
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She's the woman who put a young actress who wouldn't sleep with Weinstein on the cover of the premiere issue of Talk dressed in S&M garb, crawling painfully toward the camera on her stomach like a submissive, and so generically made up as to render her unrecognizable as an individual.
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These are some of the basic narrative elements of Gioachino Rossini's 1813 comedic opera "L'Italiana in Algeri" ("The Italian Girl in Algiers"), which tells the story of Mustafa, a Turkish bey, or governor, who wants to jettison his wife, Elvira, and who complains that Muslim women are too ingratiating and submissive.
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She found that between ages 4 and 11, upper-middle-class children from mostly white neighborhoods around Boston increasingly viewed race as a permanent condition and expressed stereotypes about other racial groups: that blacks were aggressive or, on the flip side, good at basketball; that Asians were submissive and good at math.
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Those things are red flags for me—if we enter into a potentially very intimate relationship together and you began it by not only lying, but assuming I won't check up on you and you can trick me, it's a good indicator you are not a good match for me as a submissive.
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" The key, said Mollena Williams, a self-described submissive and author of "Playing Well With Others," is to "make a list of things that you absolutely need to have in order to feel safe, in order to feel heard, and then make a list of things that would be great if they happened.
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In a joint appearance with his wife, who now goes by Mollena Williams-Haas, late last year at the Playground sexuality conference in Toronto, then in an interview this month in the online music magazine VAN, he has "come out," as he put it, as the dominant figure in a dominant-submissive power dynamic.
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"I watched my mom have to be submissive, watch her Ps and Qs or she's gonna get beat up... You can either be, unfortunately, so damaged by it that you take a turn for the worse, or you can feel empowered by it and make choices to never go down that route," she explained.
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She adds that empty "liquor cabinets" were used for sex work, and the ownership at that time, which she describes as "shadowy" and Russian, encouraged prostitution—and that one dancer at the club had a " Felix the Cat magic bag" filled with vibrators, nipple clamps, and other gear for female submissive S&M sessions.
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One Spin profile chided reviews "that have taken her fondness for cosmetics and navel-displaying stage wear as compelling evidence to impeach her as the sort of pliant, submissive fuck toy of which we should have long been rid," underlining that it was just who Stefani was: "Maybe I should be more of a tough chick," she said.
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Ultimately, the point of virtual reality is to bring you closer to the action, to give you the lead (or indeed submissive) role, and independent, feminist studios like Lust's claim their porn does far more for the movement to make porn for everyone than the traditional studios drip-feeding mostly male audiences with the same clichéd porn scenes.
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" In a 2005 Salon article about the Harajuku Girls, writer Mihi Ahn says, "Stefani fawns over harajuku style in her lyrics, but her appropriation of this subculture makes about as much sense as the Gap selling Anarchy T-shirts; she's swallowed a subversive youth culture in Japan and barfed up another image of submissive giggling Asian women.
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Although my earliest erotic fantasies consistently portrayed me in submissive roles, I didn't discover how spanking could change my sex life until I was 20 and hooking up with multiple dominant men whose relationship with me centered around them whooping my ass and me proudly sexting them pictures of my deep-purple bruises the next day.
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In terms of recent movies, "Crazy Rich Asians" has a bit in common with "Fifty Shades of Grey," to the extent that Rachel falls for a super-rich guy with a high degree of difficulty built into the relationship -- there, his dominant-submissive appetites; here, his disapproving mom and the prying eyes of those encircling them.
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"The Asian American Achievement Paradox" touches on this, too: Despite supposedly positive stereotypes of Asians, we still face what Lee calls a "bamboo ceiling," keeping us from leadership positions and from recognition in more subjective career fields — which tend not to favor a demographic that lacks networking connections and has long been imagined to be uncreative or submissive.
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"What struck me about that tweet was not just that it's obviously wrong to allow Saudi Arabia to dictate our foreign policy, but that the president doesn't seem to be aware of how submissive it makes him look to say that," said Representative Tom Malinowski, Democrat of New Jersey and a former assistant secretary of state.
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In 2016, the National Network to End Domestic Violence (NNEDV) found that sexualized, submissive stereotypes of Asian women had lead to staggering rates of violence, with 41 to 61 percent of Asian women reporting that they've experienced physical and/or sexual violence by an intimate partner during their lifetime — a statistic that exceeds that of any other ethnic group.
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John Legend says that President TrumpDonald John TrumpSessions says he still supports Trump despite ouster as AG House Republicans voice concerns about White House's impeachment messaging Giuliani consulted with Manafort on Ukraine info: report MORE is "threatened by women" who "aren't submissive to him" while discussing his and his wife's viral Twitter spat with the president last month.
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It's most explicit in adult-oriented games from the early part of the decade: take the pouting women in Bubble Bath Babes (1991), the "gas pump girls" of Leather Goddesses of Phobos 1003 (1991), and Spellcasting 301: Spring Break (1992), in which the protagonist, Ernie Eaglebeak, has his way with an array of beautiful, submissive women.
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But the teasing and taunting nature of the torpedoes stays with me as a view into the type of masculinity I've inherited with coming of age in the US. I think of the typical schoolyard bully who likes to joke and taunt before physically brutalizing a victim, performing the role of dominant to the victim's submissive.
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This confident, vampish St. Vincent was a world away from the skittish Texan indie guitarist who'd toured with the Polyphonic Spree and Sufjan Stevens during the 2000s and made records on the side, or even the more musically equanimous and ambitious St. Vincent on the wonderful 2011 album Strange Mercy, which explored the unlikely bedfellows of submissive sexuality and depression.
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In one image for example, a Dominant Saudi OPEC Minister Khalid Al-Falih pins down a submissive, bare-breasted UN Secretary Ban Ki Moon against a backdrop of the Ghawar Field, the largest oil field in the world — a reference to Saudi blackmailing the UN to remove them from the Human Rights Watch Blacklist, while referencing D/s roles in BDSM culture.
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We also think Putin was purposefully complimenting you -- this time on your track record on fulfilling campaign promises to American voters, which the White House has also touted -- probably because he thinks flattery gets your attention (you called him after he previously complimented the US economy), and he may make you more submissive to agreeing to what he wants from you.
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Women from two of the colony's families meet secretly in a hayloft to decide what they should do — whether to stay and fight (the members of their colony consider themselves to be pacifists, and the women are supposed to be submissive) or to leave the colony altogether (they have no maps, they are functionally illiterate, and they only speak Plautdietsch, a Low German language spoken by Mennonites).
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I'm transforming this unfinished basement gallery into a glossy black dungeon and showing a new series of collaged self-portraits and a new video that blends the lines between video art and pornography, and takes on the seeming contradictions within the queer submissive consciousness: experiencing restraint as comforting, experiencing humiliation as affirming, experiencing exposure as a kind of armor, and experiencing bondage as freedom.
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"If M. Butterfly's successful, what it allows us to do is just be aware — when we go into see a Madame Butterfly, yes, we can enjoy the music and we can enjoy the costumes and also realize there's this kind of subliminal message and sometimes explicit message that we're getting, which is about Western dominance, which is about Asian women being submissive, which is about white male supremacy," Hwang said.
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If consent should be negotiated, how do we simulate a negotiation in a game — should the player try different options at different times to see what the game's submissive agrees to do with you (like in my game Hurt Me Plenty), or maybe technological consent takes the form of a EULA [End User License Agreement — like those pesky iTunes Terms of Service] that you click through without reading (like in Cobra Club).
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